This stripper told me that she and my fiance had a one night stand how can i trust him,he told me she is lying

ive been with him for a long time it has been four years.we met at a strip club.i worked there.we met then started dating two days after i started there.i just wanted to be friends,he said no,he has alot of friends already.it has to be dating or nothing.but now im in love with this man.my three kids love him to.they call him dad.i want to marry him soon,but cant right now because i cant trust him.what should i do?he met me there at a strip club how do i know that isnt true about them.he works late everynight.This stripper told me that she and my fiance had a one night stand how can i trust him,he told me she is lyingIt's like what Lenin said... you look for the person who will benefit...





Is the stripper benefiting in any way by telling you?



Or is he benefiting by lying to you?This stripper told me that she and my fiance had a one night stand how can i trust him,he told me she is lying
You met him at a strip club...need I say more... I think so. I would say that if you can't trust him, then don't marry him. What you're going through now will be the same if not worse when you get married. Do you want to be up all night looking out the window? or Waking up late and finding that he is gone? or Getting random phone calls from random chicks? I would say "move on" there are other men out there who want to have a family with a good woman and her babies...I hope this helps:-).This stripper told me that she and my fiance had a one night stand how can i trust him,he told me she is lyingYou already answered your own question by saying the "stripper and your fiance HAD a one nite stand" Were you just dating then or had you both agreed to be engaged and not date others when this occurred?



She has nothing to gain if this was a "meaning-less date" from the past and admits it was a ONE time thing. Does she seem to be interested now?



If your fiance says she is lieing-does he have any reason to deny what had already happened? Past history IS over and done. It can't be changed and if you dwell on the past-you will be history too.



Honesty and trust are KEY factors in any lasting relationship and it won't survive without it!!! If either of you are worried about people from the past, think they are seeing someone else, feel they lie or can't be trusted; GETTING MARRIED won't change those feelings and it's doomed and headed for failure.



Where you met doesn't matter-where you're headed does!
why would she lie? what does she benifit?This stripper told me that she and my fiance had a one night stand how can i trust him,he told me she is lyingtrust yourself withhim... if you get a wierd feeling in your gut then you know hes been lying but if you really believe in him and trust him then you know that he hasnt betrayed you.This stripper told me that she and my fiance had a one night stand how can i trust him,he told me she is lying
I would check it out. It is true that some women will lie, but at the same time I would take it into consideration, since you met him in a strip club. Without trust you have nothing, I wouldn't marry him until I know that I am the only one and he has not cheated. In the meantime, check out what was told to you. Better safe than sorry.
ahhaha never ever pick man who visit a strip club to date please dont u must be kidding me right of course he got the stripper done damm i wouldThis stripper told me that she and my fiance had a one night stand how can i trust him,he told me she is lying
who are you going to believe? a stiper? or YOUR fiance?

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Best of luck!!!