I cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?

Ok, so I know this is long but I'm begging for help here.

Ever since ive been 3 i've been best friends with a girl. We grew up next door to each other, played almost ever day together, went to kindegarden together, went to school together, and even went to the same college, to do the same course. We are even so close that my mom considers her a daughter and has a photo of her on the wall. When we were 14, we started to "date" each other in our own 14 year old way, go to the cinema, hold hands, kiss on check etc.. As we got older, our relationship moved on and we became more serious with age. As cheesy as it sounds she made me feel on top of the world everyday and the happiest kid in the world. She was perfect. She was my soulmate. Then I done a terrible thing. One week she was out of the country and I got very very very very very very drunk celebrating the end of exams in a bar and i ended up having sex with a random hookup who I had never met before. I was so drunk that I couldnt even remember it. The only way I know it happened was because I woke up in the chicks bed. I felt like something at the bottom of someone's shoe. When my girlfriend got home, she found out off a girl in college who was a friend of the girl who I'd slept with. My girlfriend ended our relationship because she said that although she loved me more than anything in the world, she said that the hurt was too much.



That was 9 months ago and I still pine every second over my girlfriend. My life hasn't been the same. I try to call her every day to say sorry, ive wrote songs for her, ive done everything. I havent even looked at another girl.

Oh and my exgirlfriend is lovely, honestly couldnt meet a nicer girl. never did a bad thing to anybody in her life.



If you were my ex-girlfriend, would you forgive me? Do you think that what I've done can be forgiven and forgotten about?I cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?Yes i could forgive you but i could never forget it.I cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?
You have been very naughty but I think I would give you a second chance. Life is too short.I cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?she might be like Rachel from Friends and think "Once a cheater,always a cheater"

or...

she may not?
Ha.I cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?No.I cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?
dont need to read details....NO
i didnt read it i just say... HECK NOI cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?
I would forgive you and take you back



just let her know that she can always see your e-mails and texts and everything assure her nothing will happen, tell her you'll only get drink a lot with her around from now on.



and if she ever forgives, know that she won't ever forget.
I don't think i could, she trusted you more than anything and you let her down. You grew up together and being drunk doesn't give you any less of a reason, drink is a de-present and although you may have forgotten at the time about her she should always be in your mind.

I think you should let her have time to explore life without you, she won't be able to trust the hurt humiliation and pain you caused her. Let her get on with her own life and maybe someday fate will bring you and your paths together.

I know because it has happened to me.

I wish you all the best of luck.
My boyfriend cheated on me and as much as I love him and really care for him, I can't take him back. The hurt and memory is always there and the relationship would be so different. So honestly, no.
If I was she I wouldn麓t forgive you.

You know why? 麓cause:

He that lied once ...he will always lie..

He that cheated once鈥?he will always cheat.

It麓s within your body system pal ! Sorry !

But anyway I sincerely hope your sweetheart could forgive you!

Good luck!
She knows you better than any girl (excluding your mom, lol). And I undrstand how you and her could be so serious about each other. It was a mistake, so she should know your character enough to know you are sincere with your apology. Give her time to think things through. And you need time away from her as well so you can regain from the pain.



Personally if I was her I would give the relationship another chance. I would talk with you and gradually take it from there. Everything takes time.



Remember we all make mistakes. Our mistakes is what makes us grow. If you and her can get through this together it will be proof that you and her can get through anything life throws at both of you.



I really wish you the ultimate best!
i could forgive you, yes. But that wouldn't stop me thinking of you with another girl every time I was with you. If she was that special, you wouldn't have done it, that's how she's feeling, and she acts like she doesn't think about it, but she will do, a lot. You hurt her, it won't be forgotten, ever. you just move on, but with arguments, it'll always be brought up and she won't trust you ever again, she'll question you to where you are, where you've been, who your with and I really do not blame her.