I love him so much how can i get him back?

We were the best of friends for two years and could tell eachother anything. He told me he loved me one night and i told him that i loved him to. The next day he asked me out. We had talked about a future togetherr and were positive that noone would ever take our places. We went out for a monthe before all the "bumps" came. I was accusing him of liking another girl which he told me he liked her but LOVED me. I cried myself to sleep that night and the next morning he tried to get me back, but i was scared. Two days later he told me he asked another girl out. I was devistated! I knew that i could never live without him, and still no that. We talk now and i dont think he likes me that way anymore, should i tell him hoe i feel or see how things play out? Please no answers like 'you just have to move on'. I NEED HIM IN MY LIFE!!!I love him so much how can i get him back?you don't want to hear move on but you have no choice here sweetie.



You both tried to make a friendship into more than it was. It was worth the effort but neither of you were mature enough to handle it....and know what LOVE really is. Love is more than feeling and emotion....MUCH MORE and it wasn't there. Hanging onto false hopes will hurt you much more...facing realtiy right now is best for you...even if it hurts like hell.



You don't have to live without him. YOu can be good friends and have him in your life forever. You just have to realize you can't HAVE him in any other way.



Relationships are hard ...they take the best of us and make the worst of us...and we have to grow with it and understand it and make peace with it. It is risking a part of ourselves we dont' want to risk..but without that we are closed off from life.



You learned much from this relationship. You have to think about that and realize that each relationship you have you learn something about yourself and who you want in your life and it helps determine who you end up in the end.



I know how painful this is for you...we have all lost that love of our life...someone we thought we woudl live forever with and later find out how wrong it was and we can't do anything about it. You can't force him to come back...you can't force a love that isn't there...you cannot force a future with him without LOSING him forever.



I wish we could do that....but we can't.



You CAN live without him. You will obsess about him, cry over him...lose sleep and even weight over him...you will think your world will never come to a peaceful solution...and then one day it will start to get better. You will think less and less about him and you will move on with the future.



You are grieving...that is normal and necessary. Take your time doing this and be around those that love you and can help you get through this. Take your time...talk to a professional if you get too depressed and take some long hot baths and drink some comforting tea...do nice things for yourself. The most important thing here is to take care of YOU....



Good luck...and I am sorry you can't do anything to change things.I love him so much how can i get him back?
Love is a really powerful thing and if he loved you once it won't be long until he falls for you again, try talking to him and telling him what's on your mind, don't let him get away with this! You can get him back if you just let him know how things are for you... try telling him that you truly do love him, and if he loves you too everything should work out fine.I love him so much how can i get him back?You need to show him that you still care for him and tell him exactly how you feel. If he says he doesn't have those feelings for you anymore, that's when you need to move on. But I think you shouldn't give up if you really love him.
what comes easy goes easy!



he knows that you love him, it's normal as a behavior!



you have two choices:



1- MOVE ON or

2- MOVE ON!



both of them will get him to you back, trust me!I love him so much how can i get him back?TWO THINGS - (1) He has a loyalty issue - and YOU have a self esteem issue - Everyone is entitled to the best - so is a cheater best for you - is that all you're worth!! mmmmm??I love him so much how can i get him back?
really i thinkk that you should jus be friends for a while.

try to get the friend relationship backk.

and talk to himm.

donnt think he can get you;

play hard to get with himm.

donnt rush thinggs agaain.
talk to him.

tell him how you feel.

dont wait too long.

if you dont hell think you have moved on.I love him so much how can i get him back?
baby just tell him how you feel cause if he wants you to it will all work out