Heres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?

i had an ex hu didnt want 2 leave me alone so i decided 2 hav a baby w/sum1 else so he would quit bugging me.i was going 2 hav a party %26amp; i knew i would b ovulating that nite so i asked my friend 2 bring his really hot friend around.the friend of the friend came along %26amp; he told me he had a gf.he ddnt talk to me much but i still pursued him %26amp; followed him evrywhere.he kept on brushing me off but wen he got really drunk,we had sex 2x.now im 23.5wks pregnant %26amp; i told him in august.he confessed 2 his gf wat happened %26amp; he cried 2 her %26amp; begged 4 her 4givness so she took him back.he told me he wants nothing 2 do w/the baby til the age of 5-10yrs old.he apparently loves his gf %26amp; wants nothing 2 do w/me.its not fair that he doesnt want 2 c the baby 4 that long.yet he wants a baby so desperately w/his gf %26amp; his gf wants 2 have a baby w/him also.haha atleast im the one hu will be giving him a baby 1st but what do i do to make him c the baby sooner?if he sees the baby 1ce,he'l want 2 c it more.help.Heres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?Congratulations on ruining your child's life before it's even born.Heres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?
I would love to help you out with this but reading this gives me a headache. You will get more help if you write legibly.Heres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?Omg! u shouldnt mess with peoples heads like this! What you did with making sure it was the right day ect to get bk at ur ex is stupid! Think of what this poor baby is going to go though because you 'wanted to get bk at ur ex'. If he is the father he has every right to see the baby without or WITH his girlfriend.

And if you raise this baby and say that he cant talk to him or her because of his gf then the baby will grow up without a father!

I dont understand why u hate his gf so much wen u did this to urself.

Dont like what people say? Dont post the question!

People are only saying the truth!
This will sound harsh, but what the hell gives you the right to make him choose?

My daughter is 5 and her father wants nothing to do with her, do you realise how that makes her feel. I didn't see my dad for 17yrs as my mum stopped him seeing me, I hated her for it.

This is a child, not a toy, not a weapon and not a way of trying to get a guy who obviously doesn't want to be with you. You manipulated the guy into getting you pregnant, it was a planned trap.

I hope that the baby will knock some sense into you, and that you'll grow up, or I'd book your child in with a psychologist coz your gonna seriously stuff his/her head up.



Good luck and grow up, your about to be a mother.Heres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?I am not quite sure why you are upset. You say in your own question that you purposely had this party when you knew you could get pregnant. Then you invited this guy for the purpose of trying to have his baby, for the purpose of getting your ex to leave you alone, which is NO reason to give birth to a child. So why are you upset that he wants nothing to do with the baby? Should he still be responsible and pay child support? Yes, he did have a part to play in all of it, but you have no right to expect him to be a great dad and be at your house all the time with the baby. Also, I don't see how his girlfriend is the skank here. She didn't do anything wrong. He is lucky she is still putting up with him. Basically I don't think you can expect much from a man who was so willing to cheat on his girlfriend and I am sure he realizes he was manipulated by you now so I don't see why you are upset. This is exactly what you were wanting. A baby by another guy. So now you are getting that. If you wanted him to be such a big part you should have probably consulted him BEFORE you got pregnant.Heres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?
damn.... is this myspace?
im sorry but its too late for you to be taking the high ground now....what youv done has affected these peoples lives....unfortunatly youv gota deal with itHeres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?
Sterilization would have been a smarter way of not having the ex's baby.
You need to right now get yourself into parent mode %26amp; concentrate now on what is best for your baby. I hope u have been getting good prenatal care %26amp; taking care of your and your baby health. I hope you are able to provide for him or her. Figure out how u will arrange work %26amp; child care etc



I don't know why he says he does not want contact until the baby is 5-10 yrs, probably more that he wants to avoid U. It would be better for the baby to have a father in his/her life and the early yrs are very important but u cannot force him to see the baby. However u should get a paternity test and get an order for child support . He may feel you tricked him but he chose to have sex w/ you and as the father he is legally responsible. Maybe since he has to pay, he may decide he might as well see the baby, and yeah, u r right, that MAY make him want to see it more. But pls remember this is 4 yr baby's sake, just 4get about trying to get this guy 4 yrself; if you keep bothering him %26amp; cause trouble btw him %26amp; the gf, it may backfire and make him want to spend less time not more with the baby. %26amp; be careful not to make any comments like "I'm the one who gave u a baby" that is likely to really irritate him if he %26amp; the gf r ttc.



The other thing is, if he is paying support he can have visitation, take the kid for visits etc %26amp; I don't think you can stop him from including his gf. Unless she is like a convicted child abuser or s.t.

(%26amp; btw it blows my mind - -.you made a heavy play to get her bf to **** u when he was drunk so u cld use him to get u preg, then she forgives him takes him back %26amp; now u the 1 calling HER a skank? I bet she has some choice words for u too).



Good luck on making a good life for this baby.
I am so sick of reading about your trashy entrapment of this poor guy.



Will you quit posting this over and over again?



That's it.



I'm reporting you.
Because you are simply the desperate chick who gave it up to him with ease. There was no emotional link. It was a emotionless act. Yeah, a baby is the result of it BUT that isn't going to change the way he feels. He loves his gf. That's the woman he wants to be with and have a family with. You're not that woman, the baby is not that baby he wants. The only thing he owes you right now is to be a responsible man and take care of the baby and nothing else, you don't count, he owes you nothing else. You got knocked up because you were careless. Yes, you both were careless BUT as a female, you have to look out for yourself and my dear, you didn't because you had one thing in mind and that was to lay up with dude and tie him up. You screwed yourself over. Be upset with yourself. It's called consequences. A baby does not a make a man love any woman. A baby doesn't tie a man to any woman. A baby does not make things better. So, put your big girl panties on, build a bridge, and get over it because you have a long road ahead of you. Time to be a loving, responsible person %26amp; mom.