What should i do my husband is in love with another woman?

He is a truck driver and his team driver is a woman (which i thought was fine at first ) until he called our her name one night in bed and then told me that he loved her.. he has told me that they haven't taken anywhere but they have so much in common.. what do i doWhat should i do my husband is in love with another woman?First of all, I'm sorry. It's always painful to hear something like this. Secondly, I don't know the guy but I know how men in my past of been, and if he's saying that he loves her, but that they "haven't taken it anywhere," then I believe there is a chance that's not being truthful with you. That's not definite, but it's something that you need to consider because honesty is one of the most important factors in a successful relationship. And that's one of the things you need to stress to him - that you want the truth, as hard as it may be to hear.



And before going any further, I can't stress how important this is enough - I know this is a difficult situation (I've been there honey!) and it's so hard to control your emotions and your temper sometimes, but you need to try your best to discuss this with him in a calm fashion. Screaming, yelling, cussing - all of that will only push him farther away from you, and prevent you from getting the answers you seek. I know it's hard, but *try* to have a calm discussion as opposed to a vicious argument. What will be, will be...screaming, yelling, and cussing at each other will only induce even more stress than you're already under, and I'm sure you certainly don't need that.



If you think that you would still like to try to make things work, you need to ask him where HE stands in the situation and what HE wants out of the situation. You already know where you stand if you want to make it work, but his answer to that question could very well change your stance.



If he wants to make things work with you, you need to ask him to find another team driver to work with - one of the MALE persuasion, or drop team driving all together. If he refuses to do so, in my personal opinion, there is little hope for long-term reconciliation for you two, because you are constantly going to be wondering "what if" in your head when he's out on the road.



However, if he agrees to do so, I believe the next step should be for him to take some extra home time (I'm a trucker's girlfriend, so I know how hard that home time is to come by!), and you need to try to take a few days off work too (if applicable), and set up a series of marriage counseling sessions. As someone who has been through couples' counseling, I personally feel that the best strategy is for you to go in first and talk about what's bothering you, then for him to go in, and then for both of you to go in together. That gives the counselor a better grasp on your situation, and affords him/her better tools to help you repair the damage. You can do that in one session (that's what I did) - 15 minutes for you, 15 minutes for him, 30 minutes for both of you together (or an hour, depending on your budget).



Both before and after the counseling, you both need to spend quality time together, compromising on activities. You spend time with him doing some things that he enjoys, and he needs to spend some time with you doing things that you enjoy. Go on dates. Leave him little love notes. Do things to bring back that pre-marriage spark. What did you two do before you got married that you both enjoyed, but you're not doing now? Try doing some of those things again. Get out your photo albums and look through those together....reflect on the wonderful times you've shared together.



These things aren't easy to get through, but if you both love each other, and you're willing to work hard at it, there's no reason that you can't get past this and live happily ever after. Best of luck to you, my dear.What should i do my husband is in love with another woman?
At this point ask him if he's willing to find another team driver and never see or talk to this woman again.



If he says yes.....you need marriage counseling.



If he says no.....it's time to leave.What should i do my husband is in love with another woman?divorce him!!!!!!!!! you shouldnt even have to ask this you should know what to do!
Leave himWhat should i do my husband is in love with another woman?buy life insurance and use your imagantionWhat should i do my husband is in love with another woman?
Well he may be having fantasies about her.. which is normal BUT I would not be cool with mixing names up. If he's going to cheat, he's going to cheat... it doesn't matter with who or how much they have in common. First off he needs to find a team driver... he has already crossed the line (even if it wasn't intentional) ... just out of respect for you and your feelings. It may not be anything but its obvious they're sharing a deep relationship (not saying sexual) because they're driving around together all the time and talking. Good luck. Maybe someone will have some useful advice about what you should do.
The question is; What are you willing to do to save your marriage? I'm assuming you love him.



Some people can "forgive and forget", but some cannot.



Trust is a key ingredient in a marriage. And it can seldom be repaired once it's broken, IMO.



See if you can deal with this. If you cannot, then get a divorce. You will need to vent and sort out your feelings, so I'd ask you to go to counseling. This is not an easy situation to deal with.What should i do my husband is in love with another woman?
Have an Affair. If I can be of any assistance, just give me a holler
Wow, sorry!! First thing he needs to do is transfer teams so that he isn't working with her!! This is the crucial first step to saving your marriage. If he is unwilling to do that, then you're going to have to let him go.



If he agrees, then you will have to sit down and find out why he wants to stray from your marriage. I hate to say it, but most men cheat. Some cheat because they are complete self absorbed jerks, others cheat because they don't know how to handle getting older, and still others cheat because they think that their wives don't give them enough attention.



This is the twisted part, but you will have to defend yourself and your marriage in order to keep him. He's in this state of mind that he thinks his life will be better without you. Convince him it won't. You can do this without looking pathetic. You can do this without him getting defense and it turning into a shouting match. Go online and look for some good quotes or ways to manipulate him.
I would ask him where you 2 should go from here. If you like the answer, stick with him, if not, then leave him. Being in love with another woman does not necessarily mean he has done anything wrong except fantasize. Be wary and very careful.
my ex husband is a truck driver,he cheated on me several times.your husband should only be in love with you not her.tell him to get rid of her or your going to leave.he has already commited adultry with her,even if they did not have sex yet,but they will,i am sure of it.marriage counceling,or divorce
ummmmm... what do you think? leave his a**! u are too good or him n e ways. no woman deserves that- leave him and focus on yourself-your mind-your body(healthwise) and go buy yourself something...treat yourself ya know? and the right man will come to you- don't go looking for him-let mr. truck driver go be with his "lover"...