Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Why does girl change her mind after one night? Urgent Help Please?

Girl comes to my house to pick up her phone gets drunk and we kiss. she says how sexy I am and how she loves me etc. Stays the night heavy petting only. Next day she txts thanks me and SHE SUGGESTS LUNCH.



I text a couple of dates and then, one day later, get a blow off type of message about going away, non specific - you know when something has changed and its now a week I have not heard.



Its difficult not to take it personally trouble is I like this girl and although I have quite a few girls its very rare i find one I like.



Im racking my brain trying to undertsand why she changed her mind so quick? I can understand why somebody may be differrent sober tha drunk but she suggested lunch not me, we have not spoken since she did, and now Im getting cut out. ! I am non-chalant and not at all heavy so it wont be a matter of me coming onto strong.I thought we had a real connection!



What possible reasons could there be for her change in heart?Why does girl change her mind after one night? Urgent Help Please?You got played like a guitar.Why does girl change her mind after one night? Urgent Help Please?As we all know, alcohol "clouds the mind" and makes you do things you otherwise wouldn't do when your sober, ie, the kiss and her telling you everything that she did.

The lunch, may have been her trying to reach out to you to talk about the night before to explain that she wasn't aware of what she was doing.

She may have realized she couldn't come to face you and decided to "blow you off".

Bottom line, it's her not you, just give it time, if she really liked you to begin with, she'll eventually contact you when she thinks enough time has passed.

Most females don't want to start off a relationship like that and she may feel like now that it's started you may be expecting it even if you don't show it it doesn't change what she thinks and feels.Why does girl change her mind after one night? Urgent Help Please?because girls do that. I would suggest switching teams.
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