Still in love with ex boyfriend and jealousy problems..?

We have known each other for about 4 months, and about a month after we met, he got with a girl who i was jealous of, and he didn't know i liked him, but i wanted them to break up. He's a sort of.. man whore, i guess. He will have sex with about anyone he sees, and then, after they broke up, he told me that he loves me. One night, since we were both in love, we made love, and i gave my virginity to him and we were both single for a while after that, but in love. Since he didn't show any interest in me other than sex, Then, i went out with a different guy, but it didn't last long at all. It lasted a day before he admitted that he did wanna be with me and that if i wanted to be with the guy, that i could, but he was jealous and mad, so i broke up with him, the boy i went out with just wanted me in bed, and then the guy i love asked me out. We were together for about 3 weeks, but then i broke up with him. Biggest mistake ever, because i'm in love with him, every second i think about him. He shows interest in a lot of people, such as this girl named Jackie and then there's a boy named Kody, yes, he is bisexual, no stupid comments please. But now, he's having sex with this other girl, my friend told me about and now i just wanna give up. we get into a lot of arguments, but we always make up. We're in the middle of one now, i wanna be mad at him and scream at him, but i just can't. I'm thinking negatively and i don't want to, my sister is saying that he only wanted me in bed and to forget about him but i gave him my virginity, and i planned on being with him only because i love him.



Should i move on, because someone asked him out and he said he wanted to say yes, he hardly shows that he loves me anymore, so i think he's over me.



Help, please? :/Still in love with ex boyfriend and jealousy problems..?Its horrible that you lost your virginity to a man who didn't deserve it. I am sorry he did this to you. I have to agree with your sister though. He got what he wanted and moved on. Some guys just are knuckleheads and don't appreciate what a gift you gave him. I am so sorry this is what happened to you. Move on and you'll find a guy who truly likes you and wants to be with and not just for sex either. As a rule of thumb, the earlier the sex talk comes up, the more likely that is all he's interested in. Keep that in mind. Still in love with ex boyfriend and jealousy problems..?
get over him ppl r like candy theres alot out there so why dont u go 4 some different candyStill in love with ex boyfriend and jealousy problems..?STOP

back away from all of this

you are in a crazy circle and have got yourself so confused that you will destroy your future

what I'm saying take a big time out from dating and especially sexStill in love with ex boyfriend and jealousy problems..?
Your a piece of meat to him and nothing more. It's obvious that you have not the slightest clue of what love truly is. Nothing that you described is love sweetie. Get your head out of the clouds and back down to earth. Stop sleeping with him if you know that he is sleeping around. That's a great way to catch a STD. Your young and naive. Give yourself time to grow up before you go spreading your legs to people.Still in love with ex boyfriend and jealousy problems..?

Wow...Sounds like a great Jerry Springer episode!



You would be better off not going after him and dealing with your self guilt and low self esteem by yourself. It sounds like you are young and don't have enough experience with relationships, but don't worry perhaps your next one will be better. Besides now that the seal is broke you have nothing to lose!Still in love with ex boyfriend and jealousy problems..?
It sounds like he may having some feelings for you, they don't seem strong though. It's like he likes the attention from you, and while your giving it to him hes also getting laid. Hes keeping you around "Just in case" and you dont deserve that. Trust me theres going to be someone else for you and when you find that person you will be kicking yourself in the head for even worrying about this guy. Good luck!- oh yea stay friends with him, keep it short though no hanging out alone and stuff like that! Hope this helped!

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