Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Not sure where to go with this after a one night stand?

So basically heres the story, my best friend Cody invited me to his apartment after I got off work to have some drinks with him and his girlfriend Alicia's friends. We all ended up drinking quite a damn lot to say the least! Haha, anyways, so one of Alicia's friends comes over, this beautiful beautiful girl who, at first, I don't think much of except that she's physically attractive. So as the night goes along, she flirts with me like crazy and makes me drink more and more, and at that point everybody is playing drinking games and is drunk. Towards the end of the night myself and her are playing with each other and having a good time and then I slowly come towards her and we kiss. Then we all play more drinking games and eventually its just me and her on the couch. When everyone goes home/to bed we begin hooking up more heavily and we have the most amazing sex on the couch. She loves it and i'm really into it too, and I felt like we connected with each other on such a different level, I can't describe it. She gladly gives me her number. In the morning she leaves for work, and when we wake up Alicia doesn't care that I hooked up with her friend, but she tells me that shes had a boyfriend for 3 years!! I was kind of shocked, especially when Alicia said that the very same night some random guy had been hitting on her too and she turned him down but then was so comfortable having sex with me. I'm also told i'm only the 4th guy shes ever slept with. I texted her later that night saying how I had an amazing night with her, and she said she did too. Then I texted that we barely slept, and she texted back that it was totally worth losing sleep for. That made me feel great, but I don't know if I should pursue it over her having a long distance relationship with some guy. Even more though, i'm not sure what to say to her. Should I wait awhile to text her back? Should I not text her at all and see if she will text me? Its so weird, i've been with so many women but this one really got to me, and on the first night....FML! Women, please leave a guy with good intentions some good advice. Thx.Not sure where to go with this after a one night stand?Daaaamn. I say, not to text her at all and see if she texts you. And if she seems into you, find out the deal with that whole boyfriend situation. Unless, you're into being the "side dude".Not sure where to go with this after a one night stand?Call her, catch up and try and see where things are heading, ask her what she wants and the decide for yourself what you want, be honest if she asks you what you want.. find out if she really does have a bf..Not sure where to go with this after a one night stand?OK, 1st off you PHYSICALLY were attracted to this woman, you don't know her well enough to be more than that. 2nd off, if it was your long distance girlfriend would you want someone doing this to you? Be careful, what goes around, comes around ~ Karma. 3rd, I'd ask her straight out if she has a boyfriend. Let her explain and go from there. Good luck...I hope this advice helps.Not sure where to go with this after a one night stand?
just do what feels right..if u want to text her do it..sounds like she responds to your texts which is a good thing



the more serious you get with her though, the more you should talk to her about the LDR she has going on..she would need to end it to get serious with you

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