I fell in love with my Best friend what do i do?(LONG,dont answer if your going to tell me to get over myself)?

so im a male. 15 year old. and i met my best friend who is a girl freshman year so a little over a year ago i met her. for a good while me liking her was only a thing i knew, cause i am shy about that stuff. then she told me she loved me one night last February, and i said it back . we said it for the first time. we kept saying it and we'd always hang out and just act like we were together. but never were, then June came around and things got unsteady, she told me she had to talk to me one night so i came over then her mom called her she had to go home she couldn't tell me then i guess next day, is when she told me after a hour. she told me she wanted to be with me but i didn't know what to do cause i know i loved her and still do but didn't want to ruin anything we had. but of course we mutually agreed to be together. so a few days went by and after awhile she told me she felt sort of awkward being with me. so i said fine dont be with me i don't want to make you feel uncomfortable. and i told her i hope this doesn't make us any different, but it did. for a good month after i didn't talk to her. i loved her to much to lose her as a friend but i let it happen and i knew i shouldn't have even attempted going out with her. so time pasted i felt like **** we didn't talk. finally i talked to her, told her im sorry for not talking to her and all this stuff so blah blah on on then it happened again we started to fade. and today i started talking to her. we never hang out anymore and barley talk. i made plans to hang with her and im keeping up on the no matter what. but the thing is i still love her and she says she loves me.. i don't get what im trying to even ask here but what do i do to keep her with me, ti win her back, to keep her as the best friend we use to be.



how do i get over loving her and just accept her as a friend?



i actually need advice instead of people telling me oh im 15 your not in love or just to flat out screw her over. i want to build our friendship back together. I fell in love with my Best friend what do i do?(LONG,dont answer if your going to tell me to get over myself)?im not sure if this will help, as you two hang out in passing times in one point or another you should tell her that you want to continue to be friends with her, this can help emotionally help relieve yourself of loving her because of being honest with her, thing shouldn't be socially awkward, gl buddyI fell in love with my Best friend what do i do?(LONG,dont answer if your going to tell me to get over myself)?
it'll take time but eventually you will get over her.I fell in love with my Best friend what do i do?(LONG,dont answer if your going to tell me to get over myself)?I'm a bit unsure why you want to stay just friends at this point. You both realize that you like each other as more, so what's wrong with dating AND being best friends? I know plenty of couples that know each other inside and out and it's because they were friends first. And they remain friends in spite of the fact that they're in a relationship. Friendship doesn't die when you become boyfriend and girlfriend. In fact it gets better. Call her and ask her on a date. The worst that can happen is you two break up as a couple later on, but I'll bet if you're as good as friends as you think you are, break-up or not you'll be cradle to the grave. Give it a chance to blossom. I fell in love with my Best friend what do i do?(LONG,dont answer if your going to tell me to get over myself)?
what u need to do is to slowly let time let u get over her. But just try to stay friends with her no matter what ur feeling are for her.I fell in love with my Best friend what do i do?(LONG,dont answer if your going to tell me to get over myself)?Do you want to get over her? If not then try and work it out and be together. Just because it seemed awkward doesn't mean you should just give it up. Of course it was gonna be awkward; you went from being friends to more than that. That transition isn't always a smooth one. New things are in play there. That can take some getting used too. Sit down, talk, be completely honest. That goes for her too.



If you give it a real try and it doesn't work, going back to being friends will be hard. But it is do-able. It might take a little time. Just start hanging out again and doing the things you did when you were just friends. It'll come back.