Perhaps, a stupid question time, but curious to know: Men, is sex better when in love?

Maybe a different title to the question will generate more responses. To start with, I think it is sad that as a female I even have to ask this question, as I believe extreme feminism and sexist psychology theories the last 30 years has made females very confused concerning this subject. I have been reading psychology books and basically, the topic for males does not even come up, but I'm rather skeptical that a one night stand feels as nice as being entirely in love with someone.Perhaps, a stupid question time, but curious to know: Men, is sex better when in love?Sex is absolutely better when you are in love. In fact, it is even better when you are married, and in love.



No question in my mind. There is a sort of "back of the mind" feeling when having sex on a casual basis that simply is not there when you are in love. Sex is a physical, emotional, and mental exercise. All 3 need to be "on" for sex to be at it's best.



IMHO, but I do speak from some experience here..... :)Perhaps, a stupid question time, but curious to know: Men, is sex better when in love?I don't believe in love in the classic sense. I believe love is a hormonal thing designed to get men and women to stay together hopefully to fertilise at least one egg. Then it exists so that children have a hope in hell of reaching puberty.



This is my conclusion after seeing people who claim to love each other beat each other up and abuse each other. I've yet to see evidence which would suggest otherwise.



So, no, I've never been in classical love. I guess I've been in hormonal love, but sex wasn't any better in this condition.



Having experienced one night stands, there is little point in 'loving' a woman. You won't get anything out of it apart from convenience.



Hope you don't mind the blunt response, BobPerhaps, a stupid question time, but curious to know: Men, is sex better when in love?Yes, sex is better when you are in love.Perhaps, a stupid question time, but curious to know: Men, is sex better when in love?
no sex is all the same