Tuesday, February 21, 2012
There's this guy.. Teen love so yea?
There's this guys that's always telling me I'm the one n all that n I never give him all the love. All his friends tells me he acts like literally in love. But then one night he aske me out n then as I was bout to answer him no for the 4th time my friend texted me n said they were now dating. Does he just want a girlfriend for just cuz? Or what?There's this guy.. Teen love so yea?I know a guy like that and he tells girls they're beautiful and he loves them then he dumps them. He dumped my friend on valentines day. The guy ur talking about is probably a player.car stereo miata
Is it possible to get love world in the gay?
I had encounters with gays, but they only want sex, one night stand, I think because the strict rules of society, they have to hide their feelings and these caused many menthal sickness in this groups. Depressions, ezquizofreniqs, and many more.Is it possible to get love world in the gay?Yes many gays find love and devote themselves to one another. Have you seen on the news how many gays wanted to get gay marriage legalized.Is it possible to get love world in the gay?
Well, it's possible to get love with anyone. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck with your love troubles.Is it possible to get love world in the gay?My opinion and expierce from watching shows about gays-I am not gay but I love them to death! I think being gay is all about sex! lol I mean don't get me wrong. I know lesbians can have families as can gay men. I just see gays being more into sex then anything else. If I am wrong I apologize to anyone who might feel offended! :)
I'm not gay, so I am only speaking based on what I've seen with several friends and family members. Yes, there are relationships based on true love in the gay community. I have known many gay and lesbian couples who have been in long-term stable relationships, including lifelong partnerships. Your "encounters" have apparently been with a limited segment of the community.
As for mental illnesses and psychological problems, I'd have to research some statistics before I bought into your theory. I rather doubt that mental illness occurs in higher numbers among gays; perhaps situational depression arising out of a lack of acceptance. But there again, my experience has been with healthy, normal people who just want what the rest of us want: a happy life and someone to love.Is it possible to get love world in the gay?just as in the straight world, gays can find love too. sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't.
pretending this doesn't happen in the straight world, where divorces are approaching the 50% level, is patently ridiculous. many straight relationships don't work out either. and if you think straight guys and gals don't go through phases where they are just looking for fun and sex, then you need to wake up.Is it possible to get love world in the gay?
I found the man I love, and I am 100% confident about his love for me.
I know many many others who have the same testimony.
I like girls and I love girls..I have fallen in love with a girl and I've had complete and total sadness because of the breakup with that girl...I wish to fall in love with a girl again...
So...your question...YES...Is it possible to get love world in the gay?
My partner and I have been together for 15 years. We are quite happy thank you. We have a home and good jobs -- we own investment properties and stock. We are moderately successful upwardly mobile middle class....
Not then again we are in the northeastern US -- where there is pretty much total acceptence. You may be right in other areas of the world or even of the country.
Regards,
Reynolds Jones
Schenectady, NY
http://www.rebuff.org
yes yes yes...I've been in a 7 year relationship and now a 19 year one...they're out there
I am Gay and I was with the same guy for 15 years , we owned a home together and raised a child together . We were as much a family as any hetro. couple I know . In fact our relationship out lasted many of our heterosexual Friends . Gay people are like anyone else there are plenty of heterosexual players out there that are only looking for hook ups and one night stands . Just like there are many heteros looking for meaningful relationships . I think everyone ultimately wants to find that spec ail someone to share their life with .
Ezquizofreniqs?!
Well, it's possible to get love with anyone. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck with your love troubles.Is it possible to get love world in the gay?My opinion and expierce from watching shows about gays-I am not gay but I love them to death! I think being gay is all about sex! lol I mean don't get me wrong. I know lesbians can have families as can gay men. I just see gays being more into sex then anything else. If I am wrong I apologize to anyone who might feel offended! :)
I'm not gay, so I am only speaking based on what I've seen with several friends and family members. Yes, there are relationships based on true love in the gay community. I have known many gay and lesbian couples who have been in long-term stable relationships, including lifelong partnerships. Your "encounters" have apparently been with a limited segment of the community.
As for mental illnesses and psychological problems, I'd have to research some statistics before I bought into your theory. I rather doubt that mental illness occurs in higher numbers among gays; perhaps situational depression arising out of a lack of acceptance. But there again, my experience has been with healthy, normal people who just want what the rest of us want: a happy life and someone to love.Is it possible to get love world in the gay?just as in the straight world, gays can find love too. sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't.
pretending this doesn't happen in the straight world, where divorces are approaching the 50% level, is patently ridiculous. many straight relationships don't work out either. and if you think straight guys and gals don't go through phases where they are just looking for fun and sex, then you need to wake up.Is it possible to get love world in the gay?
I found the man I love, and I am 100% confident about his love for me.
I know many many others who have the same testimony.
I like girls and I love girls..I have fallen in love with a girl and I've had complete and total sadness because of the breakup with that girl...I wish to fall in love with a girl again...
So...your question...YES...Is it possible to get love world in the gay?
My partner and I have been together for 15 years. We are quite happy thank you. We have a home and good jobs -- we own investment properties and stock. We are moderately successful upwardly mobile middle class....
Not then again we are in the northeastern US -- where there is pretty much total acceptence. You may be right in other areas of the world or even of the country.
Regards,
Reynolds Jones
Schenectady, NY
http://www.rebuff.org
yes yes yes...I've been in a 7 year relationship and now a 19 year one...they're out there
I am Gay and I was with the same guy for 15 years , we owned a home together and raised a child together . We were as much a family as any hetro. couple I know . In fact our relationship out lasted many of our heterosexual Friends . Gay people are like anyone else there are plenty of heterosexual players out there that are only looking for hook ups and one night stands . Just like there are many heteros looking for meaningful relationships . I think everyone ultimately wants to find that spec ail someone to share their life with .
Ezquizofreniqs?!
Excuse to spend night with girlfriend?
My girlfriend and I are 18. We're both living with our parents, about to leave for college in August. Later this month, she is house sitting for a family she knows, and will be spending about 6 or 7 nights in their house alone. I would love to go spend a night with her, and she would too, but my parents won't approve that. They assume we'll have sex. (We won't.) What excuse can I give for not being home one night, other than "I'm spending the night at a friends house"?Excuse to spend night with girlfriend?You could say you are going ANYWHERE else.
as a parent I fear this question but as a lover I recognize that you are an adult and you deserve your time with her. You may want to try and reason with your parents if you really aren't going to do anything they wouldn't approve of than maybe you ought to try and tell them the truth... however failure to execute that plan would leave you without a usable excuse.
I guess you could test the truth by giving them the wrong date and then if they say yes correct yourself... "oh wait it's actually on the 14th I think" :-D good luckExcuse to spend night with girlfriend?
there arent really any other good ones then ohh im goin to so and so's house
but you can just say you went out partyin and ended up crashin at a friends houseExcuse to spend night with girlfriend?say you are going camping with friends!!!!!!!!!!
say that i just really want to talk to her and make sure that our relationship is set in stone before you go to college.Excuse to spend night with girlfriend?tell them you're going to a party sillyExcuse to spend night with girlfriend?
get your parents to go away for the night, or maybe a trip. if that doesnt work, say you are going to the premier of a movie that is at midnight
Just level with them. Tell your parents that your girlfriend is kind of scared to be there alone and she requested you be there with her. At 18 they should trust you unless you gave them a reason not to.
houseExcuse to spend night with girlfriend?
Say that she is scared.
tell them that your going to some college meeting, and then theres gunna be a party where your gunna meet some new college freshmans. and theyll probably understand that college parties last liike all night !
the movies
the park
beach
watch a sport
anything..other than at a friend house...
Say your going camping out wit some guy friends.
Don't lie to your parents kid. Respect their wishes as long as they are allowing you to live in their house, You will be off to college soon, dont risk breaking the trust over this issue, it just isn't worth it.
Make up on a computer a pretend trip that last all of those days so you could spend the whole time with the girl. Make it like a tour of the college or something like that. Use your imagination, the more facts you have the more plausible it seems. Also make sure it is something that your parents wouldn't want to do and something that would be something that isn't expensive.
honestly i think you should be honest with them (never know what they'll say 'till you ask), don't say when though, just ask if it would be o.k. if you did. and also explain to them that if they don't trust you, then how will they trust you for college...or something along those lines. best of luck.
based on my experience when i was in high school i would:
-sneak out
-if i was really desperate get someone with a deep voice talk to my parents on the phone and convince my parents I'm with them.
-If your driving home from somewhere far late @ night, call your parents and say I am too sleepy to drive I'm going to stay at a motel.
-say your going to help out a friend who's car broke down and say you spent the night at a friend's house because you were sleepy
**well all this isn't recommended these are just ideas if you are desperate,unfortunately the only way out is to lie or sneak out. good luck!
Three things come to mind:
First, your girlfriend is responsible to the people she's house-sitting for to follow their rules while she's there. You need to make sure that she's even allowed to have visitors before you think of going over there.
Secondly, if you have to lie to anyone about where you're going, then you're not ready to do it. It's not necessarily about sex - everyone knows you could do that in a car as easily as the house where she's staying. It's about trust and respect. (And although you probably won't believe it, your parents were your age once %26amp; the answer they gave you reflects that)
Lastly, if you respect your girlfriend at all you won't put her in a position to have to lie for you if anyone asks where you were.
You're 18 years old, do whatever the heck you want. Just go out and say you'll be home tomorrow. Go have sex too, you're 18 not 8.
as a parent I fear this question but as a lover I recognize that you are an adult and you deserve your time with her. You may want to try and reason with your parents if you really aren't going to do anything they wouldn't approve of than maybe you ought to try and tell them the truth... however failure to execute that plan would leave you without a usable excuse.
I guess you could test the truth by giving them the wrong date and then if they say yes correct yourself... "oh wait it's actually on the 14th I think" :-D good luckExcuse to spend night with girlfriend?
there arent really any other good ones then ohh im goin to so and so's house
but you can just say you went out partyin and ended up crashin at a friends houseExcuse to spend night with girlfriend?say you are going camping with friends!!!!!!!!!!
say that i just really want to talk to her and make sure that our relationship is set in stone before you go to college.Excuse to spend night with girlfriend?tell them you're going to a party sillyExcuse to spend night with girlfriend?
get your parents to go away for the night, or maybe a trip. if that doesnt work, say you are going to the premier of a movie that is at midnight
Just level with them. Tell your parents that your girlfriend is kind of scared to be there alone and she requested you be there with her. At 18 they should trust you unless you gave them a reason not to.
houseExcuse to spend night with girlfriend?
Say that she is scared.
tell them that your going to some college meeting, and then theres gunna be a party where your gunna meet some new college freshmans. and theyll probably understand that college parties last liike all night !
the movies
the park
beach
watch a sport
anything..other than at a friend house...
Say your going camping out wit some guy friends.
Don't lie to your parents kid. Respect their wishes as long as they are allowing you to live in their house, You will be off to college soon, dont risk breaking the trust over this issue, it just isn't worth it.
Make up on a computer a pretend trip that last all of those days so you could spend the whole time with the girl. Make it like a tour of the college or something like that. Use your imagination, the more facts you have the more plausible it seems. Also make sure it is something that your parents wouldn't want to do and something that would be something that isn't expensive.
honestly i think you should be honest with them (never know what they'll say 'till you ask), don't say when though, just ask if it would be o.k. if you did. and also explain to them that if they don't trust you, then how will they trust you for college...or something along those lines. best of luck.
based on my experience when i was in high school i would:
-sneak out
-if i was really desperate get someone with a deep voice talk to my parents on the phone and convince my parents I'm with them.
-If your driving home from somewhere far late @ night, call your parents and say I am too sleepy to drive I'm going to stay at a motel.
-say your going to help out a friend who's car broke down and say you spent the night at a friend's house because you were sleepy
**well all this isn't recommended these are just ideas if you are desperate,unfortunately the only way out is to lie or sneak out. good luck!
Three things come to mind:
First, your girlfriend is responsible to the people she's house-sitting for to follow their rules while she's there. You need to make sure that she's even allowed to have visitors before you think of going over there.
Secondly, if you have to lie to anyone about where you're going, then you're not ready to do it. It's not necessarily about sex - everyone knows you could do that in a car as easily as the house where she's staying. It's about trust and respect. (And although you probably won't believe it, your parents were your age once %26amp; the answer they gave you reflects that)
Lastly, if you respect your girlfriend at all you won't put her in a position to have to lie for you if anyone asks where you were.
You're 18 years old, do whatever the heck you want. Just go out and say you'll be home tomorrow. Go have sex too, you're 18 not 8.
How does my love story plot sound?
It's set in modern day England. The main character is Susie, a fifteen year old girl. She sneaks into an over eighteen club with her two friends and meets Henry Larks, a twenty four year old British actor who is well known in England for a TV series he does. Susie is a fan and asks for his signature and he gives her his number since he thinks she's twenty (she looks old for her age). They begin an affair behind his girlfriend's back. Henry then breaks up with his girlfriend when he realizes he loves Susie. One night they sleep together and the next day a photographer takes a picture of them kissing outside his flat. When the story of their relationship comes out Susie's age is revealed and Henry is arrested.
I don't particularly like that ending but it's the most realistic. If anyone has any ideas for inspiration for another ending that would be great. Please give your honest opinion on how it sounds. Thanks! xHow does my love story plot sound?It sounds cute, I do like the idea but it does sound cliche. It does sound like something off Disney Channel except for the sex part. I think you should work on making your story less commercial and more real.How does my love story plot sound?Its Crap......don't mind but really sounds like a cheap Hollywood movie.
And I don't think that a 15 year old girl can look like 20.How does my love story plot sound?Sounds cheesy. And Susie? If your from engand you'll probably be Susan. I've never met a SusieHow does my love story plot sound?
I think there are several problems. First, a 15-year-old girl will not be as experienced, as a 20-year-old would be, not socially, not sexually and not psychologically.
I think it would take a lot of work to whip it into shape, I'm not sure I would try.
Maybe you could have the novel start when he is caught and, instead of the "young Hollywood" type beginning you have, the two could grow and mature as they endure the struggle together? They could both reflect on their relationship's details as the book progresses and how much they mean to each other. I would move her age up, though, maybe to 17.
Hope this helps:-)
I don't particularly like that ending but it's the most realistic. If anyone has any ideas for inspiration for another ending that would be great. Please give your honest opinion on how it sounds. Thanks! xHow does my love story plot sound?It sounds cute, I do like the idea but it does sound cliche. It does sound like something off Disney Channel except for the sex part. I think you should work on making your story less commercial and more real.How does my love story plot sound?Its Crap......don't mind but really sounds like a cheap Hollywood movie.
And I don't think that a 15 year old girl can look like 20.How does my love story plot sound?Sounds cheesy. And Susie? If your from engand you'll probably be Susan. I've never met a SusieHow does my love story plot sound?
I think there are several problems. First, a 15-year-old girl will not be as experienced, as a 20-year-old would be, not socially, not sexually and not psychologically.
I think it would take a lot of work to whip it into shape, I'm not sure I would try.
Maybe you could have the novel start when he is caught and, instead of the "young Hollywood" type beginning you have, the two could grow and mature as they endure the struggle together? They could both reflect on their relationship's details as the book progresses and how much they mean to each other. I would move her age up, though, maybe to 17.
Hope this helps:-)
Crazy affair one night.. Should I feel guilty?
I don鈥檛 know how to say鈥?I did the wildest think ever. I have this friend and she is crazy and she has this strange relationship with a young boy she met on the internet (he is just 18). So we went to a bar and he came and after some glasses we went to her place. Well, the boy is virgin but he loves the idea of getting down on a woman. We undressed both from the waist down and let him kiss us both down there for like a couple of hours. We were drunk (we girls, he only had soda) and it felt good, and that was all we did (that was the deal). He never undressed but I guess he was enjoying it at least as much as us.
My fried did that again several days later and said that she is pleased with the idea but I have a strange feeling of guilt now and I don鈥檛 know why. Should I feel it or it was OK what we did?Crazy affair one night.. Should I feel guilty?I cheated and I felt guilt for like 6 months but then it went away. If you think about it everyday then say something because it could eat you up and you will feel a lot better when you come clean. Or just stop thinking about it.Crazy affair one night.. Should I feel guilty?Yes.. you were naked... come on unless you are hot or something he would not be to attached to you.Crazy affair one night.. Should I feel guilty?i'm an 18 year old dude
and i say that you shouldn't feel bad about it,
i'm not a virgin but i remember when i was, its nice to have someone with experience guide you along. So its almost a service.
My fried did that again several days later and said that she is pleased with the idea but I have a strange feeling of guilt now and I don鈥檛 know why. Should I feel it or it was OK what we did?Crazy affair one night.. Should I feel guilty?I cheated and I felt guilt for like 6 months but then it went away. If you think about it everyday then say something because it could eat you up and you will feel a lot better when you come clean. Or just stop thinking about it.Crazy affair one night.. Should I feel guilty?Yes.. you were naked... come on unless you are hot or something he would not be to attached to you.Crazy affair one night.. Should I feel guilty?i'm an 18 year old dude
and i say that you shouldn't feel bad about it,
i'm not a virgin but i remember when i was, its nice to have someone with experience guide you along. So its almost a service.
Hes in love with me and i dont love him?
Ok so iv had an interesting couple of days aside from the question i already posted about the straight guy who wanted to expirement with me a guy i had a sorta "One night stand" with is in love with me apparently... i made it clear i wasnt looking for a relationship and he didnt really let up iv just been ducking him, what do i do?Hes in love with me and i dont love him?There's no easy way to do it. You have to simply let him know you're not interested. Be sincere and firm, but take his feelings into account when you tell him. Try to soften it by letting him know that you had fun, but remind him it's not what you're looking for (a relationship).
If he continues to harrass you, it may be necessary to involve authorities, depending upon how severe it is. He's probably lonely and feeling a lot of lust. Remember though that lust does die down eventually, so in the end, it shouldn't be too bad.Hes in love with me and i dont love him?Tell him you're not interested.Hes in love with me and i dont love him?Tell him you're not in love with him and you only want to be friends. Be as honest and frank as possible so he can get over you quickly.oil change sonic electronix
If he continues to harrass you, it may be necessary to involve authorities, depending upon how severe it is. He's probably lonely and feeling a lot of lust. Remember though that lust does die down eventually, so in the end, it shouldn't be too bad.Hes in love with me and i dont love him?Tell him you're not interested.Hes in love with me and i dont love him?Tell him you're not in love with him and you only want to be friends. Be as honest and frank as possible so he can get over you quickly.
Lyrics to "One day Left to live?"?
Its a country song that goes, I'm gonna live the rest of my life, like I got one day left to live, one night left to love you, starting right now, starting all over, doing what I should do... does anybody know?Lyrics to "One day Left to live?"?"Sammy Kershaw One Day Left To Live lyrics"
(dean dillon/randy boudreaux/john northrup)
I rolled out of bed grabbed a cup of caffeine this morning
Walked out the door didn鈥檛 even kiss you goodbye
Hurrying to work, a car pulled out no warnin鈥?br>
In an instant it all flashed before my eyes
And I鈥檓 gonna live the rest of my life
Like I got one day left to live
One night left to love you
Startin鈥?right now I鈥檓 startin鈥?all over
Doin鈥?what I should do
Should this be my last, or I鈥檝e got a hundred years
From this day on I鈥檓 gonna live my life
Like I got one day left to live
What a close call
Could of been all she wrote me
Think I鈥檒l turn this car around and head back home
There鈥檚 a reason to be learned in this it showed me
Take nothing for granted in a second it can all be gone
But I鈥檓 gonna live the rest of my life
Like I got one day left to live
One night left to love you
Startin鈥?right now I鈥檓 startin鈥?all over
Doin鈥?what I should do
Should this be my last, or I鈥檝e got a hundred years
From this day on I鈥檓 gonna live my life
Like I got one day left to live
One night left to love you
Startin鈥?right now I鈥檓 startin鈥?all over
Doin鈥?what I should do
Should this be my last, or I鈥檝e got a hundred years
From this day on I鈥檓 gonna live my life
Like I got one day left to liveLyrics to "One day Left to live?"?Artist/Band: Kershaw Sammy
Lyrics for Song: One Day Left To Live
Lyrics for Album: Labor Of Love
I rolled out of bed grabbed a cup of caffeine this morning
Walked out the door didn't even kiss you goodbye
Hurrying to work, a car pulled out no warnin'
In an instant it all flashed before my eyes
And I'm gonna live the rest of my life
Like I got one day left to live
One night left to love you
Startin' right now I'm startin' all over
Doin' what I should do
Should this be my last, or I've got a hundred years
From this day on I'm gonna live my life
Like I got one day left to live
What a close call
Could of been all she wrote me
Think I'll turn this car around and head back home
There's a reason to be learned in this it showed me
Take nothing for granted in a second it can all be gone
But I'm gonna live the rest of my life
Like I got one day left to live
One night left to love you
Startin' right now I'm startin' all over
Doin' what I should do
Should this be my last, or I've got a hundred years
From this day on I'm gonna live my life
Like I got one day left to live
One night left to love you
Startin' right now I'm startin' all over
Doin' what I should do
Should this be my last, or I've got a hundred years
From this day on I'm gonna live my life
Like I got one day left to live
(dean dillon/randy boudreaux/john northrup)
I rolled out of bed grabbed a cup of caffeine this morning
Walked out the door didn鈥檛 even kiss you goodbye
Hurrying to work, a car pulled out no warnin鈥?br>
In an instant it all flashed before my eyes
And I鈥檓 gonna live the rest of my life
Like I got one day left to live
One night left to love you
Startin鈥?right now I鈥檓 startin鈥?all over
Doin鈥?what I should do
Should this be my last, or I鈥檝e got a hundred years
From this day on I鈥檓 gonna live my life
Like I got one day left to live
What a close call
Could of been all she wrote me
Think I鈥檒l turn this car around and head back home
There鈥檚 a reason to be learned in this it showed me
Take nothing for granted in a second it can all be gone
But I鈥檓 gonna live the rest of my life
Like I got one day left to live
One night left to love you
Startin鈥?right now I鈥檓 startin鈥?all over
Doin鈥?what I should do
Should this be my last, or I鈥檝e got a hundred years
From this day on I鈥檓 gonna live my life
Like I got one day left to live
One night left to love you
Startin鈥?right now I鈥檓 startin鈥?all over
Doin鈥?what I should do
Should this be my last, or I鈥檝e got a hundred years
From this day on I鈥檓 gonna live my life
Like I got one day left to liveLyrics to "One day Left to live?"?Artist/Band: Kershaw Sammy
Lyrics for Song: One Day Left To Live
Lyrics for Album: Labor Of Love
I rolled out of bed grabbed a cup of caffeine this morning
Walked out the door didn't even kiss you goodbye
Hurrying to work, a car pulled out no warnin'
In an instant it all flashed before my eyes
And I'm gonna live the rest of my life
Like I got one day left to live
One night left to love you
Startin' right now I'm startin' all over
Doin' what I should do
Should this be my last, or I've got a hundred years
From this day on I'm gonna live my life
Like I got one day left to live
What a close call
Could of been all she wrote me
Think I'll turn this car around and head back home
There's a reason to be learned in this it showed me
Take nothing for granted in a second it can all be gone
But I'm gonna live the rest of my life
Like I got one day left to live
One night left to love you
Startin' right now I'm startin' all over
Doin' what I should do
Should this be my last, or I've got a hundred years
From this day on I'm gonna live my life
Like I got one day left to live
One night left to love you
Startin' right now I'm startin' all over
Doin' what I should do
Should this be my last, or I've got a hundred years
From this day on I'm gonna live my life
Like I got one day left to live
I love him so much how can i get him back?
We were the best of friends for two years and could tell eachother anything. He told me he loved me one night and i told him that i loved him to. The next day he asked me out. We had talked about a future togetherr and were positive that noone would ever take our places. We went out for a monthe before all the "bumps" came. I was accusing him of liking another girl which he told me he liked her but LOVED me. I cried myself to sleep that night and the next morning he tried to get me back, but i was scared. Two days later he told me he asked another girl out. I was devistated! I knew that i could never live without him, and still no that. We talk now and i dont think he likes me that way anymore, should i tell him hoe i feel or see how things play out? Please no answers like 'you just have to move on'. I NEED HIM IN MY LIFE!!!I love him so much how can i get him back?you don't want to hear move on but you have no choice here sweetie.
You both tried to make a friendship into more than it was. It was worth the effort but neither of you were mature enough to handle it....and know what LOVE really is. Love is more than feeling and emotion....MUCH MORE and it wasn't there. Hanging onto false hopes will hurt you much more...facing realtiy right now is best for you...even if it hurts like hell.
You don't have to live without him. YOu can be good friends and have him in your life forever. You just have to realize you can't HAVE him in any other way.
Relationships are hard ...they take the best of us and make the worst of us...and we have to grow with it and understand it and make peace with it. It is risking a part of ourselves we dont' want to risk..but without that we are closed off from life.
You learned much from this relationship. You have to think about that and realize that each relationship you have you learn something about yourself and who you want in your life and it helps determine who you end up in the end.
I know how painful this is for you...we have all lost that love of our life...someone we thought we woudl live forever with and later find out how wrong it was and we can't do anything about it. You can't force him to come back...you can't force a love that isn't there...you cannot force a future with him without LOSING him forever.
I wish we could do that....but we can't.
You CAN live without him. You will obsess about him, cry over him...lose sleep and even weight over him...you will think your world will never come to a peaceful solution...and then one day it will start to get better. You will think less and less about him and you will move on with the future.
You are grieving...that is normal and necessary. Take your time doing this and be around those that love you and can help you get through this. Take your time...talk to a professional if you get too depressed and take some long hot baths and drink some comforting tea...do nice things for yourself. The most important thing here is to take care of YOU....
Good luck...and I am sorry you can't do anything to change things.I love him so much how can i get him back?
Love is a really powerful thing and if he loved you once it won't be long until he falls for you again, try talking to him and telling him what's on your mind, don't let him get away with this! You can get him back if you just let him know how things are for you... try telling him that you truly do love him, and if he loves you too everything should work out fine.I love him so much how can i get him back?You need to show him that you still care for him and tell him exactly how you feel. If he says he doesn't have those feelings for you anymore, that's when you need to move on. But I think you shouldn't give up if you really love him.
what comes easy goes easy!
he knows that you love him, it's normal as a behavior!
you have two choices:
1- MOVE ON or
2- MOVE ON!
both of them will get him to you back, trust me!I love him so much how can i get him back?TWO THINGS - (1) He has a loyalty issue - and YOU have a self esteem issue - Everyone is entitled to the best - so is a cheater best for you - is that all you're worth!! mmmmm??I love him so much how can i get him back?
really i thinkk that you should jus be friends for a while.
try to get the friend relationship backk.
and talk to himm.
donnt think he can get you;
play hard to get with himm.
donnt rush thinggs agaain.
talk to him.
tell him how you feel.
dont wait too long.
if you dont hell think you have moved on.I love him so much how can i get him back?
baby just tell him how you feel cause if he wants you to it will all work out
You both tried to make a friendship into more than it was. It was worth the effort but neither of you were mature enough to handle it....and know what LOVE really is. Love is more than feeling and emotion....MUCH MORE and it wasn't there. Hanging onto false hopes will hurt you much more...facing realtiy right now is best for you...even if it hurts like hell.
You don't have to live without him. YOu can be good friends and have him in your life forever. You just have to realize you can't HAVE him in any other way.
Relationships are hard ...they take the best of us and make the worst of us...and we have to grow with it and understand it and make peace with it. It is risking a part of ourselves we dont' want to risk..but without that we are closed off from life.
You learned much from this relationship. You have to think about that and realize that each relationship you have you learn something about yourself and who you want in your life and it helps determine who you end up in the end.
I know how painful this is for you...we have all lost that love of our life...someone we thought we woudl live forever with and later find out how wrong it was and we can't do anything about it. You can't force him to come back...you can't force a love that isn't there...you cannot force a future with him without LOSING him forever.
I wish we could do that....but we can't.
You CAN live without him. You will obsess about him, cry over him...lose sleep and even weight over him...you will think your world will never come to a peaceful solution...and then one day it will start to get better. You will think less and less about him and you will move on with the future.
You are grieving...that is normal and necessary. Take your time doing this and be around those that love you and can help you get through this. Take your time...talk to a professional if you get too depressed and take some long hot baths and drink some comforting tea...do nice things for yourself. The most important thing here is to take care of YOU....
Good luck...and I am sorry you can't do anything to change things.I love him so much how can i get him back?
Love is a really powerful thing and if he loved you once it won't be long until he falls for you again, try talking to him and telling him what's on your mind, don't let him get away with this! You can get him back if you just let him know how things are for you... try telling him that you truly do love him, and if he loves you too everything should work out fine.I love him so much how can i get him back?You need to show him that you still care for him and tell him exactly how you feel. If he says he doesn't have those feelings for you anymore, that's when you need to move on. But I think you shouldn't give up if you really love him.
what comes easy goes easy!
he knows that you love him, it's normal as a behavior!
you have two choices:
1- MOVE ON or
2- MOVE ON!
both of them will get him to you back, trust me!I love him so much how can i get him back?TWO THINGS - (1) He has a loyalty issue - and YOU have a self esteem issue - Everyone is entitled to the best - so is a cheater best for you - is that all you're worth!! mmmmm??I love him so much how can i get him back?
really i thinkk that you should jus be friends for a while.
try to get the friend relationship backk.
and talk to himm.
donnt think he can get you;
play hard to get with himm.
donnt rush thinggs agaain.
talk to him.
tell him how you feel.
dont wait too long.
if you dont hell think you have moved on.I love him so much how can i get him back?
baby just tell him how you feel cause if he wants you to it will all work out
Bill and ben were having sex one night?
Bill said "flobba flobalobba flob!"
Ben replied, "if you loved me you would have swallowed that!"
;-)Bill and ben were having sex one night?Lust and love = spit and swallow
StarBill and ben were having sex one night?true!!!Bill and ben were having sex one night?Nice.8/10.Bill and ben were having sex one night?
lmao thats a good one spit or swallow what would u do jks lol luv amy
Ben replied, "if you loved me you would have swallowed that!"
;-)Bill and ben were having sex one night?Lust and love = spit and swallow
StarBill and ben were having sex one night?true!!!Bill and ben were having sex one night?Nice.8/10.Bill and ben were having sex one night?
lmao thats a good one spit or swallow what would u do jks lol luv amy
My girlfriend says she's in love with me but that she loves this other guy as just a friend.?
One night, my girlfriend and I were talking and she said that she is in love with me but that she loves this other guy with all her heart as a friend. Should I be worried?
The other guy is my girlfriend's ex, but the other guy has a girlfriend. Please help me, I really am desperate for an answer.My girlfriend says she's in love with me but that she loves this other guy as just a friend.?As long as you are around, she's with you but step out of line and she's making moves on him.My girlfriend says she's in love with me but that she loves this other guy as just a friend.?
Truth is, I love a lot of people, but when speaking to my current man, I'd never admit to being "in love" with anyone else. Sorry, you described a situation I once was in. Good news is after seeing what a douhe the other guy was, I eventually got over him too, but of course after leaving guy #1.
theres nothing wrong with it, i love so many guys as friends you just need to trust herMy girlfriend says she's in love with me but that she loves this other guy as just a friend.?Wow! dude we are in the same exact situation.
The other guy is my girlfriend's ex, but the other guy has a girlfriend. Please help me, I really am desperate for an answer.My girlfriend says she's in love with me but that she loves this other guy as just a friend.?As long as you are around, she's with you but step out of line and she's making moves on him.My girlfriend says she's in love with me but that she loves this other guy as just a friend.?
Truth is, I love a lot of people, but when speaking to my current man, I'd never admit to being "in love" with anyone else. Sorry, you described a situation I once was in. Good news is after seeing what a douhe the other guy was, I eventually got over him too, but of course after leaving guy #1.
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My girlfriend says she's in love with me but that she loves this other guy as just a friend.?Haha I never heard somebody say that b4 but I would be worried if I was u like ask the boy if he loves her as a friend too and then u'll know wat to do after thatMy girlfriend says she's in love with me but that she loves this other guy as just a friend.?theres nothing wrong with it, i love so many guys as friends you just need to trust herMy girlfriend says she's in love with me but that she loves this other guy as just a friend.?Wow! dude we are in the same exact situation.
I used to love a girl, but should I let her go?
She doesn't have to explain anything to me. I dated some one for four years %26amp; then she broke up with me. She didn't talk to me for two years. I went to jail, lost all my friends, %26amp; one night I got mugged. I called her because I wanted to find solace. She doesn't love me anymore, is happy without me, %26amp; isn't interested. Should I delete her from my life? Should I try out of respect for the past?I used to love a girl, but should I let her go?Something similar happend to me,but I let him go for the fact that is the past.
Sometimes ppl are in our lives for certain time and we have to learn to let go of that past even if it hurts.
It hurts me to let him go for the fact we had a history and we all have to grow to learn to let go.
good luck.towing christian bookstore
Sometimes ppl are in our lives for certain time and we have to learn to let go of that past even if it hurts.
It hurts me to let him go for the fact we had a history and we all have to grow to learn to let go.
good luck.
I'm confused--which is the truth? Will a guy ever say "I love you" if it isn't true?
I dated this guy for almost 2 years. Early on, he was extremely careful about throwing around the world "girlfriend," although he had no problem offering exclusivity after only 4 days, including a Valentine's Day date complete with an ipod as a present. He called often and we'd speak for 2-3 + hours a night, took me out every weekend, etc... I pulled away and went back to my bf, then he came back to me but was a little bit mean and distant, so I left again...he begged for me back, promised he'd changed thanks to therapy...I went back, he was worse than ever, and the vicious cycle repeated. I told him I love him...I said it one night, "I love you," he was like, "WHAT??" "Why??" but he wanted to talk about it...I didn't really wanna talk about it, just wanted to say it, I had a feeling he wouldnt say it back (and he didn't), but I didn't want it to be a discussion. He made it a discussion later.and the next night he told me in person he doens't want a relationhship. I didn't see him for several months. The next time we got together, things were different. He wanted to be with me. He told me he loved me both in text and in person. He said it 3 or 4 times total. I broke up with him bc I couldn't get over things he did while we were apart/broken up...things he did and said about me when I wasn't there. Even though I was being a giant B to him, I couldn't get over a couple of the things he did regardless of how mean I was being to him at the time.... so I broke up with him again. But, of course, repeating the pattern, I hung out with him post breakup (but we were fighting that night, lol) I was pressing him to explain why he did those things to me, and ultimately he told me he didn't love me. He had lied to take my virginity. But I found this hard to believe bc first of all, I was willing to have sex with him even though he didn't love me back... and second of all, if he refused to say it the previous spring, that tells me when he did say it, it must've been for real. There was literally NO incentive to him saying it to me.I'm confused--which is the truth? Will a guy ever say "I love you" if it isn't true?I wouldn't unless its trueI'm confused--which is the truth? Will a guy ever say "I love you" if it isn't true?
1. Guys say that all the time.
2. In your case, judge it, I am not sure he just said that. Maybe it just took him some time and that's why he did say it a few times sometime after...I'm confused--which is the truth? Will a guy ever say "I love you" if it isn't true?Guys say it all the. Time...I'm confused--which is the truth? Will a guy ever say "I love you" if it isn't true?
Don't be confused. Just know that when a man finds it difficult to express love, things will not change even after marriage. This is who he is. For whatever reason stemming from his early conditioning and experiences.
So if you can settle for some one who will probably never be able to fulfill your need for expressions of love and affection proceed, with the current arrangement.
On the other hand if you can see the reality of what I'm saying, buy a ticket immediately for a trip to Europe and don't come back until you are over your need to be denied and rejected by the man you claim to "love".I'm confused--which is the truth? Will a guy ever say "I love you" if it isn't true?i hate to bring bad news, but guys will say almost anything just to get sex. that's why you need to be careful, because guys sometimes just say it..to get things in return.I'm confused--which is the truth? Will a guy ever say "I love you" if it isn't true?
Yeah, some husbands murder their wives. How do you think that happens if they're really in love? As for this guy, he sounds controlling. Stay away from him.
1. Guys say that all the time.
2. In your case, judge it, I am not sure he just said that. Maybe it just took him some time and that's why he did say it a few times sometime after...I'm confused--which is the truth? Will a guy ever say "I love you" if it isn't true?Guys say it all the. Time...I'm confused--which is the truth? Will a guy ever say "I love you" if it isn't true?
Don't be confused. Just know that when a man finds it difficult to express love, things will not change even after marriage. This is who he is. For whatever reason stemming from his early conditioning and experiences.
So if you can settle for some one who will probably never be able to fulfill your need for expressions of love and affection proceed, with the current arrangement.
On the other hand if you can see the reality of what I'm saying, buy a ticket immediately for a trip to Europe and don't come back until you are over your need to be denied and rejected by the man you claim to "love".I'm confused--which is the truth? Will a guy ever say "I love you" if it isn't true?i hate to bring bad news, but guys will say almost anything just to get sex. that's why you need to be careful, because guys sometimes just say it..to get things in return.I'm confused--which is the truth? Will a guy ever say "I love you" if it isn't true?
Yeah, some husbands murder their wives. How do you think that happens if they're really in love? As for this guy, he sounds controlling. Stay away from him.
Promiscuity - a love of sex or lack of happiness?
Not easy to generalise, I know, but I'm curious for some opinions. When a very intelligent and generally 'nice' girl spends 10 years from 14 to 24 indulging in various one-night stands, often alcohol fuelled, and general apparent enthusiastic promiscuity would you put your money on it being genuine love of sex or major inner issues?Promiscuity - a love of sex or lack of happiness?A one night stand means they can have sex without getting close to someone so therefore i think its both the love of sex and issues when it comes to relationships!Promiscuity - a love of sex or lack of happiness?
A bit of both, but it stems down to deep-rooted issues.
Promiscuous people will defend themselves by saying "It's the sex that I love." We all love sex, but not everyone turns promiscuous. Putting yourself in at risk situations doesn't "prove" your love for sex. It's like how we all love good food, but we don't over-eat.
Once you further probe these people, you will find out that there's self-esteem issues, a history of family problems, a history of sexual abuse, etc. Most people won't easily admit these things though. If you ask a porn star why she's in the business, she will say it's b/c she loves sex. 10 years later when she writes a book (Jenna Jameson/Shelly Lubben), she will confess that she hated it, that she re-victimized herself, and that her actions symbolized her troubled past.
This goes for both men and women. I have had promiscuous ex bf's/family members, and they had some deep-rooted issues themselves.Promiscuity - a love of sex or lack of happiness?I think people who are promiscuous are usually suffering from low self esteem or some kind of depression. Often it stems from a need for approval and love, and it could also be classed as self-destructive behaviour because of the physical risks. Most people enjoy sex, but the need can be satisfied within a relationship, rather than with multiple partners. And I do apply the same standards to men and women.
I think she enjoys sex. I am not sure why people should be surprised by this. I would have thought that the Victorian belief that women did not enjoy sex would have died out by now. Strange how it lingers on.
Nobody would be surprised if a boy had a lot of one night stands between the ages of 14 and 24, why on earth should anyone be surprised if a girl does? Clearly men and women are both designed by nature to want sex, otherwise the human species would have died out long since.Promiscuity - a love of sex or lack of happiness?It can be both, depends how dependent on drugs the woman in the example is.
@ Shove It - "Why is it that if men have a lot of sex people just say it's because they enjoy sex?"
Probably because we're constantly being told that men lack a certain emotional depth for it to be for any other reason.
Promiscuity - a love of sex or lack of happiness?
Inner issues. An addiction to sex grows over time...unless she started having sex at like ten, then I'd say it's inner problems. Everyone knows the teen years are already hectic (you know, "finding yourself" and all that ****), I bet her insecurities drove her to be promiscuous. Maybe she didn't like her body, or had abusive/terrible father/male figures in her life, or thought sex and drinking is cool.
Either, neither, both?
Too many women, too many situations, too many variables. You just can't come up with one answer, because the opposite, or even a combination of opposites could be the determining factor(s) in each person's behavior. Some people do the same things for different reasons. Some people to different things for the same reasons. It is up to each of us to judge what it good or bad for us.
One example: Some people just see sex as sex... as a super-recreation. Are they wrong? Maybe. Maybe not. Will they change their mind over time? Maybe, maybe not. Is that a good or bad thing? Maybe, maybe n-... you see where I'm going here? Depends on the person and how they are wired.Promiscuity - a love of sex or lack of happiness?
I tend to think it's because of isues. A healthy love of sex can be addressed with monogamous relationships. Random one nighters often indicate some emotional issues. Depression, bipolar disorder, or a host of other mental or emotional disailities can all lead to highly promiscuous behavior.
They certainly don't think the use of their body important in anyway so they don't respect themselves. Moreover I don't think that it is many times that we find ourselves attracted to someone to have sex with no matter how much we like it.
Not a psychologist. I don't know the woman in question, so I can't say. If she's unhappy, it's up to her to do something about it.
Ask the same question with the gender flipped and see what answers you get.
Most likely lack of happiness (in general) but I know that there are happy people who love sex!
Major issues.
promiscuity-a future dx of siphyllis
Why is it that if men have a lot of sex people just say it's because they enjoy sex?
major inner issues, i've been friends with countless girls like this. good question, you think like me!
I lost my virginity at 14 and dont see it as a big deal. I met my husband at 18 but have had ons, relationships long and short etc. ( i have only had 1 ons but have had sex with a fair few.) I dont see it as a big deal as its fun to do and it feels good so why not? As long as your cheating I dont see why it matters. I think it is a bigger deal to many Americans because of some of their culture.
I come from a stable family and have no issues at all, i just like sex. At the end of the day most men and many women enjoy sex and like the thrill of it so when your young why not? I wasnt really drunk for any of the sex i have had as i think sex is better sober.
We dont get judged here and i think some countries/parts of countries are still a bit backwards and judgemental about people. I think it depends on the individual really and on what you thinkof things. i mean there are still people out there that thing homosexuality is wrong so some people are pretty backwards. I also think its ridiculous cause men enjoy sex and it doesnt have to be serious but it isnt mainly men who judge women on sex.
I think its dumb how some peopel moan if the person doesnt like sex and some moan if a person does lol. A lotof people you probably know do it and lie my best mates fiance thinks she has been with 3 but it is way way higher than that. Shes drop dead gorgous and has definitely had a good time when she was younger. She just lies to make him not feel threatened. (he already feels threatened as he sees her as way more good looking which she is). I think its ok for her to lie about it if it makes him feel better.
A bit of both, but it stems down to deep-rooted issues.
Promiscuous people will defend themselves by saying "It's the sex that I love." We all love sex, but not everyone turns promiscuous. Putting yourself in at risk situations doesn't "prove" your love for sex. It's like how we all love good food, but we don't over-eat.
Once you further probe these people, you will find out that there's self-esteem issues, a history of family problems, a history of sexual abuse, etc. Most people won't easily admit these things though. If you ask a porn star why she's in the business, she will say it's b/c she loves sex. 10 years later when she writes a book (Jenna Jameson/Shelly Lubben), she will confess that she hated it, that she re-victimized herself, and that her actions symbolized her troubled past.
This goes for both men and women. I have had promiscuous ex bf's/family members, and they had some deep-rooted issues themselves.Promiscuity - a love of sex or lack of happiness?I think people who are promiscuous are usually suffering from low self esteem or some kind of depression. Often it stems from a need for approval and love, and it could also be classed as self-destructive behaviour because of the physical risks. Most people enjoy sex, but the need can be satisfied within a relationship, rather than with multiple partners. And I do apply the same standards to men and women.
I think she enjoys sex. I am not sure why people should be surprised by this. I would have thought that the Victorian belief that women did not enjoy sex would have died out by now. Strange how it lingers on.
Nobody would be surprised if a boy had a lot of one night stands between the ages of 14 and 24, why on earth should anyone be surprised if a girl does? Clearly men and women are both designed by nature to want sex, otherwise the human species would have died out long since.Promiscuity - a love of sex or lack of happiness?It can be both, depends how dependent on drugs the woman in the example is.
@ Shove It - "Why is it that if men have a lot of sex people just say it's because they enjoy sex?"
Probably because we're constantly being told that men lack a certain emotional depth for it to be for any other reason.
Promiscuity - a love of sex or lack of happiness?
Inner issues. An addiction to sex grows over time...unless she started having sex at like ten, then I'd say it's inner problems. Everyone knows the teen years are already hectic (you know, "finding yourself" and all that ****), I bet her insecurities drove her to be promiscuous. Maybe she didn't like her body, or had abusive/terrible father/male figures in her life, or thought sex and drinking is cool.
Either, neither, both?
Too many women, too many situations, too many variables. You just can't come up with one answer, because the opposite, or even a combination of opposites could be the determining factor(s) in each person's behavior. Some people do the same things for different reasons. Some people to different things for the same reasons. It is up to each of us to judge what it good or bad for us.
One example: Some people just see sex as sex... as a super-recreation. Are they wrong? Maybe. Maybe not. Will they change their mind over time? Maybe, maybe not. Is that a good or bad thing? Maybe, maybe n-... you see where I'm going here? Depends on the person and how they are wired.Promiscuity - a love of sex or lack of happiness?
I tend to think it's because of isues. A healthy love of sex can be addressed with monogamous relationships. Random one nighters often indicate some emotional issues. Depression, bipolar disorder, or a host of other mental or emotional disailities can all lead to highly promiscuous behavior.
They certainly don't think the use of their body important in anyway so they don't respect themselves. Moreover I don't think that it is many times that we find ourselves attracted to someone to have sex with no matter how much we like it.
Not a psychologist. I don't know the woman in question, so I can't say. If she's unhappy, it's up to her to do something about it.
Ask the same question with the gender flipped and see what answers you get.
Most likely lack of happiness (in general) but I know that there are happy people who love sex!
Major issues.
promiscuity-a future dx of siphyllis
Why is it that if men have a lot of sex people just say it's because they enjoy sex?
major inner issues, i've been friends with countless girls like this. good question, you think like me!
I lost my virginity at 14 and dont see it as a big deal. I met my husband at 18 but have had ons, relationships long and short etc. ( i have only had 1 ons but have had sex with a fair few.) I dont see it as a big deal as its fun to do and it feels good so why not? As long as your cheating I dont see why it matters. I think it is a bigger deal to many Americans because of some of their culture.
I come from a stable family and have no issues at all, i just like sex. At the end of the day most men and many women enjoy sex and like the thrill of it so when your young why not? I wasnt really drunk for any of the sex i have had as i think sex is better sober.
We dont get judged here and i think some countries/parts of countries are still a bit backwards and judgemental about people. I think it depends on the individual really and on what you thinkof things. i mean there are still people out there that thing homosexuality is wrong so some people are pretty backwards. I also think its ridiculous cause men enjoy sex and it doesnt have to be serious but it isnt mainly men who judge women on sex.
I think its dumb how some peopel moan if the person doesnt like sex and some moan if a person does lol. A lotof people you probably know do it and lie my best mates fiance thinks she has been with 3 but it is way way higher than that. Shes drop dead gorgous and has definitely had a good time when she was younger. She just lies to make him not feel threatened. (he already feels threatened as he sees her as way more good looking which she is). I think its ok for her to lie about it if it makes him feel better.
How can I convince my husband to help me with our daughter? I am not a single parent but I feel like one!!?
I feel like I have to do EVERYTHING. I clean, cook and take care of our daughter's EVERY need. He hardly even plays with her. He thinks that changing her diaper once a day and watching her (which means listening to her cry while he plays video games) for ten-fifteen minutes while I cook dinner is enough. But it isn't. I am worn out I need a break. Why can't he stay up with her one night when she can't sleep? I know he works hard (he's in the military) but so do I . Just because I am a stay at home mom doesn't mean I don't work! I even have to take her in the bathroom with me to use the restroom or get a chance to take a bath! I don't know what to do! I love him to death but I can't live like this anymore!How can I convince my husband to help me with our daughter? I am not a single parent but I feel like one!!?Sounds like my life with my ex. Only I had 3 kids. He never did a damn thing. When they were young, I stayed home. When they were old enough for school, he still did not change. I worked 40 hours a week, cooked,cleaned, ran all the errands. He was worthless. I needed him for less than nothing. But, I loved him. Lay down the law girl. Now! tell him how you feel. If he ignores you, tell him that you gotta go. Just say, I am going to take a bath, so watch our child. Take control and do it fast. You work too. Being a stay at home mom is WORK!!!
What do you need him for, sounds like you can do it all by yourself. Hell, with some batteries any way. I know it's crude, but it is the truth. Your relationship with your child will only be better if you can get away once and awhile. He is selfish because he thinks, I pay all the bills, you do all the work around here. We are even. Hell know, you are working 24-7. He has know idea what that is like. Leave for a night, he will be wishing like hell you were there. Good Luck!How can I convince my husband to help me with our daughter? I am not a single parent but I feel like one!!?
Sad, but your dh may be under alot of stress and he does deal with work all day. I am NOT knocking SAHMs, I have been one and know it is stressful, and I had 3 to look after. But working at a stressful job is a little different. Tell your dh that if he doesn't want to help out more then maybe you could hire a babysitter once a week so that you could get a break. Maybe that will guilt him into stepping up a little. Most of all talk to him, with out nagging. Tell him y ou are not asking him to totally take over, but if he could just take over for a little while it would certainly help you to destress your day and make you feel more "attentive" to him when the lights go out. I am all for wives using sex on their husbands! Bet that will work.How can I convince my husband to help me with our daughter? I am not a single parent but I feel like one!!?Um good luck with that sweety, because I've been dealing with it for 7 years and two kids.... it's slowly gotten better as the kids got older. How old is your daughter btw? I look at it like this, he works all day, I'm the stay at home mom, my sole purpose right now is to take care of the kids. That's what gets me through it, I try to look at the fun parts of it, and it helps me get past the hard part, like the up all night puking stuff. I'm not much help I know, but it helps sometimes to know your not the only one out there.
My husband is the same way. I too am a stay at home mom of 3...and it is rough, I mean rough. There are times that I wake up in the middle of the day, and not even knowing I fell asleep. My husband says, he pays the bills and work everyday, so he needs his solitude away from the kids. So when he comes home, he goes to the bed room, turn on the TV and post until the alarm clock go off in the morning to start a new day. I cook, clean, pick up, drop off, run his errans, along with dr. appt's., dental, I can't even get a pap w/o my 4 yr old and 2 yr old asking me, "why is the dr using that light down there". All I can say is hang in there. I decided to get a job to get a break. Stay at home moms do too much, it's a 24 hour shift, no breaks, no appreciation, nothing but, wha, wha wha. I feel ya.How can I convince my husband to help me with our daughter? I am not a single parent but I feel like one!!?hun he is a shame to be called a man you are his duty not the video game and the military teaches respect and he has none i would leave his stupid *** he is a father not a boy and he is a husband not a live in...kick his a s s to the curb and start savin money for you and the baby and leave his a s s.... stand up for you and your daughter you know what they say little girls will choose men for themselves that are just like their daddy and do you want your baby dating someone like him?How can I convince my husband to help me with our daughter? I am not a single parent but I feel like one!!?
hmm sounds familiar...! They don't get it! maybe sit down and talk with him...but you may have already done this! My advice if you know she will be safe with him get dressed and when he gets home tell him you have to run an errand...and run out the house! Go get a cup of coffee a manicure/pedicure something! I can't even take a shower without someone needing something...So I know how you feel! If he won't give you alone time....then maybe take it! If still he doesn't get it you may have to be tough! It's not fair for him to be soo selfish! GOOD LUCK!
Has he heard the complaints you list here? If not, it's time he did before you fall down exhausted. If he has and dismisses you or minimizes them, try this:
Arrange in advance a day that your husband gets your daughter for the entire day (or an overnight). This way he can get an appreciation for how much work you do. You stay with a girlfriend or go to the spa and see what he has learned in your absense.How can I convince my husband to help me with our daughter? I am not a single parent but I feel like one!!?
I promise you this: it will get better. But it takes a lot of communication.
Convincing the husband of a SAHM's worth is tricky. You also have to communicate appreciation for his work and time. When I went through this with my husband, I was so resentful of his lack of home time that I failed miserably to acknowledge that his job was busy and stressful too.
We came up with a plan that worked a miracle and saved our marriage. We even started planning the second...
Sit down once a week (we did ours on Sunday) and discuss your schedules. When will he be home? When id Poker night, when is bookclub... whatever. Here's the best part:
-- when is your 2 hours out of the house, and when is his two hours.
-- decide who gets the before dinner shift and the after dinner shift with the baby.
-- figure out who is on diaper patrol on Saturday and Sunday...
It sounds absurd, but I am telling you, this is what it takes.
It worked for us, I hope it works for you. And if it doesn't, that you find something that does! Good luck!!
Take his video player hide it with the games somewhere he wont find them , when you cook only cook enough for you and your daughter , dont do his washing , and dont get him anything when he asks for it , he'll either crack it and walk out or he'll realise he's a dad now not a teenage boy , I dont care if he's in the military or working from home you didnt make this baby by yourself and you certainly werent born into enslavement , sometimes it just takes a hard hand to get what you want.
If he wanted a mummy of his own he should have stayed at home living with mummy and daddy plain and simple.When you go for your baths if your daughter is very young put her on a blanket on the floor in front of him stand in front of him and say "I am going to soak in a nice bath I am sure your daddy enough to see to her while I have my 10 minutes of relaxation time". Then walk into the bathroom and block the door from being able to be opened he'll wake up sooner or later.
Good luck.
Honey, you may need to seek professional help! He plays video games while she is crying and makes No attempt to help while you are cooking! I don't care what kind of job he has - he has got to offer a little help. You may need to convince him that you are not super woman. That you would like to take a shower or bath without your daughter. Do you think if you just told him to watch her that you are going to take a shower, run to the store, use the bathroom, cook, etc. that he would not do anything if she continued to cry OR are you to quick to take over - so that he just does not have to worry about it. If you are a 100% sure that he would not harm your daughter and is capible of caring for her - you may just have to force this on him. Example: On his day off - tell him you are going to run to the store. Then do it! or Take a Shower alone and do it. And let him know he will have to care for his daughter while you do this. Make him responsible too!
Or continue to be a one woman army and a single parent and allow him to continue to live as if he is single with out a care in the world!
What do you need him for, sounds like you can do it all by yourself. Hell, with some batteries any way. I know it's crude, but it is the truth. Your relationship with your child will only be better if you can get away once and awhile. He is selfish because he thinks, I pay all the bills, you do all the work around here. We are even. Hell know, you are working 24-7. He has know idea what that is like. Leave for a night, he will be wishing like hell you were there. Good Luck!How can I convince my husband to help me with our daughter? I am not a single parent but I feel like one!!?
Sad, but your dh may be under alot of stress and he does deal with work all day. I am NOT knocking SAHMs, I have been one and know it is stressful, and I had 3 to look after. But working at a stressful job is a little different. Tell your dh that if he doesn't want to help out more then maybe you could hire a babysitter once a week so that you could get a break. Maybe that will guilt him into stepping up a little. Most of all talk to him, with out nagging. Tell him y ou are not asking him to totally take over, but if he could just take over for a little while it would certainly help you to destress your day and make you feel more "attentive" to him when the lights go out. I am all for wives using sex on their husbands! Bet that will work.How can I convince my husband to help me with our daughter? I am not a single parent but I feel like one!!?Um good luck with that sweety, because I've been dealing with it for 7 years and two kids.... it's slowly gotten better as the kids got older. How old is your daughter btw? I look at it like this, he works all day, I'm the stay at home mom, my sole purpose right now is to take care of the kids. That's what gets me through it, I try to look at the fun parts of it, and it helps me get past the hard part, like the up all night puking stuff. I'm not much help I know, but it helps sometimes to know your not the only one out there.
My husband is the same way. I too am a stay at home mom of 3...and it is rough, I mean rough. There are times that I wake up in the middle of the day, and not even knowing I fell asleep. My husband says, he pays the bills and work everyday, so he needs his solitude away from the kids. So when he comes home, he goes to the bed room, turn on the TV and post until the alarm clock go off in the morning to start a new day. I cook, clean, pick up, drop off, run his errans, along with dr. appt's., dental, I can't even get a pap w/o my 4 yr old and 2 yr old asking me, "why is the dr using that light down there". All I can say is hang in there. I decided to get a job to get a break. Stay at home moms do too much, it's a 24 hour shift, no breaks, no appreciation, nothing but, wha, wha wha. I feel ya.How can I convince my husband to help me with our daughter? I am not a single parent but I feel like one!!?hun he is a shame to be called a man you are his duty not the video game and the military teaches respect and he has none i would leave his stupid *** he is a father not a boy and he is a husband not a live in...kick his a s s to the curb and start savin money for you and the baby and leave his a s s.... stand up for you and your daughter you know what they say little girls will choose men for themselves that are just like their daddy and do you want your baby dating someone like him?How can I convince my husband to help me with our daughter? I am not a single parent but I feel like one!!?
hmm sounds familiar...! They don't get it! maybe sit down and talk with him...but you may have already done this! My advice if you know she will be safe with him get dressed and when he gets home tell him you have to run an errand...and run out the house! Go get a cup of coffee a manicure/pedicure something! I can't even take a shower without someone needing something...So I know how you feel! If he won't give you alone time....then maybe take it! If still he doesn't get it you may have to be tough! It's not fair for him to be soo selfish! GOOD LUCK!
Has he heard the complaints you list here? If not, it's time he did before you fall down exhausted. If he has and dismisses you or minimizes them, try this:
Arrange in advance a day that your husband gets your daughter for the entire day (or an overnight). This way he can get an appreciation for how much work you do. You stay with a girlfriend or go to the spa and see what he has learned in your absense.How can I convince my husband to help me with our daughter? I am not a single parent but I feel like one!!?
I promise you this: it will get better. But it takes a lot of communication.
Convincing the husband of a SAHM's worth is tricky. You also have to communicate appreciation for his work and time. When I went through this with my husband, I was so resentful of his lack of home time that I failed miserably to acknowledge that his job was busy and stressful too.
We came up with a plan that worked a miracle and saved our marriage. We even started planning the second...
Sit down once a week (we did ours on Sunday) and discuss your schedules. When will he be home? When id Poker night, when is bookclub... whatever. Here's the best part:
-- when is your 2 hours out of the house, and when is his two hours.
-- decide who gets the before dinner shift and the after dinner shift with the baby.
-- figure out who is on diaper patrol on Saturday and Sunday...
It sounds absurd, but I am telling you, this is what it takes.
It worked for us, I hope it works for you. And if it doesn't, that you find something that does! Good luck!!
Take his video player hide it with the games somewhere he wont find them , when you cook only cook enough for you and your daughter , dont do his washing , and dont get him anything when he asks for it , he'll either crack it and walk out or he'll realise he's a dad now not a teenage boy , I dont care if he's in the military or working from home you didnt make this baby by yourself and you certainly werent born into enslavement , sometimes it just takes a hard hand to get what you want.
If he wanted a mummy of his own he should have stayed at home living with mummy and daddy plain and simple.When you go for your baths if your daughter is very young put her on a blanket on the floor in front of him stand in front of him and say "I am going to soak in a nice bath I am sure your daddy enough to see to her while I have my 10 minutes of relaxation time". Then walk into the bathroom and block the door from being able to be opened he'll wake up sooner or later.
Good luck.
Honey, you may need to seek professional help! He plays video games while she is crying and makes No attempt to help while you are cooking! I don't care what kind of job he has - he has got to offer a little help. You may need to convince him that you are not super woman. That you would like to take a shower or bath without your daughter. Do you think if you just told him to watch her that you are going to take a shower, run to the store, use the bathroom, cook, etc. that he would not do anything if she continued to cry OR are you to quick to take over - so that he just does not have to worry about it. If you are a 100% sure that he would not harm your daughter and is capible of caring for her - you may just have to force this on him. Example: On his day off - tell him you are going to run to the store. Then do it! or Take a Shower alone and do it. And let him know he will have to care for his daughter while you do this. Make him responsible too!
Or continue to be a one woman army and a single parent and allow him to continue to live as if he is single with out a care in the world!
Im dating my nephews dad?(No blood relation to me) Whats the harm? Im in love, but is it bad for the kid?
My sis got pregnant by a guy she had a one night stand with. THEY had a baby. Her name is Mandy. Through the years, Mandys dad and I have built a strong and lasting relationship. ON THE DOWNLOW. Im 19 now, but still living at home. Kevin is Mandys dad, asked me to move in with him. We've been seeing each other for 2 years now....and he wants to go public with the family. My sister has always had feelings for him, but they've only been a one night stand. I love my sis, but we're not especially THAT close....Mandy comes to visit Kev on the weekends, I just dont want to screw up the little girl.... what will people think...and the girl if things work out between us? SHould I worry, or am being a worry wart.
So I guess im her aunt, with the potential of being her step mom. Whats going on.Im dating my nephews dad?(No blood relation to me) Whats the harm? Im in love, but is it bad for the kid?You were young and you still are. As a sister of 4 sisters, I have to say that you are very selfish. You're not only being unfair to your sister but to your niece. You leave both of them with no choice. You never had a kid before you don't even know how hard it must have been for your sister. It was a one night stand, but Mandy is not a one time thing. She is here and she's happened. Your sister could have been selfish enough to abort knowing that Kevin didn't love your sister but she kept it and here you are having an intimate relationship with him. Just because she had a one night stand with him doesn't mean that you and him have something greater. She had his kid do you understand? If he weren't ready for a kid, he shouldn't have had sex with her and especially without protection. You, 19 and already wanting to marry instead of talking about going to school and getting an education. I don't even know if you're thinking about yourself less than you are already about your own family.Im dating my nephews dad?(No blood relation to me) Whats the harm? Im in love, but is it bad for the kid?
You realize that Mandy, the "little girl" is your niece and not your nephew, right???
Since your sis and the dude never really had a relationship, he's fair game (esp if you don't care if you hurt her if you and he were to get together)...the child will be fine and the situation can be explained when she (or he???) is old enough to understand...Im dating my nephews dad?(No blood relation to me) Whats the harm? Im in love, but is it bad for the kid?your ******* retarded!!! thats like some jerry springer ****! are u black? my god if ur sis even has feelings (let alone a ******* kid) why the **** would u even try anything with him. u are the ****** slut sister that ruins everything. your ******* worthless. in order to benefit to the world in any aspect u should probably kill yourself.
It could definitely have a negative impact on the kid. How do you think her mum will react with you shacking up with the father of their child. That will then have a flow on effect on the kid.Im dating my nephews dad?(No blood relation to me) Whats the harm? Im in love, but is it bad for the kid?You're running the risk of learning the definition of "distant relatives."Im dating my nephews dad?(No blood relation to me) Whats the harm? Im in love, but is it bad for the kid?
lol, im married to my neices dad... well step neice. its no problem .... people may talk **** for a little while, but it will pass. no worries
its not illegal, but a lil strange, follow your heart, you know there will be some talk and hurt among ur family, good luck on ur decisionIm dating my nephews dad?(No blood relation to me) Whats the harm? Im in love, but is it bad for the kid?
My grandparents were cousins
My parents are cousins.
I have a heart defect and my brothers, one of them has Asthma and the other is short-sighted.
I would never repeat my grandparents or my parents mistake and marry someone related to me! They tried it on me and I was engaged to my cousin, then I realised it was wrong and broke it off!
I'm marrying someone from a different culture, different features to my people, even different religion maybe.
You shouldn't date a sister's ex... it will forever be a rift between you. I say, find your own man! There is still a chance they could get together and be a family, especially if she has feelings. If you hadn't been sleeping with him, maybe they would be together. Your sister will be livid if she finds out!
I also bet they were having more sex than a one night stand. That's what everyone says, "it was only one time." I bet they've slept together after the baby was born as well... of course they're not going to come out and say that. Don't be naive and think it was just one time. People say that to save face.
And he IS a blood relation in that your niece is his blood relative... that's just too close for me.
So I guess im her aunt, with the potential of being her step mom. Whats going on.Im dating my nephews dad?(No blood relation to me) Whats the harm? Im in love, but is it bad for the kid?You were young and you still are. As a sister of 4 sisters, I have to say that you are very selfish. You're not only being unfair to your sister but to your niece. You leave both of them with no choice. You never had a kid before you don't even know how hard it must have been for your sister. It was a one night stand, but Mandy is not a one time thing. She is here and she's happened. Your sister could have been selfish enough to abort knowing that Kevin didn't love your sister but she kept it and here you are having an intimate relationship with him. Just because she had a one night stand with him doesn't mean that you and him have something greater. She had his kid do you understand? If he weren't ready for a kid, he shouldn't have had sex with her and especially without protection. You, 19 and already wanting to marry instead of talking about going to school and getting an education. I don't even know if you're thinking about yourself less than you are already about your own family.Im dating my nephews dad?(No blood relation to me) Whats the harm? Im in love, but is it bad for the kid?
You realize that Mandy, the "little girl" is your niece and not your nephew, right???
Since your sis and the dude never really had a relationship, he's fair game (esp if you don't care if you hurt her if you and he were to get together)...the child will be fine and the situation can be explained when she (or he???) is old enough to understand...Im dating my nephews dad?(No blood relation to me) Whats the harm? Im in love, but is it bad for the kid?your ******* retarded!!! thats like some jerry springer ****! are u black? my god if ur sis even has feelings (let alone a ******* kid) why the **** would u even try anything with him. u are the ****** slut sister that ruins everything. your ******* worthless. in order to benefit to the world in any aspect u should probably kill yourself.
It could definitely have a negative impact on the kid. How do you think her mum will react with you shacking up with the father of their child. That will then have a flow on effect on the kid.Im dating my nephews dad?(No blood relation to me) Whats the harm? Im in love, but is it bad for the kid?You're running the risk of learning the definition of "distant relatives."Im dating my nephews dad?(No blood relation to me) Whats the harm? Im in love, but is it bad for the kid?
lol, im married to my neices dad... well step neice. its no problem .... people may talk **** for a little while, but it will pass. no worries
its not illegal, but a lil strange, follow your heart, you know there will be some talk and hurt among ur family, good luck on ur decisionIm dating my nephews dad?(No blood relation to me) Whats the harm? Im in love, but is it bad for the kid?
My grandparents were cousins
My parents are cousins.
I have a heart defect and my brothers, one of them has Asthma and the other is short-sighted.
I would never repeat my grandparents or my parents mistake and marry someone related to me! They tried it on me and I was engaged to my cousin, then I realised it was wrong and broke it off!
I'm marrying someone from a different culture, different features to my people, even different religion maybe.
You shouldn't date a sister's ex... it will forever be a rift between you. I say, find your own man! There is still a chance they could get together and be a family, especially if she has feelings. If you hadn't been sleeping with him, maybe they would be together. Your sister will be livid if she finds out!
I also bet they were having more sex than a one night stand. That's what everyone says, "it was only one time." I bet they've slept together after the baby was born as well... of course they're not going to come out and say that. Don't be naive and think it was just one time. People say that to save face.
And he IS a blood relation in that your niece is his blood relative... that's just too close for me.
How will i know if my best friend's gay and in love with me?
Im a guy and in 3rd year highschool. I have a bestfriend who is just sooooooooo handsome and good looking. we've been best friends since prep level and still friends until now. We are really close and very touchy too. When our eyes meet, we gaze into each other's eyes until someone looks away or asks why. We do everything together and I would even pay for everything when were together just because I want to be with him. I honestly go crazy if i dont get to talk/chat/see him. HE is really good looking and alot of girls are doing extraordinary feats to add him in friendster, chat with him or simply see him but he doenst have a girlfriend. He is kinda emo-ish but on a very small level.Aside from the fact that he is not that talkative but only i can make him talk for long. I really love his laugh. I pretty much make a fool out of myself just to see that beautiful smile and laugh. My other classmates have told me that he sometimes looks at me when im not looking. The look that says i love you. That kind of look. When we watch movies, he would sometimes hold my hand if theres a scary part(this could mean that he is either trying to stop me from covering my eyes or just wants to hold my hand) and leans on my shoulder. Its very sweet. I have this strange feeling when he is beside me and he hold my hand. I pretty much go to some school events that are not mandatory just to see him. He is the type of guy who looks like a girl. emo-hair thin body. He doesn't act like a gay-girlish person who flaunts but he acts like a shy girl. Really looks like a girl. I treat him as one. I really love him and i dont know if he feels the same way for me. Im pretty kinda defiantly maybe sure that he is gay for me. I even think he sometimes begs me to kiss him cause he looks at me when our faces are JUST TOOOO close. I also feel the strong amount of WANT AND NEED to simply press my lips against his.u know guys. there was recently an event that happened in my class. one of my friends who is really gay told they guy he was gay for. That guy said that he wasnt gay and now the whole class knows it and their friendship is now destroyed. i wont let that happened to me.
but i did ask him one night if he loved me as a friend. he said yes. I love him. How do i know if He is gay?How will i know if my best friend's gay and in love with me?You'll going to regret it if you don't go for it. I had a friend my last year of high school that was a German foreign exchange student, he was so freaking cute. I still regret not at least trying to ask him out.How will i know if my best friend's gay and in love with me?How about you tell him you're gay and see what he says. Sounds like you haven't come out yet. If he's your best friend, he isn't going to care.muffler english to arabic
but i did ask him one night if he loved me as a friend. he said yes. I love him. How do i know if He is gay?How will i know if my best friend's gay and in love with me?You'll going to regret it if you don't go for it. I had a friend my last year of high school that was a German foreign exchange student, he was so freaking cute. I still regret not at least trying to ask him out.How will i know if my best friend's gay and in love with me?How about you tell him you're gay and see what he says. Sounds like you haven't come out yet. If he's your best friend, he isn't going to care.
How will i know if my best friend is gay and in love with me?
im a guy and in 3rd year highschool. I have a bestfriend who is just sooooooooo handsome and good looking. we've been best friends since prep level and still friends until now. We are really close and very touchy too. When our eyes meet, we gaze into each other's eyes until someone looks away or asks why. We do everything together and I would even pay for everything when were together just because I want to be with him. I honestly go crazy if i dont get to talk/chat/see him. HE is really good looking and alot of girls are doing extraordinary feats to add him in friendster, chat with him or simply see him but he doenst have a girlfriend. He is kinda emo-ish but on a very small level.Aside from the fact that he is not that talkative but only i can make him talk for long. I really love his laugh. I pretty much make a fool out of myself just to see that beautiful smile and laugh. My other classmates have told me that he sometimes looks at me when im not looking. The look that says i love you. That kind of look. When we watch movies, he would sometimes hold my hand if theres a scary part(this could mean that he is either trying to stop me from covering my eyes or just wants to hold my hand) and leans on my shoulder. Its very sweet. I have this strange feeling when he is beside me and he hold my hand. I pretty much go to some school events that are not mandatory just to see him. He is the type of guy who looks like a girl. emo-hair thin body. He doesn't act like a gay-girlish person who flaunts but he acts like a shy girl. Really looks like a girl. I treat him as one. I really love him and i dont know if he feels the same way for me. Im pretty kinda defiantly maybe sure that he is gay for me. I even think he sometimes begs me to kiss him cause he looks at me when our faces are JUST TOOOO close. I also feel the strong amount of WANT AND NEED to simply press my lips against his.u know guys. there was recently an event that happened in my class. one of my friends who is really gay told they guy he was gay for. That guy said that he wasnt gay and now the whole class knows it and their friendship is now destroyed. i wont let that happened to me.
but i did ask him one night if he loved me as a friend. he said yes. I love him. How do i know if He is gay?How will i know if my best friend is gay and in love with me?You are kidding me right? First, straight guys do not hold hands, they do not lean on each others shoulders and they do not stare longingly into each others eyes.
He is warm for you form and you need to realize this. Now whether or not you want to act on it is your decision.How will i know if my best friend is gay and in love with me?
ask....How will i know if my best friend is gay and in love with me?It's sounds like you need to just ask him,
Since you've asked this same question 5 times, get it over with, your wasting time.How will i know if my best friend is gay and in love with me?
*pukes*How will i know if my best friend is gay and in love with me?sounds like love to me
and when a gay person looks at another gay person, don't they know right away if they're gay or not?How will i know if my best friend is gay and in love with me?
Heya,
i noticed you wrote ALOT of questions on this topic over the last 3 weeks
it must be REALLY getting to you
if you ever ever ever need someone to talk bout it with you can email me
x-jessica-x@msn.com
im 14 from England...lol i might not exactly be the best at giving advice but it sounds like this is effecting your whole life ...
oh and the same as what i wrote before
I think this guy likes you as more than a friend and i also think your feeling towards him are too cute =D
Lots of love
- Jessica x
but i did ask him one night if he loved me as a friend. he said yes. I love him. How do i know if He is gay?How will i know if my best friend is gay and in love with me?You are kidding me right? First, straight guys do not hold hands, they do not lean on each others shoulders and they do not stare longingly into each others eyes.
He is warm for you form and you need to realize this. Now whether or not you want to act on it is your decision.How will i know if my best friend is gay and in love with me?
ask....How will i know if my best friend is gay and in love with me?It's sounds like you need to just ask him,
Since you've asked this same question 5 times, get it over with, your wasting time.How will i know if my best friend is gay and in love with me?
*pukes*How will i know if my best friend is gay and in love with me?sounds like love to me
and when a gay person looks at another gay person, don't they know right away if they're gay or not?How will i know if my best friend is gay and in love with me?
Heya,
i noticed you wrote ALOT of questions on this topic over the last 3 weeks
it must be REALLY getting to you
if you ever ever ever need someone to talk bout it with you can email me
x-jessica-x@msn.com
im 14 from England...lol i might not exactly be the best at giving advice but it sounds like this is effecting your whole life ...
oh and the same as what i wrote before
I think this guy likes you as more than a friend and i also think your feeling towards him are too cute =D
Lots of love
- Jessica x
What do you think of this poem: Love So Strong?
this poem was inspired by the Tanabata (涓冨, tanabata?, meaning "Evening of the seventh") is a JapaneseChinese star festival, Qi Xi (涓冨 "The Night of Sevens")锛?star festival, derived from the
It celebrates the meeting of Orihime (Vega) and Hikoboshi (Altair). The Milky Way, a river made from stars that crosses the sky, separates these lovers, and they are allowed to meet only once a year on the seventh day of the seventh lunar month of the lunisolar calendar. Since the stars come out at night, the celebration is held at night.
hope you enjoy
She loves him
and he loves her
Their love so united
so pure
Their wait for each other so long
year after year
and finally July is here
The milky way is gone
they can finally hug each other
kiss each other
for that one night long
Their love so strong
it can never be wrongWhat do you think of this poem: Love So Strong?I, as the reader, don't feel that your subject matter truly produces an emotional response within you the writer.
How would you feel if you were kept away from someone you loved so much and whom loved you so much that you could be one person? How would you feel parted from that person for 360 long, painful days, that wore on as if you had half a heart? How would you feel when finally, for one day, your heart was complete and you could be whole again?
I think is technically ok but needs some depth of emotional experience. If anything I feel, as the reader, that the writer is naieve as to the subject.
Think about it and feel it then re-write it and see what you come up with. It certainly has alot of potential.
GL and keep writing, this was a good effort.
- Tony
It celebrates the meeting of Orihime (Vega) and Hikoboshi (Altair). The Milky Way, a river made from stars that crosses the sky, separates these lovers, and they are allowed to meet only once a year on the seventh day of the seventh lunar month of the lunisolar calendar. Since the stars come out at night, the celebration is held at night.
hope you enjoy
She loves him
and he loves her
Their love so united
so pure
Their wait for each other so long
year after year
and finally July is here
The milky way is gone
they can finally hug each other
kiss each other
for that one night long
Their love so strong
it can never be wrongWhat do you think of this poem: Love So Strong?I, as the reader, don't feel that your subject matter truly produces an emotional response within you the writer.
How would you feel if you were kept away from someone you loved so much and whom loved you so much that you could be one person? How would you feel parted from that person for 360 long, painful days, that wore on as if you had half a heart? How would you feel when finally, for one day, your heart was complete and you could be whole again?
I think is technically ok but needs some depth of emotional experience. If anything I feel, as the reader, that the writer is naieve as to the subject.
Think about it and feel it then re-write it and see what you come up with. It certainly has alot of potential.
GL and keep writing, this was a good effort.
- Tony
Do I tell my girlfriend I cheated on her?
My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We're in love, but one night at a party, I felt up a girl. We did not kiss, or have sex. I just felt her up. Do I tell my girlfriend. She'll break up with me, and everyone in my school will hate me, including my best friend. The guilt is killing me, what should I do?Do I tell my girlfriend I cheated on her?I think you should tell her, I am a girl and i would appreciate a guy who would admit his mistakes! To be completely honest, I would be a BIT pissed but if she truly loves you and you honestly did nothing she will forgive you. I'm pretty sure she would like to hear it now from you than later by someone else!
TELL HER! %26lt;3
HOPE I HELPED
HOPE EVERYTHING GOES WELLDo I tell my girlfriend I cheated on her?Tell her she might be pissed but you will feel better and less guilty.
TELL HER! %26lt;3
HOPE I HELPED
HOPE EVERYTHING GOES WELLDo I tell my girlfriend I cheated on her?Tell her she might be pissed but you will feel better and less guilty.
How can I memorize a scene in one night, by tonight!? PLEASE ANSWER!?
So I'm at a camp, and they gave me a one 1/4 page scene to memorize (I'm a girl by the way), from teh vampire diaries. And I'm taking a class with Maggie Murphy who casts for Malcom in the Middle, etc.. and I really want to make a really great impression. She already seems to sord of likes me I guess, I don't know but she was laughing (good kind of laughing) when we were doing an improve story game. And she said I was good :) But I have to memorize this tonight, and I have pretty much all of it down, except for a monologue that's about a paragraph long. How can I get that part down so it flows better. But she was the first one in my group to give me the scene, but then she gave the scene to 2 other people in my group. And I want to stand out well! Can anybody help?? NO RUDE ANSWERS PLEASE :) I'm a GIRL who just loves to act, and I want to act professionally soon :) Thanks in advance :)
Also is Maggie Murphy a big deal type of person, and have you heard of her??How can I memorize a scene in one night, by tonight!? PLEASE ANSWER!?Try associating phrases or key words with objects that you'd know will be on the stage with you. An example would be if a phrase is about fire, you might associate it with someone who has red hair. Try to memorize the key words first, over and over, until you have the gist of the recital. Then, once you have it down, keep reading over and over until you have the gist of the flow of the words.
If necessary, if you don't remember the exact words, but have the gist of your part, then just fill in your own words (ad libbing) so that the idea gets across.
Key word/phrasing association and ad libbing could work for you.
Words from the heart are easier to remember than exact words on a page, and easier to act out.
On another note, most theaters and plays have prompters, who will convey key words to help actors/actresses remember thier lines. And most video acting has cue cards or teleprompters off-screen.
You also might write the key words down on paper, with large lettering, and tape them to the stage floor just before the play/scene begins. If you can get away with it.
I've used cue cards onstage when singing a song just "learned" the night before, to help me remember the lyrics.How can I memorize a scene in one night, by tonight!? PLEASE ANSWER!?Memorize the last lines first.
Then back up a line or two. Keep backing up. You will always have the first part fresh and the last part will be the most familiar. You are always moving to what you are sure of.
Good Luck
Also is Maggie Murphy a big deal type of person, and have you heard of her??How can I memorize a scene in one night, by tonight!? PLEASE ANSWER!?Try associating phrases or key words with objects that you'd know will be on the stage with you. An example would be if a phrase is about fire, you might associate it with someone who has red hair. Try to memorize the key words first, over and over, until you have the gist of the recital. Then, once you have it down, keep reading over and over until you have the gist of the flow of the words.
If necessary, if you don't remember the exact words, but have the gist of your part, then just fill in your own words (ad libbing) so that the idea gets across.
Key word/phrasing association and ad libbing could work for you.
Words from the heart are easier to remember than exact words on a page, and easier to act out.
On another note, most theaters and plays have prompters, who will convey key words to help actors/actresses remember thier lines. And most video acting has cue cards or teleprompters off-screen.
You also might write the key words down on paper, with large lettering, and tape them to the stage floor just before the play/scene begins. If you can get away with it.
I've used cue cards onstage when singing a song just "learned" the night before, to help me remember the lyrics.How can I memorize a scene in one night, by tonight!? PLEASE ANSWER!?Memorize the last lines first.
Then back up a line or two. Keep backing up. You will always have the first part fresh and the last part will be the most familiar. You are always moving to what you are sure of.
Good Luck
How can I memorize a scene in one night, by tonight!? PLEASE ANSWER!?
So I'm at a camp, and they gave me a one 1/4 page scene to memorize (I'm a girl by the way), from teh vampire diaries. And I'm taking a class with Maggie Murphy who casts for Malcom in the Middle, etc.. and I really want to make a really great impression. She already seems to sord of likes me I guess, I don't know but she was laughing (good kind of laughing) when we were doing an improve story game. And she said I was good :) But I have to memorize this tonight, and I have pretty much all of it down, except for a monologue that's about a paragraph long. How can I get that part down so it flows better. But she was the first one in my group to give me the scene, but then she gave the scene to 2 other people in my group. And I want to stand out well! Can anybody help?? NO RUDE ANSWERS PLEASE :) I'm a GIRL who just loves to act, and I want to act professionally soon :) Thanks in advance :)
Also is Maggie Murphy a big deal type of person, and have you heard of her??How can I memorize a scene in one night, by tonight!? PLEASE ANSWER!?for memorization:
- a great way to do it is to rewrite the lines on index cards a couple of lines on each card and memorize it card by card. then it's easy to keep track of what you have memorized.
- sentence by sentence.
- writing it over and over again will get the words ingrained into your mind.
- making acronyms out of the first letter of the words would help for the short line (which it seems you don't need help with, but great trick for later i life)
- put a specific movement with a word of phrase, every time you do the movement you'll know that these words go with it
P.S don't freak out so much, you've posted this 3 times and I'm sure you'll do fine, just be calm and confident :D
P.P.S As for Maggie Murphy, her name sounds familiar, but I don't recall why...How can I memorize a scene in one night, by tonight!? PLEASE ANSWER!?I have not heard of her, but use photo booth and record yourself and you'll get it!How can I memorize a scene in one night, by tonight!? PLEASE ANSWER!?OMG !!! i love acting as well and it all depends on whats easy for you. for me i take a section or a paragraph and memorize that by saying it over and over again then i go on to the next paragraph and when i memorize THAT then i put the two together. and then i move on. and i find it easier by walking around my room or laying on my back looking up at the ceiling. but that's just me. some people find it easier by writing it on flashcards or recording themselves and listen to it over and over again, or even make it into a song. But to me it doesn't sound like much. ive done worse lol but i understand that you want to impress her but don't get to nervous and work yourself up and trying to get the lines PERFECT. and if you do mess up..im sure you know what to do..just make up something that goes along with the subject/character. im sure you'll do fine god luck and please have fun :)How can I memorize a scene in one night, by tonight!? PLEASE ANSWER!?
I'd work a sentence at a time. First, read the whole thing out loud to yourself a couple times to really get the feel of the piece. In this situation, acting well is more important than having the whole thing memorized. Then just read the first sentence, repeat it to yourself without looking at your paper. Once you have that down, do the next sentence, but ALWAYS do the whole thing all the way through so you don't lose a piece! After you're about 1/3 of the way through, read the whole thing out loud again, then keep going sentence by sentence until you're 2/3, read the whole thing out loud again (from the paper). Once you think you have the whole monologue down, read the whole thing looking at the paper again to make sure you have it perfect, then go through it 3x, and you should have it memorized!!compare cars suzuki samurai
Also is Maggie Murphy a big deal type of person, and have you heard of her??How can I memorize a scene in one night, by tonight!? PLEASE ANSWER!?for memorization:
- a great way to do it is to rewrite the lines on index cards a couple of lines on each card and memorize it card by card. then it's easy to keep track of what you have memorized.
- sentence by sentence.
- writing it over and over again will get the words ingrained into your mind.
- making acronyms out of the first letter of the words would help for the short line (which it seems you don't need help with, but great trick for later i life)
- put a specific movement with a word of phrase, every time you do the movement you'll know that these words go with it
P.S don't freak out so much, you've posted this 3 times and I'm sure you'll do fine, just be calm and confident :D
P.P.S As for Maggie Murphy, her name sounds familiar, but I don't recall why...How can I memorize a scene in one night, by tonight!? PLEASE ANSWER!?I have not heard of her, but use photo booth and record yourself and you'll get it!How can I memorize a scene in one night, by tonight!? PLEASE ANSWER!?OMG !!! i love acting as well and it all depends on whats easy for you. for me i take a section or a paragraph and memorize that by saying it over and over again then i go on to the next paragraph and when i memorize THAT then i put the two together. and then i move on. and i find it easier by walking around my room or laying on my back looking up at the ceiling. but that's just me. some people find it easier by writing it on flashcards or recording themselves and listen to it over and over again, or even make it into a song. But to me it doesn't sound like much. ive done worse lol but i understand that you want to impress her but don't get to nervous and work yourself up and trying to get the lines PERFECT. and if you do mess up..im sure you know what to do..just make up something that goes along with the subject/character. im sure you'll do fine god luck and please have fun :)How can I memorize a scene in one night, by tonight!? PLEASE ANSWER!?
I'd work a sentence at a time. First, read the whole thing out loud to yourself a couple times to really get the feel of the piece. In this situation, acting well is more important than having the whole thing memorized. Then just read the first sentence, repeat it to yourself without looking at your paper. Once you have that down, do the next sentence, but ALWAYS do the whole thing all the way through so you don't lose a piece! After you're about 1/3 of the way through, read the whole thing out loud again, then keep going sentence by sentence until you're 2/3, read the whole thing out loud again (from the paper). Once you think you have the whole monologue down, read the whole thing looking at the paper again to make sure you have it perfect, then go through it 3x, and you should have it memorized!!
How can I memorize a scene in one night? PLEASE ANSWER!?
So I'm at a camp, and they gave me a one 1/4 page scene to memorize (I'm a girl by the way), from teh vampire diaries. And I'm taking a class with Maggie Murphy who casts for Malcom in the Middle, etc.. and I really want to make a really great impression. She already seems to sord of likes me I guess, I don't know but she was laughing (good kind of laughing) when we were doing an improve story game. And she said I was good :) But I have to memorize this tonight, and I have pretty much all of it down, except for a monologue that's about a paragraph long. How can I get that part down so it flows better. But she was the first one in my group to give me the scene, but then she gave the scene to 2 other people in my group. And I want to stand out well! Can anybody help?? NO RUDE ANSWERS PLEASE :) I'm a GIRL who just loves to act, and I want to act professionally soon :) Thanks in advance :)How can I memorize a scene in one night? PLEASE ANSWER!?Practice, practice. All night long. It's your best option. If you have great memories then you're going to get it down fast.How can I memorize a scene in one night? PLEASE ANSWER!?Give it to someone else who is really tough. Every time you get it wrong, they will make you do three push ups. JK, but you need to read it over and over again. Don't act like it's a script because then you'll stress. Have you ever memorized a song? It's as simple as that.How can I memorize a scene in one night? PLEASE ANSWER!?act it out with actual movements of the hands and feet and body. Or maybe even try to sing little tunes as you do a "ditty" of the lines. Acting is acting. Not a recording. If you have the flair, do it like Mary Poppins type of show. It will help you remember the words. Easier to remember than a monotone recital.
I dont think i can orgasm and i dont get tired after making love,why?
We have sex and he can orgasm everytime and he's exhausted after everytime too. Me on the other hand, well i dont think im getting an orgasm and no matter how many times we make love in one night, i want more. Its hard because even though i want more, he's always exhausted. He says he wants to do more but he just doesnt have energy or he cant get an erection. I feel for him because he does alot to make me happy. He works in sports so he's always running around in the morning and then by 9pm hes so tired.He said this hasnt happened before. What do you think? Its worrying actually that he cant get an erection when he wants to.I dont think i can orgasm and i dont get tired after making love,why?tell him to have a rest so at night time u can have wat u want in the end =] might work lol and y do u worry he cant get a erection..hes penis is jst tired from doing it to much with u.its normal for guys to get tired lolI dont think i can orgasm and i dont get tired after making love,why?
he can get an erection but he cant have sex like 6 times in one night his junk wont let him. hes done. im sure youre getting an orgasm which is why you want more. try new positions like the lotus to help you. ive heard nothing but great things from that position.I dont think i can orgasm and i dont get tired after making love,why?mastubate the first one is the hardest
try some foreplay
the mastubation is not a joke get a toy doesnt have to be invasive or you can go old fashioned
you have to see if you can have one
girls get anxiety alsoI dont think i can orgasm and i dont get tired after making love,why?
Very few women have vaginal orgasms. Most of the time they have them by clitoral stimulation. The best I can suggest is that you mastibate your self untill you have an orgasm a few times and then teach him how to do it for you. Secondly a man can only preform the act so many times in one night. You can help him by preforming a little oral on him before the actual act. That will get him aroused much sooner and he will be able to keep it up much longer. While you are haveing sex either you or him reach down and stimulate your clit and that will help you have an orgasm. This may sound strange but that is what causes most women to have an orgasm is clit stimulation not vaginal. I hope this is of some help to you. Good Luck.I dont think i can orgasm and i dont get tired after making love,why?well if he is a sporty person then his body fitness will be top notch and when you are having sex his body will be working like hes doing sport if u have hardcore sex that is and blood wont be flowing to his penis so maybe he needs to try soft nice romantic sex now and again lots of foreplay and new positions, try interent for new ones dont keep to same ones all the time try different ones and you may get your orgasm your looking for and maybe he can go for longer. id say ask him for you to **** someone else but if u love him then u cant it may be him thats the problem but try new things and see how it goes
he can get an erection but he cant have sex like 6 times in one night his junk wont let him. hes done. im sure youre getting an orgasm which is why you want more. try new positions like the lotus to help you. ive heard nothing but great things from that position.I dont think i can orgasm and i dont get tired after making love,why?mastubate the first one is the hardest
try some foreplay
the mastubation is not a joke get a toy doesnt have to be invasive or you can go old fashioned
you have to see if you can have one
girls get anxiety alsoI dont think i can orgasm and i dont get tired after making love,why?
Very few women have vaginal orgasms. Most of the time they have them by clitoral stimulation. The best I can suggest is that you mastibate your self untill you have an orgasm a few times and then teach him how to do it for you. Secondly a man can only preform the act so many times in one night. You can help him by preforming a little oral on him before the actual act. That will get him aroused much sooner and he will be able to keep it up much longer. While you are haveing sex either you or him reach down and stimulate your clit and that will help you have an orgasm. This may sound strange but that is what causes most women to have an orgasm is clit stimulation not vaginal. I hope this is of some help to you. Good Luck.I dont think i can orgasm and i dont get tired after making love,why?well if he is a sporty person then his body fitness will be top notch and when you are having sex his body will be working like hes doing sport if u have hardcore sex that is and blood wont be flowing to his penis so maybe he needs to try soft nice romantic sex now and again lots of foreplay and new positions, try interent for new ones dont keep to same ones all the time try different ones and you may get your orgasm your looking for and maybe he can go for longer. id say ask him for you to **** someone else but if u love him then u cant it may be him thats the problem but try new things and see how it goes
Should i forgive my husband after a drunken one night fling?
Me and my husband have been together for 11 years and married for 4 we also have 3 children. We have had many money problems over the last couple of years mixed with other personal set backs but we always managed to get through as we loved each other.But over the last year i have felt a gap between us i felt that he started to treat me more and more like a piece of meat, only wanting me for sex. Then i fell pregnant, i was over the moon but my husband was upset as he didn't want any more children. Then 10 weeks into the pregnancy i went for my scan to discover that my baby had not grown and that i would miscarry. I felt that the world had ended but i knew i had to go on for my other children. Through out this time i felt that my husband was happy that this had happened to us, so i bottled up my feeling and hoped that things would get better.I really thought that 2009 would be the year that things would get better for us, on friday i had a bit of a break down as this is when our baby would have been born and for the first time i told my husband how i felt about losing the baby, but he just froze me out when all i wanted was a hug and to be told that he loved me. So the next night he went to his friends house to drink even though i thought he should stay in so we could talk and try and make things better. Now normally he gets in after 1am if hes been out but i awoke to see it was after 5am and i was worried but thought he would be home soon and sure enough by 6am he was in our bed hugging me and going back to sleep. For the next 3 days he was acting a bit off but i thought he was tried then he broke the news to me that he had slept with his best friends wife while drunk. He swears that it was a mistake and that he doesn't want to lose me or the kids but i feel i have loss all trust in him. And now to make things worse he found out today that she has given him an infection. What do i do?Should i forgive my husband after a drunken one night fling?The fact that he slept with his best friends wife is bad enough, but not only was he not there for you he has now betrayed you, you deserve better than this for you and your children xShould i forgive my husband after a drunken one night fling?
How about stop "falling pregnant" with a cheating slime ball?
Honey, if every year is "your year" you will be hoping this for the rest of your life and death will actually be the year you are free from anguish.Should i forgive my husband after a drunken one night fling?You miraculously "fell pregnant??" How is that possible??
You don't just get pregnant without deciding together as a couple if you want more children. Even though you were happy about this baby, you both should have decided together on such a huge decision. This whole situation with your husband has a LOT to do with that.
As for him having a one-night-stand with another woman, well, he's obviously not mature enough to deal with his problems in an adult manner and just goes out and gets drunk to forget about the problems at home. Honestly, when we're mad and want to just get drunk we do it together! We love doing that. Plus the alcohol makes us less inhibited and we usually end up working it out between us. And of course that usually ends with some nighttime "fun" if you know what I mean.
I would really suggest you get some professional help for the both of you. You're dealing with unspoken issues that NEED to be resolved between you and if he's incapable of being a man and talking about your problems then you need to see a counselor who can help you get through this.
I am sorry for the pain you must be feeling. I myself wouldn't put up with that kind of behavior. Once a cheater always a cheater.Should i forgive my husband after a drunken one night fling?That's your choice to forgive him or not.
Other people cant make this decision for you.Should i forgive my husband after a drunken one night fling?
NO! In my college years I had plenty of drunken nights-some I barely remember and some I do, but one thing I can always say from experience is that while alcohol impairs your judgement it releases comments and actions or thoughts of actions that have always been there. How did it get to that point to where they had UNPROTECTED sex? It's something that has been in the air and from the way he was acting prior to this it was going to happen sooner or later. Ask yourself-can you ever look at him the same or everytime he walks out the door don't you wonder where hes going or what hes doing?
i wouldn't cheating is the ultimate no no
i have told my husband if he cheats that's it and if i were to cheat that's it also.Should i forgive my husband after a drunken one night fling?
OMG! Thats terrible! I think you two need to go seek marriage councling, this ones a tough one, husbands do make mistakes as well as us women but if he's really sympathetic and you love him and are willing to make it work than do what you have to do. I say you check yourself as well.
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.
The first thing you need to do is get into marriage counseling. A counseler can help you sort through your feelings of mistrust, abandonment, etc. Once you begin that process, you'll be able to figure out if it's something you want to salvage.
Good luck and my heart goes out to you.
ETA: Many people are able to salvage their marriage after cheating. It isn't an automatic "game over," you'll both have to do some work, but it can be done and many times the couple is stronger in the end.
Hunny, If a man cheats on you he does not love or respect you like he should, have some self respect and one day there will be someone out there who will never do anything to hurt you x
once a cheat always a cheat
I don't understand people who ask this. To me, the whole point of marriage is that you don't sleep with other people. You promised not to when you got married and if you do the contract is broken and bang goes the trust.
If you forgive him he WILL do it again because he got away with it, however sorry he is. If he REALLY cared about not losing you or the children he would never have got himself into that state in the first place.
If it were me, that would be it.
Usually I say to people to go to a marriage counselor but on this one I say to LEAVE HIM! Kick him out! take him for child support and start over with your life. What a jerk...I never buy the "oh I was drunk" excuse.. That is exactly what it is...an EXCUSE. For him to be so "a drift" from you and then leave and get drunk and have SEX with his BF's WIFE!!??? Are you kidding me?! He knew what he was doing. I would tell his friend and go after his wife! That is me, but if someone "went" for my Hubby they wouldn't be around much longer to talk about it. Really though I would leave, if you don't then this will always come up and you guys will always fight about it and there will always be trust issues...It's not worth it on a man (loser) like him. I am truly sorry that his happened to you, and wish you all the best!
No you shouldn't, That is the up most betrayal. Let alone with some one you know.You need some time to think this out. First he needs to stop drinking. If he cant do that it might happen again and he'll blame it on being drunk...
I feel your pain. Your husband's actions are considered cheating. He broke a marriage vow and needs to do everything he can to rebuild your trust in him. If he is truly sorry and regrets his actions, he will make some effort. If not, you have a choice to make.
May you be given wisdom in this situation. :-))
You might also benefit from a counselor. Someone who is not emotionally tied to the relationship to help you sort through all your emotions and make a decision you'll be happy with. God Bless.
P.S. This is your chance to speak up. Let him know how he made you feel by going out drinking at a time you really needed him. Also let him know how he made you feel by breaking his commitment to you. You don't have to attack him, but he needs to know his actions are inappropriate and possibly even inexcusable.
Leave him. Forgiving him is like telling him he can do it again because you will keep forgiving him. Besides, do you really want to sleep with him now that he has some sort of STD? Don't put up with that.
I am sorry for your loss and understand the pain you are feeling ( i am going through it right now).
You do not need him and his **** also on top of everything. The fact that he cheated on you when you really needed him proves that he is a real low life. If you forgive him then he will think that he can do it again. You deserve better then that. Kick him out of the house and tell him you are NOT letting him put you through more heartache. Even after 11years you do not owe him any forgiveness.
Be strong for yourself and your children
I know alot of people will say you should divorce him and in some ways to some people that is the answer. I'll take the opposite approach and say you should work together to make things work. Why? Because you have a history together. You have a family together. You have a life invested in each other. It will be very tough and hard to adjust for you without question but you deserve to give yourselves a chance since the adjustment, expense and loss of your best friend will be well worth it. Good luck
Well I feel like one time means you have trouble in your marriage and you need to fix it. If both people are willing and the unfaithful is sorry for their actions. Now more then once then it will happen again and again. But a family that prays to together stays together. You need to seek the lord in every aspect of your life and if you husband does the same you can have a great relationship. I am very sorry about your loss, and your husbands unfaithfulness. I know that must be hard. But I believe you can get through it if you both really want too. And to me you should try. Now if he makes a habit of it let him go. That isn't something you want to show your kids.
This is something the two of you need to work out. It's so easy for people here to say to leave him, but YOU are the ones with an investment here.
I never understand the "I was drunk, didn't mean it, so it's alright" attitude - to me, being drunk doesn't excuse anything. BUT, YOU and the only one who can decide whether you can forgive him.
Maybe you could tell him to SHOW you he loves you over an extended period.... Good luck.
P.S. I don't believe the once a cheater, always a cheater routine - anyone can make a mistake....otherwise we would all be rich!!
WHO ARE YOU ASKING WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR ? I would F the BYATCH UP and while giving his a__ the papers and 1 foot in his A___ toward the CURVE
NO ! it will happen again, Promise...
How about stop "falling pregnant" with a cheating slime ball?
Honey, if every year is "your year" you will be hoping this for the rest of your life and death will actually be the year you are free from anguish.Should i forgive my husband after a drunken one night fling?You miraculously "fell pregnant??" How is that possible??
You don't just get pregnant without deciding together as a couple if you want more children. Even though you were happy about this baby, you both should have decided together on such a huge decision. This whole situation with your husband has a LOT to do with that.
As for him having a one-night-stand with another woman, well, he's obviously not mature enough to deal with his problems in an adult manner and just goes out and gets drunk to forget about the problems at home. Honestly, when we're mad and want to just get drunk we do it together! We love doing that. Plus the alcohol makes us less inhibited and we usually end up working it out between us. And of course that usually ends with some nighttime "fun" if you know what I mean.
I would really suggest you get some professional help for the both of you. You're dealing with unspoken issues that NEED to be resolved between you and if he's incapable of being a man and talking about your problems then you need to see a counselor who can help you get through this.
I am sorry for the pain you must be feeling. I myself wouldn't put up with that kind of behavior. Once a cheater always a cheater.Should i forgive my husband after a drunken one night fling?That's your choice to forgive him or not.
Other people cant make this decision for you.Should i forgive my husband after a drunken one night fling?
NO! In my college years I had plenty of drunken nights-some I barely remember and some I do, but one thing I can always say from experience is that while alcohol impairs your judgement it releases comments and actions or thoughts of actions that have always been there. How did it get to that point to where they had UNPROTECTED sex? It's something that has been in the air and from the way he was acting prior to this it was going to happen sooner or later. Ask yourself-can you ever look at him the same or everytime he walks out the door don't you wonder where hes going or what hes doing?
i wouldn't cheating is the ultimate no no
i have told my husband if he cheats that's it and if i were to cheat that's it also.Should i forgive my husband after a drunken one night fling?
OMG! Thats terrible! I think you two need to go seek marriage councling, this ones a tough one, husbands do make mistakes as well as us women but if he's really sympathetic and you love him and are willing to make it work than do what you have to do. I say you check yourself as well.
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.
The first thing you need to do is get into marriage counseling. A counseler can help you sort through your feelings of mistrust, abandonment, etc. Once you begin that process, you'll be able to figure out if it's something you want to salvage.
Good luck and my heart goes out to you.
ETA: Many people are able to salvage their marriage after cheating. It isn't an automatic "game over," you'll both have to do some work, but it can be done and many times the couple is stronger in the end.
Hunny, If a man cheats on you he does not love or respect you like he should, have some self respect and one day there will be someone out there who will never do anything to hurt you x
once a cheat always a cheat
I don't understand people who ask this. To me, the whole point of marriage is that you don't sleep with other people. You promised not to when you got married and if you do the contract is broken and bang goes the trust.
If you forgive him he WILL do it again because he got away with it, however sorry he is. If he REALLY cared about not losing you or the children he would never have got himself into that state in the first place.
If it were me, that would be it.
Usually I say to people to go to a marriage counselor but on this one I say to LEAVE HIM! Kick him out! take him for child support and start over with your life. What a jerk...I never buy the "oh I was drunk" excuse.. That is exactly what it is...an EXCUSE. For him to be so "a drift" from you and then leave and get drunk and have SEX with his BF's WIFE!!??? Are you kidding me?! He knew what he was doing. I would tell his friend and go after his wife! That is me, but if someone "went" for my Hubby they wouldn't be around much longer to talk about it. Really though I would leave, if you don't then this will always come up and you guys will always fight about it and there will always be trust issues...It's not worth it on a man (loser) like him. I am truly sorry that his happened to you, and wish you all the best!
No you shouldn't, That is the up most betrayal. Let alone with some one you know.You need some time to think this out. First he needs to stop drinking. If he cant do that it might happen again and he'll blame it on being drunk...
I feel your pain. Your husband's actions are considered cheating. He broke a marriage vow and needs to do everything he can to rebuild your trust in him. If he is truly sorry and regrets his actions, he will make some effort. If not, you have a choice to make.
May you be given wisdom in this situation. :-))
You might also benefit from a counselor. Someone who is not emotionally tied to the relationship to help you sort through all your emotions and make a decision you'll be happy with. God Bless.
P.S. This is your chance to speak up. Let him know how he made you feel by going out drinking at a time you really needed him. Also let him know how he made you feel by breaking his commitment to you. You don't have to attack him, but he needs to know his actions are inappropriate and possibly even inexcusable.
Leave him. Forgiving him is like telling him he can do it again because you will keep forgiving him. Besides, do you really want to sleep with him now that he has some sort of STD? Don't put up with that.
I am sorry for your loss and understand the pain you are feeling ( i am going through it right now).
You do not need him and his **** also on top of everything. The fact that he cheated on you when you really needed him proves that he is a real low life. If you forgive him then he will think that he can do it again. You deserve better then that. Kick him out of the house and tell him you are NOT letting him put you through more heartache. Even after 11years you do not owe him any forgiveness.
Be strong for yourself and your children
I know alot of people will say you should divorce him and in some ways to some people that is the answer. I'll take the opposite approach and say you should work together to make things work. Why? Because you have a history together. You have a family together. You have a life invested in each other. It will be very tough and hard to adjust for you without question but you deserve to give yourselves a chance since the adjustment, expense and loss of your best friend will be well worth it. Good luck
Well I feel like one time means you have trouble in your marriage and you need to fix it. If both people are willing and the unfaithful is sorry for their actions. Now more then once then it will happen again and again. But a family that prays to together stays together. You need to seek the lord in every aspect of your life and if you husband does the same you can have a great relationship. I am very sorry about your loss, and your husbands unfaithfulness. I know that must be hard. But I believe you can get through it if you both really want too. And to me you should try. Now if he makes a habit of it let him go. That isn't something you want to show your kids.
This is something the two of you need to work out. It's so easy for people here to say to leave him, but YOU are the ones with an investment here.
I never understand the "I was drunk, didn't mean it, so it's alright" attitude - to me, being drunk doesn't excuse anything. BUT, YOU and the only one who can decide whether you can forgive him.
Maybe you could tell him to SHOW you he loves you over an extended period.... Good luck.
P.S. I don't believe the once a cheater, always a cheater routine - anyone can make a mistake....otherwise we would all be rich!!
WHO ARE YOU ASKING WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR ? I would F the BYATCH UP and while giving his a__ the papers and 1 foot in his A___ toward the CURVE
NO ! it will happen again, Promise...
I cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?
Ok, so I know this is long but I'm begging for help here.
Ever since ive been 3 i've been best friends with a girl. We grew up next door to each other, played almost ever day together, went to kindegarden together, went to school together, and even went to the same college, to do the same course. We are even so close that my mom considers her a daughter and has a photo of her on the wall. When we were 14, we started to "date" each other in our own 14 year old way, go to the cinema, hold hands, kiss on check etc.. As we got older, our relationship moved on and we became more serious with age. As cheesy as it sounds she made me feel on top of the world everyday and the happiest kid in the world. She was perfect. She was my soulmate. Then I done a terrible thing. One week she was out of the country and I got very very very very very very drunk celebrating the end of exams in a bar and i ended up having sex with a random hookup who I had never met before. I was so drunk that I couldnt even remember it. The only way I know it happened was because I woke up in the chicks bed. I felt like something at the bottom of someone's shoe. When my girlfriend got home, she found out off a girl in college who was a friend of the girl who I'd slept with. My girlfriend ended our relationship because she said that although she loved me more than anything in the world, she said that the hurt was too much.
That was 9 months ago and I still pine every second over my girlfriend. My life hasn't been the same. I try to call her every day to say sorry, ive wrote songs for her, ive done everything. I havent even looked at another girl.
Oh and my exgirlfriend is lovely, honestly couldnt meet a nicer girl. never did a bad thing to anybody in her life.
If you were my ex-girlfriend, would you forgive me? Do you think that what I've done can be forgiven and forgotten about?I cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?Yes i could forgive you but i could never forget it.I cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?
You have been very naughty but I think I would give you a second chance. Life is too short.I cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?she might be like Rachel from Friends and think "Once a cheater,always a cheater"
or...
she may not?
Ha.I cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?No.I cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?
dont need to read details....NO
i didnt read it i just say... HECK NOI cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?
I would forgive you and take you back
just let her know that she can always see your e-mails and texts and everything assure her nothing will happen, tell her you'll only get drink a lot with her around from now on.
and if she ever forgives, know that she won't ever forget.
I don't think i could, she trusted you more than anything and you let her down. You grew up together and being drunk doesn't give you any less of a reason, drink is a de-present and although you may have forgotten at the time about her she should always be in your mind.
I think you should let her have time to explore life without you, she won't be able to trust the hurt humiliation and pain you caused her. Let her get on with her own life and maybe someday fate will bring you and your paths together.
I know because it has happened to me.
I wish you all the best of luck.
My boyfriend cheated on me and as much as I love him and really care for him, I can't take him back. The hurt and memory is always there and the relationship would be so different. So honestly, no.
If I was she I wouldn麓t forgive you.
You know why? 麓cause:
He that lied once ...he will always lie..
He that cheated once鈥?he will always cheat.
It麓s within your body system pal ! Sorry !
But anyway I sincerely hope your sweetheart could forgive you!
Good luck!
She knows you better than any girl (excluding your mom, lol). And I undrstand how you and her could be so serious about each other. It was a mistake, so she should know your character enough to know you are sincere with your apology. Give her time to think things through. And you need time away from her as well so you can regain from the pain.
Personally if I was her I would give the relationship another chance. I would talk with you and gradually take it from there. Everything takes time.
Remember we all make mistakes. Our mistakes is what makes us grow. If you and her can get through this together it will be proof that you and her can get through anything life throws at both of you.
I really wish you the ultimate best!
i could forgive you, yes. But that wouldn't stop me thinking of you with another girl every time I was with you. If she was that special, you wouldn't have done it, that's how she's feeling, and she acts like she doesn't think about it, but she will do, a lot. You hurt her, it won't be forgotten, ever. you just move on, but with arguments, it'll always be brought up and she won't trust you ever again, she'll question you to where you are, where you've been, who your with and I really do not blame her.
Ever since ive been 3 i've been best friends with a girl. We grew up next door to each other, played almost ever day together, went to kindegarden together, went to school together, and even went to the same college, to do the same course. We are even so close that my mom considers her a daughter and has a photo of her on the wall. When we were 14, we started to "date" each other in our own 14 year old way, go to the cinema, hold hands, kiss on check etc.. As we got older, our relationship moved on and we became more serious with age. As cheesy as it sounds she made me feel on top of the world everyday and the happiest kid in the world. She was perfect. She was my soulmate. Then I done a terrible thing. One week she was out of the country and I got very very very very very very drunk celebrating the end of exams in a bar and i ended up having sex with a random hookup who I had never met before. I was so drunk that I couldnt even remember it. The only way I know it happened was because I woke up in the chicks bed. I felt like something at the bottom of someone's shoe. When my girlfriend got home, she found out off a girl in college who was a friend of the girl who I'd slept with. My girlfriend ended our relationship because she said that although she loved me more than anything in the world, she said that the hurt was too much.
That was 9 months ago and I still pine every second over my girlfriend. My life hasn't been the same. I try to call her every day to say sorry, ive wrote songs for her, ive done everything. I havent even looked at another girl.
Oh and my exgirlfriend is lovely, honestly couldnt meet a nicer girl. never did a bad thing to anybody in her life.
If you were my ex-girlfriend, would you forgive me? Do you think that what I've done can be forgiven and forgotten about?I cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?Yes i could forgive you but i could never forget it.I cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?
You have been very naughty but I think I would give you a second chance. Life is too short.I cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?she might be like Rachel from Friends and think "Once a cheater,always a cheater"
or...
she may not?
Ha.I cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?No.I cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?
dont need to read details....NO
i didnt read it i just say... HECK NOI cheated on my girlfriend on one night stand - would you forgive me?
I would forgive you and take you back
just let her know that she can always see your e-mails and texts and everything assure her nothing will happen, tell her you'll only get drink a lot with her around from now on.
and if she ever forgives, know that she won't ever forget.
I don't think i could, she trusted you more than anything and you let her down. You grew up together and being drunk doesn't give you any less of a reason, drink is a de-present and although you may have forgotten at the time about her she should always be in your mind.
I think you should let her have time to explore life without you, she won't be able to trust the hurt humiliation and pain you caused her. Let her get on with her own life and maybe someday fate will bring you and your paths together.
I know because it has happened to me.
I wish you all the best of luck.
My boyfriend cheated on me and as much as I love him and really care for him, I can't take him back. The hurt and memory is always there and the relationship would be so different. So honestly, no.
If I was she I wouldn麓t forgive you.
You know why? 麓cause:
He that lied once ...he will always lie..
He that cheated once鈥?he will always cheat.
It麓s within your body system pal ! Sorry !
But anyway I sincerely hope your sweetheart could forgive you!
Good luck!
She knows you better than any girl (excluding your mom, lol). And I undrstand how you and her could be so serious about each other. It was a mistake, so she should know your character enough to know you are sincere with your apology. Give her time to think things through. And you need time away from her as well so you can regain from the pain.
Personally if I was her I would give the relationship another chance. I would talk with you and gradually take it from there. Everything takes time.
Remember we all make mistakes. Our mistakes is what makes us grow. If you and her can get through this together it will be proof that you and her can get through anything life throws at both of you.
I really wish you the ultimate best!
i could forgive you, yes. But that wouldn't stop me thinking of you with another girl every time I was with you. If she was that special, you wouldn't have done it, that's how she's feeling, and she acts like she doesn't think about it, but she will do, a lot. You hurt her, it won't be forgotten, ever. you just move on, but with arguments, it'll always be brought up and she won't trust you ever again, she'll question you to where you are, where you've been, who your with and I really do not blame her.
Everytime I hear Disco music I want to snort coke, dance and have one night stands. Am I having flashbacks?
I loved the late 70's, it was all about fun.Everytime I hear Disco music I want to snort coke, dance and have one night stands. Am I having flashbacks?we associate music with certian memories. %26amp;9's music just brings up the memorries of what happened while you were listening to the music.Everytime I hear Disco music I want to snort coke, dance and have one night stands. Am I having flashbacks?
Yes. If you,re married, listen with your wife and do it with her or else you will get into trouble outside.Everytime I hear Disco music I want to snort coke, dance and have one night stands. Am I having flashbacks?You have nearly found it out, man!
Buy and read Dianetics : the Modern Science of Mental Health, and you'll find the answer to your question! It's IN THERE!
Ciao......John-John.-
Stan,Stan the good old days they are gone... times are a changing or they have been changed... The days of sex,rock -n-roll,drugs are blowing in the wind my friend.... can you tell parents Hippies,California girl till the end.Everytime I hear Disco music I want to snort coke, dance and have one night stands. Am I having flashbacks?Yeah Yeah, I've hear the stuff, disco, what was it, ABBA. Now when you snort cocaine do you hear disco, and run off with a coke fiend for horizontal dancing? Can you please, please, grow up. Marry a fiend, buy by the kilo, get a steroe, stop annoying the rest of us.Everytime I hear Disco music I want to snort coke, dance and have one night stands. Am I having flashbacks?
If you're sitting at the computer right now, wearing bellbottom pants, a bandana aorund your head, and you have little white powder residue in your nostrils. Slowly push yourself back from your monitor and seek medical help immediately. The seveties are long gone and will never return!
lol...lol...lol...lol...lol...lol...lol.鈥? yey it was , things were different then.... Boy you must be old!!! Have to say though there were no ! night stands!!!!! We;ll qestion the coke but soft drinks r 4 kids! Flashbacks... what fun to VINCE%26lt; JOY and PAT!!!!Everytime I hear Disco music I want to snort coke, dance and have one night stands. Am I having flashbacks?
tell me ya address and i will get on it with ya luv!!!!!
i think about the good old sixties but i don't believe in using drugs thats your bussinessauto auction death certificates
Yes. If you,re married, listen with your wife and do it with her or else you will get into trouble outside.Everytime I hear Disco music I want to snort coke, dance and have one night stands. Am I having flashbacks?You have nearly found it out, man!
Buy and read Dianetics : the Modern Science of Mental Health, and you'll find the answer to your question! It's IN THERE!
Ciao......John-John.-
Stan,Stan the good old days they are gone... times are a changing or they have been changed... The days of sex,rock -n-roll,drugs are blowing in the wind my friend.... can you tell parents Hippies,California girl till the end.Everytime I hear Disco music I want to snort coke, dance and have one night stands. Am I having flashbacks?Yeah Yeah, I've hear the stuff, disco, what was it, ABBA. Now when you snort cocaine do you hear disco, and run off with a coke fiend for horizontal dancing? Can you please, please, grow up. Marry a fiend, buy by the kilo, get a steroe, stop annoying the rest of us.Everytime I hear Disco music I want to snort coke, dance and have one night stands. Am I having flashbacks?
If you're sitting at the computer right now, wearing bellbottom pants, a bandana aorund your head, and you have little white powder residue in your nostrils. Slowly push yourself back from your monitor and seek medical help immediately. The seveties are long gone and will never return!
lol...lol...lol...lol...lol...lol...lol.鈥? yey it was , things were different then.... Boy you must be old!!! Have to say though there were no ! night stands!!!!! We;ll qestion the coke but soft drinks r 4 kids! Flashbacks... what fun to VINCE%26lt; JOY and PAT!!!!Everytime I hear Disco music I want to snort coke, dance and have one night stands. Am I having flashbacks?
tell me ya address and i will get on it with ya luv!!!!!
i think about the good old sixties but i don't believe in using drugs thats your bussiness
Guy wanted me for a one night stand, I think, but now he wants to go out with me--will this work?
I met him last night %26amp; he seemed really into me, saying he loves my fun personality. We kissed and dirty danced, but that was it. Then, he tried to make the moves on me, if you know what I mean, and even asked me to stay the night at a hotel. All we really did was kiss. Now he emailed me, apologizing for going too fast. I think he wants to go out with me now. Do you think this will work, if I stay being a good girl? Thanks!Guy wanted me for a one night stand, I think, but now he wants to go out with me--will this work?Nothing like sending out mixed messages, Ginger. What's up with the dirty dancing? Sure it might work. There are probably quite a few relationships which begin as a one night stand although that's not how I'd like one of mine to start out as. So go out with him but if you want to be a "good" girl you should stop sending out "slut" girl messages. I suspect that he believes you'll go to bed with him but are now just playing hard to get. Maybe you should stop and think about what kind of guy you want and if the message you're putting out there is going to get you that kind of guy. Dirty dancing tells a guy you're up for anything and you shouldn't expect a guy to think any differently. .
After I "Fingered" my Girlfriend One Night She Told Me To Forget About It......?
One day i went to my girlfriends and im 13 shes just turned 14, her mum and sister went out for a bit and her brother was in the front room watching tv, we were in another room up stairs and i started kissing her allot and then it ended me up rubbing her leg (she had her PJ's on) and then i got neer where her vagina is and started to rub, then after a while i started rubbing her nickers then got to her vagina and by the time i started rubbing she was getting wet then she kept telling me faster then deeper ect she was loving it! when i had to go home she didnt want me to stop so i caried on for a while, but when i got home she text me saying to forget about it? is it like what boys do after masterbating like they feel depressed? or does she just hate me?
My question is does she hate me? will she let me finger her again? any other things PLEASE I WANT TO KNOW SOMTHINGAfter I "Fingered" my Girlfriend One Night She Told Me To Forget About It......?no she does not hate you
no she will probably not ever let you do that again
please act more mature and not like an animal with your girl
My question is does she hate me? will she let me finger her again? any other things PLEASE I WANT TO KNOW SOMTHINGAfter I "Fingered" my Girlfriend One Night She Told Me To Forget About It......?no she does not hate you
no she will probably not ever let you do that again
please act more mature and not like an animal with your girl
Heres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?
i had an ex hu didnt want 2 leave me alone so i decided 2 hav a baby w/sum1 else so he would quit bugging me.i was going 2 hav a party %26amp; i knew i would b ovulating that nite so i asked my friend 2 bring his really hot friend around.the friend of the friend came along %26amp; he told me he had a gf.he ddnt talk to me much but i still pursued him %26amp; followed him evrywhere.he kept on brushing me off but wen he got really drunk,we had sex 2x.now im 23.5wks pregnant %26amp; i told him in august.he confessed 2 his gf wat happened %26amp; he cried 2 her %26amp; begged 4 her 4givness so she took him back.he told me he wants nothing 2 do w/the baby til the age of 5-10yrs old.he apparently loves his gf %26amp; wants nothing 2 do w/me.its not fair that he doesnt want 2 c the baby 4 that long.yet he wants a baby so desperately w/his gf %26amp; his gf wants 2 have a baby w/him also.haha atleast im the one hu will be giving him a baby 1st but what do i do to make him c the baby sooner?if he sees the baby 1ce,he'l want 2 c it more.help.Heres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?Congratulations on ruining your child's life before it's even born.Heres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?
I would love to help you out with this but reading this gives me a headache. You will get more help if you write legibly.Heres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?Omg! u shouldnt mess with peoples heads like this! What you did with making sure it was the right day ect to get bk at ur ex is stupid! Think of what this poor baby is going to go though because you 'wanted to get bk at ur ex'. If he is the father he has every right to see the baby without or WITH his girlfriend.
And if you raise this baby and say that he cant talk to him or her because of his gf then the baby will grow up without a father!
I dont understand why u hate his gf so much wen u did this to urself.
Dont like what people say? Dont post the question!
People are only saying the truth!
This will sound harsh, but what the hell gives you the right to make him choose?
My daughter is 5 and her father wants nothing to do with her, do you realise how that makes her feel. I didn't see my dad for 17yrs as my mum stopped him seeing me, I hated her for it.
This is a child, not a toy, not a weapon and not a way of trying to get a guy who obviously doesn't want to be with you. You manipulated the guy into getting you pregnant, it was a planned trap.
I hope that the baby will knock some sense into you, and that you'll grow up, or I'd book your child in with a psychologist coz your gonna seriously stuff his/her head up.
Good luck and grow up, your about to be a mother.Heres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?I am not quite sure why you are upset. You say in your own question that you purposely had this party when you knew you could get pregnant. Then you invited this guy for the purpose of trying to have his baby, for the purpose of getting your ex to leave you alone, which is NO reason to give birth to a child. So why are you upset that he wants nothing to do with the baby? Should he still be responsible and pay child support? Yes, he did have a part to play in all of it, but you have no right to expect him to be a great dad and be at your house all the time with the baby. Also, I don't see how his girlfriend is the skank here. She didn't do anything wrong. He is lucky she is still putting up with him. Basically I don't think you can expect much from a man who was so willing to cheat on his girlfriend and I am sure he realizes he was manipulated by you now so I don't see why you are upset. This is exactly what you were wanting. A baby by another guy. So now you are getting that. If you wanted him to be such a big part you should have probably consulted him BEFORE you got pregnant.Heres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?
damn.... is this myspace?
im sorry but its too late for you to be taking the high ground now....what youv done has affected these peoples lives....unfortunatly youv gota deal with itHeres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?
Sterilization would have been a smarter way of not having the ex's baby.
You need to right now get yourself into parent mode %26amp; concentrate now on what is best for your baby. I hope u have been getting good prenatal care %26amp; taking care of your and your baby health. I hope you are able to provide for him or her. Figure out how u will arrange work %26amp; child care etc
I don't know why he says he does not want contact until the baby is 5-10 yrs, probably more that he wants to avoid U. It would be better for the baby to have a father in his/her life and the early yrs are very important but u cannot force him to see the baby. However u should get a paternity test and get an order for child support . He may feel you tricked him but he chose to have sex w/ you and as the father he is legally responsible. Maybe since he has to pay, he may decide he might as well see the baby, and yeah, u r right, that MAY make him want to see it more. But pls remember this is 4 yr baby's sake, just 4get about trying to get this guy 4 yrself; if you keep bothering him %26amp; cause trouble btw him %26amp; the gf, it may backfire and make him want to spend less time not more with the baby. %26amp; be careful not to make any comments like "I'm the one who gave u a baby" that is likely to really irritate him if he %26amp; the gf r ttc.
The other thing is, if he is paying support he can have visitation, take the kid for visits etc %26amp; I don't think you can stop him from including his gf. Unless she is like a convicted child abuser or s.t.
(%26amp; btw it blows my mind - -.you made a heavy play to get her bf to **** u when he was drunk so u cld use him to get u preg, then she forgives him takes him back %26amp; now u the 1 calling HER a skank? I bet she has some choice words for u too).
Good luck on making a good life for this baby.
I am so sick of reading about your trashy entrapment of this poor guy.
Will you quit posting this over and over again?
That's it.
I'm reporting you.
Because you are simply the desperate chick who gave it up to him with ease. There was no emotional link. It was a emotionless act. Yeah, a baby is the result of it BUT that isn't going to change the way he feels. He loves his gf. That's the woman he wants to be with and have a family with. You're not that woman, the baby is not that baby he wants. The only thing he owes you right now is to be a responsible man and take care of the baby and nothing else, you don't count, he owes you nothing else. You got knocked up because you were careless. Yes, you both were careless BUT as a female, you have to look out for yourself and my dear, you didn't because you had one thing in mind and that was to lay up with dude and tie him up. You screwed yourself over. Be upset with yourself. It's called consequences. A baby does not a make a man love any woman. A baby doesn't tie a man to any woman. A baby does not make things better. So, put your big girl panties on, build a bridge, and get over it because you have a long road ahead of you. Time to be a loving, responsible person %26amp; mom.
I would love to help you out with this but reading this gives me a headache. You will get more help if you write legibly.Heres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?Omg! u shouldnt mess with peoples heads like this! What you did with making sure it was the right day ect to get bk at ur ex is stupid! Think of what this poor baby is going to go though because you 'wanted to get bk at ur ex'. If he is the father he has every right to see the baby without or WITH his girlfriend.
And if you raise this baby and say that he cant talk to him or her because of his gf then the baby will grow up without a father!
I dont understand why u hate his gf so much wen u did this to urself.
Dont like what people say? Dont post the question!
People are only saying the truth!
This will sound harsh, but what the hell gives you the right to make him choose?
My daughter is 5 and her father wants nothing to do with her, do you realise how that makes her feel. I didn't see my dad for 17yrs as my mum stopped him seeing me, I hated her for it.
This is a child, not a toy, not a weapon and not a way of trying to get a guy who obviously doesn't want to be with you. You manipulated the guy into getting you pregnant, it was a planned trap.
I hope that the baby will knock some sense into you, and that you'll grow up, or I'd book your child in with a psychologist coz your gonna seriously stuff his/her head up.
Good luck and grow up, your about to be a mother.Heres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?I am not quite sure why you are upset. You say in your own question that you purposely had this party when you knew you could get pregnant. Then you invited this guy for the purpose of trying to have his baby, for the purpose of getting your ex to leave you alone, which is NO reason to give birth to a child. So why are you upset that he wants nothing to do with the baby? Should he still be responsible and pay child support? Yes, he did have a part to play in all of it, but you have no right to expect him to be a great dad and be at your house all the time with the baby. Also, I don't see how his girlfriend is the skank here. She didn't do anything wrong. He is lucky she is still putting up with him. Basically I don't think you can expect much from a man who was so willing to cheat on his girlfriend and I am sure he realizes he was manipulated by you now so I don't see why you are upset. This is exactly what you were wanting. A baby by another guy. So now you are getting that. If you wanted him to be such a big part you should have probably consulted him BEFORE you got pregnant.Heres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?
damn.... is this myspace?
im sorry but its too late for you to be taking the high ground now....what youv done has affected these peoples lives....unfortunatly youv gota deal with itHeres the thing.had a one night stand and am now pregnant.dont want his gf to be a part of it?
Sterilization would have been a smarter way of not having the ex's baby.
You need to right now get yourself into parent mode %26amp; concentrate now on what is best for your baby. I hope u have been getting good prenatal care %26amp; taking care of your and your baby health. I hope you are able to provide for him or her. Figure out how u will arrange work %26amp; child care etc
I don't know why he says he does not want contact until the baby is 5-10 yrs, probably more that he wants to avoid U. It would be better for the baby to have a father in his/her life and the early yrs are very important but u cannot force him to see the baby. However u should get a paternity test and get an order for child support . He may feel you tricked him but he chose to have sex w/ you and as the father he is legally responsible. Maybe since he has to pay, he may decide he might as well see the baby, and yeah, u r right, that MAY make him want to see it more. But pls remember this is 4 yr baby's sake, just 4get about trying to get this guy 4 yrself; if you keep bothering him %26amp; cause trouble btw him %26amp; the gf, it may backfire and make him want to spend less time not more with the baby. %26amp; be careful not to make any comments like "I'm the one who gave u a baby" that is likely to really irritate him if he %26amp; the gf r ttc.
The other thing is, if he is paying support he can have visitation, take the kid for visits etc %26amp; I don't think you can stop him from including his gf. Unless she is like a convicted child abuser or s.t.
(%26amp; btw it blows my mind - -.you made a heavy play to get her bf to **** u when he was drunk so u cld use him to get u preg, then she forgives him takes him back %26amp; now u the 1 calling HER a skank? I bet she has some choice words for u too).
Good luck on making a good life for this baby.
I am so sick of reading about your trashy entrapment of this poor guy.
Will you quit posting this over and over again?
That's it.
I'm reporting you.
Because you are simply the desperate chick who gave it up to him with ease. There was no emotional link. It was a emotionless act. Yeah, a baby is the result of it BUT that isn't going to change the way he feels. He loves his gf. That's the woman he wants to be with and have a family with. You're not that woman, the baby is not that baby he wants. The only thing he owes you right now is to be a responsible man and take care of the baby and nothing else, you don't count, he owes you nothing else. You got knocked up because you were careless. Yes, you both were careless BUT as a female, you have to look out for yourself and my dear, you didn't because you had one thing in mind and that was to lay up with dude and tie him up. You screwed yourself over. Be upset with yourself. It's called consequences. A baby does not a make a man love any woman. A baby doesn't tie a man to any woman. A baby does not make things better. So, put your big girl panties on, build a bridge, and get over it because you have a long road ahead of you. Time to be a loving, responsible person %26amp; mom.
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