Should i go this far to see my love?

there's this guy i love very much, more than i can every love any1. he hurt me badly in the past, and we broke up which makes a whole yr since we broke up. we known each other for 5yrs and always loved each other but were always far from 1 another. he moved around and i stayed in place, it was always hard for us but we stuck together until thing were falling apart and he found some1 else, and i was so hurt i can't say in words. so then after some time he came back to me, well to talk and all.. and by then i was feelin a little better but still had love for him. and now he lives a bit closer than before, but still far... and cuz i moved to this other state im even farther... but much closer than when he was in another country on the other side of the world. but i know he still loves me, one night he called sayin how he wants to marry me and what not.. because he went through a lot and he truly felt i was right for him but he was drunk when he said this. he was going to his mom's place and said for me to come stay with him and his family for some time on winter break... and i told him that i'll think about it. because then finally i'll get to see him, but i have very strict parents who don't ever let me go out or do anything fun... i have a curfew of 8 and that's only for work... there's prob no way they'll let me go and to see him... they wouldn't at all. but i just wish i could see him cuz it's been so many yrs. so i was thinking to just go without telling no1 by bookin the ticket and to go see him, but he said there were no guarantees if we will have a future together... however he is trying to come to this place which is 2hrs away from where i live in the summer, and he wanted me to come to see him and his family in the winter and then also i was like i'll see him in the summer, but for some reason im afraid we wont be together, and i just go to see him and have a great time and can't settle on being together cuz he travels a lot. i am willing to do a lot to be with him, but if he might hurt me... he says things can change if he saw me, and we could settle on something but nothing is guranteed.. so idk if i should go to see him or not... it's stressin me.. plus if i do go and come back to my house my folks be very angry, and will take everything away from me, cell, my job, and college. i got indian parents... btw im 20.



but i was thinking to go in the summer cuz it would be better i'll have a car by then etc.. id work on convincing my folks.. but jan is around the corner.. it's a lot of pressure.. so i go to see the love of my life when there is a 50 50 chance we will have a future together?



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gurl i cant even read thisd too damn longShould i go this far to see my love?it seems like your trying to hard sweety, Im sorry but I doubt that this guy is feelin you anymore, I'd say move on cuz you need someone whos gonna give you full attention, long distance relationships do not work unless there are ties like a baby or a marraige involved...sorryyy but find another im sure you could
you shouldnt be the one chasing him...he needs to come to you!Should i go this far to see my love?Sweetheart, surely you are not considering travelling all this distance for a guy who broke your heart before?



I think at your age, there would be time to meet many other guys who can make you happy. This might be difficult for you... but forget him. For what eye sees not, heart craves not.Should i go this far to see my love?
hell no.



your parents sound right in this case - they're trying to protect you from making a fool of yourself.



he does not love you like you love him.



wait for him to come to you...you can't chase after someone who doesn't even know if they want to be with you! Stop and think - are you really willing to sacrifice your future for some guy who could leave you again for that someone else?



use your head here, doll...your heart sounds confused.
I'm sorry to say this hun, it might not be the answer that your looking for but nobody on here can know the kind of connection you have for that man or his connection for you just from a few paragraphs. We don't know whats best for you, or the impact something like this might have on you. All I can comfortably say is weight out your priorities, list them all out, and see which way you fair out better. You have a lot of time left in your life for love, but even so if you feel which ever way is best for you do it :)



ps- I know this kind of life, I'm still going through it with my love; distance, restrictive parents, unsure of potential futures.



Good luck and safety to you.Should i go this far to see my love?
Okay it makes much more sense when you say you have Indian parents, cuz a 20 year old with a 8 o'clock curfew is kinda odd. But on a serious note.. don't go all the way to get your love, if he hurt you in the past, there is no guarantee in the future. Then what will you do? Your parents will lose respect for you... and you may be a victim of arranged marriage... so take my advice, forget that dude,



But if you really feel like he may be the one, answer this question for yourself... Are you will to sacrifice 100% of your parents trust in you for 50% of unsure love?

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