Saturday, February 18, 2012

How would you react to this situation?

Image this. You're madly in love with someone. You're living with them. You gave them your heart, mind, body and soul. This is the person you're going to marry, the person who you're going to spend the rest of your life with.



The entire time you've been together, you've had the honor of saying you've had this person entirely. You were both virgins when you met and made love.



Until...one night, curled up in bed he/she confesses he had a sexual experience with their prior significant.



You're in shock. You don't know what to think.



How would you react? Realistically speaking?How would you react to this situation?Naturally, I would be hurt and would move away from him before I kicked his nuts to his throat. lol.



After I got over the initial shock. I would realize that he is in bed with ME! Then I would make him glad again and again that he's with me.How would you react to this situation?
Realistically speaking, when you find out that your significant other is a liar, you take a HUGE step back from the relationship, put all thoughts of marriage on hold and find out what other things they lied about.How would you react to this situation?They told you before they were a virgin?



I would be mad. They lied. I mean, if my boyfriend were to tell me that he had sex with someone else before me (he was a virgin before we got together...supposedly %26gt;.%26gt;) I would be very mad. Lying is not okie.
I'd be pretty pissed off, but I'd get over it. How would you react to this situation?I'd be mad. Hurt and partly disgusted that the other half had lied. If you truely love them then you expect the truth. I just truly believe in the truth. Now, because they have lied you need to know all the skeltons in the closet. you guys can not get married without everything being out in the open. its a minor lie to over come if you really do love that person How would you react to this situation?
Why did that person decide to lie to you in the beginning about being a virgin and why all of a sudden do they confess the truth ?

This is not black and white, it needs to be talked about openly without prejudice or blame.

If that person lied to impress about being a virgin, then why dont they want to impress you now, my guess is either the burden was too much to bear or they want out of the relationship.

Only a good heart to heart will sort this.
I think if you've been together for a long time, he should have told/confessed in you....Did you ever have a discussion reg this topic earlier? If yes, and his answer was on the negative then he has lied and its not a good thing on his part.

Maybe he did not tell you coz he would have felt that it might hurt you and being a virgin was important to you/your relationship.

Talk with him and clear the air.

How would you react to this situation?
i just hurt if i got like that type of situation .....then i will meet her and i say to her that if u have want to be sexual attechment it will u did do with me otherwise why should u do this type of ,,,,,,,well after of that i will be there with my parents wich should they show me my life partner that person i wll get as my half shirt ....i dont bhelive in love thes all waste of time and mone and energy and our everything so dont be get that my friend....
First thing I'd say is "What The ****!?" and go on a tantrum.
i would b mad because he lied,

its like he just wanted 2 get u in bed..

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