I fell in love with my Best friend what do i do?(LONG,dont answer if your going to tell me to get over myself)?

so im a male. 15 year old. and i met my best friend who is a girl freshman year so a little over a year ago i met her. for a good while me liking her was only a thing i knew, cause i am shy about that stuff. then she told me she loved me one night last February, and i said it back . we said it for the first time. we kept saying it and we'd always hang out and just act like we were together. but never were, then June came around and things got unsteady, she told me she had to talk to me one night so i came over then her mom called her she had to go home she couldn't tell me then i guess next day, is when she told me after a hour. she told me she wanted to be with me but i didn't know what to do cause i know i loved her and still do but didn't want to ruin anything we had. but of course we mutually agreed to be together. so a few days went by and after awhile she told me she felt sort of awkward being with me. so i said fine dont be with me i don't want to make you feel uncomfortable. and i told her i hope this doesn't make us any different, but it did. for a good month after i didn't talk to her. i loved her to much to lose her as a friend but i let it happen and i knew i shouldn't have even attempted going out with her. so time pasted i felt like **** we didn't talk. finally i talked to her, told her im sorry for not talking to her and all this stuff so blah blah on on then it happened again we started to fade. and today i started talking to her. we never hang out anymore and barley talk. i made plans to hang with her and im keeping up on the no matter what. but the thing is i still love her and she says she loves me.. i don't get what im trying to even ask here but what do i do to keep her with me, ti win her back, to keep her as the best friend we use to be.



how do i get over loving her and just accept her as a friend?



i actually need advice instead of people telling me oh im 15 your not in love or just to flat out screw her over. I fell in love with my Best friend what do i do?(LONG,dont answer if your going to tell me to get over myself)?the problem is you both care so much about one another as friends, that you are afraid to really commit to one-another in a more serious relationship. Its not just you who is not talking to her, its her that is not talking to you too!~ so dont take all the blame on your shoulders for your falling out.



You two need to spend some time~ just the 2 of you, and really talk things over. be honest with each other and completely open. You have nothing to lose at this point. but alot to gain.



Remember there are many different version's of love~ make sure your both on the same level, when your saying 'l love you'.



good luckI fell in love with my Best friend what do i do?(LONG,dont answer if your going to tell me to get over myself)?
just suppress it, tell yourself in like a mirror "(blank) is just a friend"

Or

get it off your chest to a trustworthy person, should help.



Sounds just like what happened to me, really sucks, huh?



try recreate the friendship you had, and maybe take some time off and chill with yourself or some other friends.I fell in love with my Best friend what do i do?(LONG,dont answer if your going to tell me to get over myself)?buy her a teddy ... then dinner ...and that sit a walk in the park.. just be friends...i garantee she will becom your gf no metter what trust me..I fell in love with my Best friend what do i do?(LONG,dont answer if your going to tell me to get over myself)?
AWWW how cute and sad. Kinda like a love story.It was kinda long but seems like you need some serious help. I think that you should hang out with some of your guy friens on friday and saturday night go out to like the movies and the mall and stuff so you could meet other girls and just finally get over her. For the friendship thing i would say probably just tell her you miss hanging out with her and you miss telling her your secrets cuz she was the only one that kept them and things like that ask her if there is any way you guys could become friends again. dont screw up though. take it slow like she isnt just going to trust you right away. You have to earn her trust little by little.



If you have any more questions or concerns you can email me at



dianamendoza@ymail.com



Good Luck, Hope i helped



-Always-

Diana a.k.a PayasaI fell in love with my Best friend what do i do?(LONG,dont answer if your going to tell me to get over myself)?If you're inlove, and the feeling is mutual, then I say go for it, life is short, just be happy. I've gone out w/ppl, and after we broke up, we were even better friends. You should give it a shot, it's better then never knowing. You shouldn't hide your emotions, tuck away how you really feel, it'll end up driving you crazy. So yeah, take a chance, live life to the fullest, stop worrying, just go for it, why are you still reading this, call her now, tell her how you truly feel. I think once you two kiss and get hot and heavy, it wont be awkward anymore;). So yeah go call now:D. Take a chance!!!I fell in love with my Best friend what do i do?(LONG,dont answer if your going to tell me to get over myself)?
tell her you miss being friends with her and try not to push for a relationship... if its supposed to happen it will.

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