I keep having one night stands and I don't know why?

Yes, I know I'm a ho, and a slut and all that.



I'm a 19 year old girl and recently I can't stop sleeping with randomers. I lost my virginity to someone I had been going out with for six months who I loved and who loved me, but we broke up shortly after that. For a long time after that I didn't sleep with anyone else but shortly after starting college I had sex with a guy I had just met and never saw him again. At first I felt terrible and was disgusted with myself. But since then its happened again twice, and the most recent time was with an ex who I had never slept with before. That was last night and I feel so depressed and sick of myself today. I could tell that all respect he had for me is gone now, which is understandable. I feel out of control. Alcohol is always involved so I should probably stop drinking I think, but there must be a deeper reason behind this... any ideas?



By the way, I have no problem with women, or men, who choose to act this way. I think as long as someone is happy then its fine. But I'm not happy.I keep having one night stands and I don't know why?Your probably still dealing with the rejection from the relationship you had. see a counselor about your self esteem and rejection issues.I keep having one night stands and I don't know why?
Can I have your number?I keep having one night stands and I don't know why?A deeper meaning. There is none. You can't fix what isn't broke. I noticed something. A lot of teenage girls reach the age they sleep around. I think its something about hormones or womanhood passage i.d.k. It lasts not very long. Its normal your o.k.I keep having one night stands and I don't know why?
Just stop acting like a stupid animal and try exploring deeper things in life that will give you long term satisfaction. There is no other reason than alcohol besides you being stupid and following other people's vision of fun instead of creating your own.

Sorry for being so direct but I am just tired of people like you.I keep having one night stands and I don't know why?I'm no expert but it seems to me that your in need of some loving confirmation in your life %26amp; the way your going about it is ok as long as it's not all the time. Now this may sound simplistic but hugs are a VERY POWER-FULL medicine, you might want to try more hugging. When your out get a bunch of hugs %26amp; then go home alone, don't go home or take him home %26amp; then do the hugging cause you"ll give him the wrong idea %26amp; he may not want to leave . So get those hug while your out in public. try it , HUGS are powerfull stuffI keep having one night stands and I don't know why?
Alcohol and the overall scene of college has a lot of peer pressure. Constant talk among girls about having sex and so forth because you feel oh so much more grown up now that you're on your own. I am not making fun I am just stating a fact. Also the it is way easier due to your own room now.



It is hard to get used to all the new changes, don't be so hard on yourself just be sure to always remember to be safe (protection). After going threw my college years I can tell you what you went threw is a common story among majority of the girls who go threw their years. It mellows out and after you get the grasp of your new found freedom you will rediscover your own personal boundaries.



Happy Holidays :)
sex is generally an easy way to gain recognition and functions as a pain killer for the moment practiced. so often people who are in need of a quick fix which provides them with the feeling of attention and intimicy choose to pursue this kind of lifestyle (which can get out of control by the time).

i guess, you麓re still in the process of handling and exploring your feelings in your love relationships and your sexuality. don麓t be too strict with yourself, you麓ve experienced hurt and shame, and can learn from it. go on, be more careful in the future, just notice very carefully what you really want, and what motivation you have for your actions. figure out what is still there rumbling in your soul, which causes you pain, and isn麓t digested yet. sex is no appropriate mean to solve emotional issues, it麓s often just a mislead outlet.