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|||No, IMO, I think you should find someone who loves and respects you. I'm not a "wait till marriage" sort of person, but I do think you should be in love for that, especially your first time. And be completely sure that the guy does, in fact, love and respect you. The guys that leave because you wont sleep with them appear to want sex and nothing else, and sleeping with someone tends to develop an emotional tie to them if it's your first time.
and you said that you are really upset right now. I would suggest waiting a while to think before you pursue that option. It's not something you can take back|||Ok i think its really great that your still a virgin. thats rare.However i dont think you should lose your virginity in a one night stand, and i sware im not trying to be rude, but i think that might make you seem like a slut, you know what im saying. so just take it slow and if you really think he will stay with you after it then go for it. (you dont want to say the first guy you slept with left you the next morning right?) oh and maybe not on the first date cause you dont want to seem to desprate. and play hard to get cause if they leave you cause you wont have sex with them then they are just not the right one. Good luck!
~Grace|||Please don't do that...although it may sound cliche...your virginity is priceless, trust me saving yourself for marriage is also saving yourself frm alot of diseases and health problems going on now. 24 is NOT too old to be a virgin its jus that in our society now ppl dnt value their virginity, but if you have made it thus far then keep going girl...don't be discouraged, if guys leave you because you wont have sex with them then you we're not meant to be with them...you WILL find true love and when you do your husband will be absolutely proud to know hat he is your first...(and hopefully you are his)...patience is a virtue darling don't let the world influence/pressure you|||You shouldnt hide it from him.
For all you know he could be your true love!
And if you have sex with him, he will find out soon enough that you are a virgin, because honey, it hurts! lol
I think you are fantastic for holding onto your virginity for so long! Im almost 18 and have been having sex since i was 15 and have had sex with 5 people already.If i could go back, i'd still be a virgin today.
Im proud of you! Hold onto it for as long as you can! =)|||save yourself for marraige I know it may seem endless but your true love will come... he'll come when your not looking and least expecting it... and any guy who dumps you for not having sex with him is just a jerk.. God wants us to wait until marraige.... and if you've been saving yourself for marraige all your life and then loose it in one night your gonna feel really bad afterwards. If you respect yourself you'll save yourself. Because sex before marraige is not just a sin against God its a sin against yourself a sin against your body... plz dont betray yourself I've seen to many friends emotionally go down the tubes because they gave it up too soon....|||I defiantly wouldn't do it if I were you. I did the same while in college figuring hey I'm old enough why the hell haven't I tried? Not only was it REALLY BAD (like not even 1st time bad but just really bad) I met my fiance like 4 months later %26amp; felt like a complete idiot not waiting. I total regret it %26amp; having to explain to ppl my first time was a random guy makes ppl think your slutty.|||aww im so sorry about the guy that broke your heart.
right now i think that you want to loose it in a one night stand because of the break up. you are upset and rebelling against the guy and yourself, even if you dont realize it.
But if you do have sex on a one night stand, you will regret it.
have sex with the one special guy. YOu dont need to wait until marriage, if you are conserned with being to old. Just as long as its somebody you love deeply.
i hope i helped. :)|||he'll probably know your a virgin.. well depends but I say no. Date a guy and when your actually dating and it seems like they want it then do it, Im kinda in the same situation but 19 and I've thought that because everyone in college oh dear god is having sex and its getting annoying but haha i'm just gonna see where it goes.|||no plz don't. no one is saving themselves anymore you should be proud of being a virgin. Please just wait!!! i'm waiting too, of course i'm younger but even ppl younger than me have lost their virginity. don't do it for two reasons
1.) tons of ppl regret one night stands
2.) you'll feel bad for doing this becuz you wanted to save yourself
3.) its knda skanky giving it up on a one night stand|||lol i see all the guys saying yes and girls saying dont but really if they want to leave you because you dont have sex with them then they are not worth losing it to them i waited a year for my girlfreind to give it up to me and i wasent a virgin i just really loved her, but you will know when its the right time to when your truely in love best of luck to you|||men who dump you because you're not putting out are shallow and don't deserve your attention. Do not sleep with thte guy to keep him around. You will find the special person you want to be intimate with and share that with. Do not sell yourself cheap. If men are saying you're too old, you're probably looking in the wrong place...you're probably dating men who are too young. Look for someone more mature who is more interested in a roll in the hay.|||Don't do that. I had my marriage annulled before it was consummated and lost my virginity in a one night stand (hey I waited til after I was married!!) and it was the worst mistake of my life. It hurt like hell since I didn't tell him I was a virgin and just trust me....it's not worth it.|||No you are not too old. I don't think is a good idea to lose your virginity under pressure. You have to know that person well enough to do such a thing. Don't tell anybody about your virginity. Those are only your business. Don't let people put pressure on you.|||NoOoOoO! save yourself at least for a guy you love even if you dont wait till marriage. You may feel that right now there's no guy for you, but that is ONLY because you just had your heart shattered. you'll find somone one day and you'll be happy and grateful that you waited for him.|||wellll i respect you for saving it till marriage.!
and if they break up with you cause you wont have sex with them then they were prob. just trying to get some *** soo if i was you id justt settle with the guy from college. buttt dont goo tooo farrr. and seee how it all goes :]!|||uhm no!
Your virqinity should be a value to you.
%26amp;%26amp; it should be qivien to someone who wants it %26amp;%26amp; knows that ix theirs!
a night stand dosen't even care if yuh qive him an std!
save 4 marriqe or someone yuh really love
鈾lease please answer mines!
you'll be bleedinq errywhere he'll know you're a virqin!
%26amp;%26amp; I'm 13 %26amp;%26amp; dix smart|||Please don't do it! You don't know this guy's history of partners, he could have an STD, and there is the risk of pregnancy. When you find the right guy, he won't make fun of you for being a virgin. It will be worth the wait.|||No, not if you've only known him for a little bit. If you start going out with him and find out that he REALLY likes you, then you can have sex with him, but otherwise, don't on a one night stand.. That's stupid .|||Hey, that's not the way to lose your virginity. I'm all about having sex i one night stands but not losing the virginity. I feel that has to be with someone you trust and know.|||Your old enough to make your own decision but don't do anything you will regret you shouldn't just lose your virginity because you feel that you have too I'm sure mr right is somehere out there just keep your head up|||no....tht's disrespectful to yourself! stay true to ur self and wait for tht special person...if they can't wait for you, then who needs them!!|||one night stands are not the answer. im only 17 and ive had one night stands. it makes me feel worthless and used. you need to see if he wants to be with you before you do anything like that|||good things comes to those who wait. you will find mr. right. make wise decisions. you will only hurt yourself. good luck. i wish i had a woman like you.|||God no!
Find a boyfriend. Don't tell him you're a virgin. When it feels right, have sex. He won't know the difference.|||if you want to lose your virginity to sexless love go ahead ,,,, or wait as mr right right around the corner as they say ,, you will find him ,, good luck|||If you tell this guy you are a virgin, he'll want to bang you even more. I say bang him.|||well i think you should be yourself and wait for the ture love trust me he will come..i think you should just have fun be yourself!!!|||No, you don't have to wait till marriage but at least find a good guy not just the first guy.|||i plan on losing mine when im high as h*ell and wont remember it and camping.
u could call it a one night stand lol.
but i c no problem losing it as a one night stand.|||true love may not exist if so i havent experinenced it but not on a one nighter. there is no point in saving yourself just live your life and have fun
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