He was really nice and I have liked him for ages, he says he likes me too and he want to start a relationship with me when im old enough and have left school.
he didnt pressure me and I enjoyed it..
so much so I wanted to do it again so I asked him to meet me and he didnt seem that interested even though he says he still likes me alot!
do you think he's used me?
and do you think hes too old to start a relationship with?
And also do you think I love him?Did he use me for a one night stand?You are below the legal age of consent, if anyone found out he had sex with you he'd go to jail. That's why he doesn't want to sleep with you again. It sounds like it was just sex to him, he's probably being nice so that you don't get him into trouble. I don't think you're in love, you're infatuated because he was your first but love is something so much deeper than physical attraction and liking each other. If he loved you he'd ask you out on a date before having sex with you, it's just convenient for him to say now that you can't have a relationship cos you're not old enough and still at school. But it was ok to have sex with you as long as nobody knows and you don't go public with it. It's out of order sorry, he doesn't sound like boyfriend material and i doubt he will actually wait for you to be older.Did he use me for a one night stand?
He didn't pressure you, but I'll bet he sure made you feel pretty and very comfortable with the idea of sex. Probably even said "making love" or affection or some other gentle words that melted your heart. Sorry. You were used. I'm sure he enjoyed it, but he is not going to seriously consider being a couple with you.Did he use me for a one night stand?I think he regrets having done something illegal and wants to stop it....at least until you are 18 and that's quite a while. I don't think he used you.....he just let the "little head" do the thinking instead of the one on top of his shoulders....he should never had sex with you...it's against the law.Did he use me for a one night stand?
1. Used you? Yes.
2. Start a relationship? No.
3. Love him? Hell no; you don't even know him.Did he use me for a one night stand?Yes to all your questions on this topic, forget him he is already moving on to his next one nighter.Did he use me for a one night stand?
yeaa hun im so sorry.. i was 15 when i lost my virginity to a 25 year old..
just like you i knew him for a while and wanted him so bad and finally it happened..
we were in a realationship for 18 months.. after i gave him my everything i found out he had been emailing other girls since before our relationship..
but what can i expect? how can a man at that age take such a young girl seriously?
understand?
i have learned since then.. and have grown up alot since then..
as you will too
because you lost your virginity to him.. you do have a special attatchment to him.. but love at 15 is hardly a fairy tale.. it rarley happens.. hes still young and probably has other women.. that he can party with and drink with..
so keep him at arms length
take it from someone who knows
the age difference isn't that much in numbers, but it is illegal for him to be with you, and he can go to jail for it. So at this time in your life, being 15, i think he is too old for you to start a relationship with.
Personally, yes, i do think he used you. Especially since he didn't want to meet you when you contacted him. I think he is going to continue to use you because you gave it up to him. (basically he is using you for the sex, and will tell you all sorts of things, anything you want to hear, as long as at the end of the day, he gets what he wants)
I say you should cut ties with him and concentrate on your schooling.
Good Luck~!
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