Want to have a one night stand, but in a relationship?

I feel like such an idiot even asking, I know that if some of you could, you would throw boiling water on me.



I've been cheated on: worst feeling ever. I'm just having average 23 year old male urges to love, and have sex, not bang and be slutty, if that makes sense at all.



've only been with 2 people my whole life (been in two 4 year relationships) and I feel like I'm just freaking out, i really do love the person I'm with and want to marry her, but I just wish I could have maybe a month to get stuff out of my system.



I hope you all don't think I'm a dick, I would never cheat on her, but if I broke up with her for a month, it would be too scary to actually lose her. I wont cheat, just would like some shared experiences of same scenarios or advice,



Thanks.Want to have a one night stand, but in a relationship?I would say don't do it and that if you think this way you shouldn't marry her... but I'm a man and if you really want to experiment a one night stand do it before getting married with her, just use protection, be careful, and do it very discretely so you don't hurt your girlfriend. And NEVER DO IT AGAIN!Want to have a one night stand, but in a relationship?
It's a risk you will take if you choose that route. Just ask yourself how you'd feel if you knew your girl wanted to do the same. Remember these are urges. It will only temporarily satisfy the urge. It's not something you "get out of your system." Your a guy and naturally the urge will ALWAYS be there. Yes I know I'm a girl but if your asking about doing the right thing, cheating on her is definitely not the right thing to do.Want to have a one night stand, but in a relationship?I understand where you're coming from, but I really don't think Yahoo Answers is the place to be asking questions like this. Most of the answers you receive will be trolls or angry women. Maybe you could look for a discussion board tailored to sensitive questions like this?
As long as you don't cheat on her. Be open about it. tell her you want more sex? (Maybe not so.. straight to the point, but you know.) Good luck, do the right thing! =PWant to have a one night stand, but in a relationship?I haven't been through that one personally - have you tried sex with your gf in different places (i.e. outdoors, public places, sauna, etc) to get a little bit of that thrill?Want to have a one night stand, but in a relationship?
I can't quite comprehend your question. Can you explain with more information? Thank you.
Just don't do anything I wouldn't do!

Thanks,

J.C.Want to have a one night stand, but in a relationship?
at least you called yourself an idiot
If you love her don't do it... because if she'd truly worth it oh wouldn't do that to her.
please don't you'll regret it
How would you feel if she had these urges?





Would YOU take her back?
dont do it
Love is all you need my friend and sleeping with someone else is not going to make you feel any better.

why do you obsess so, is your women not enough, can you trust her, does she love you is she sincere.

sounds like to me by doing what you are feeling you are cheating on yourself.

if you need to have that painful lesson yourself then its up to you. you will hurt a lot of people.

for me when something is finished it is finished, and if i was to find out that someone cheated on me the moment i found it would be finished. and i am very physic so i would know.

my advice to you is let it go and concentrate on the now moment, stop thinking you are missing out. if you are not happy in your relationship change it if you are happy simply be happy, go with the flow.
dude strait up best advice you will ever have, and this is good because your still young enough to "live".

go for it dude, you only live once, **** everything in sight, have a great time be happy do what you feel will make you happy and dont have any regrets, in future reference weather it keeps you single or not, life it better and easier this way regardless, next relationship, explain that you want to be honest and tell them that youde rather be friends with benefits they may back out but you'll feel better knowing they are ok with it but it can still bite you in the *** if you are the jealous type because chances are they will do the same thing
I understand you.. i was in a long relationship like that and even though neither of us would say it at the time, we BOTH wanted that. Sometimes you just need that. Eventually my bf told me, and if your gf is like me she'll understand. i felt like i'd rather you tell me the truth and then i know you really do still wanna be with me than you lie about it. You're young so you shouldn't be ready to settle down without exploring first.Maybe gently mention the idea of it to her and see how she reacts. she might feel the same way you never know! hope this helps, good luck!