I refused to have a one night stand now people think I'm gay?

I'm 22, and i've been single for a long time. I went to this house party last week, and this girl came onto me. I recognise her from my lectures, and I didn't know she felt that way about me. We were kissing a lot, and hugging and stuff, I wasn't that drunk but she was. I didn't sleep with her because I have standards. I only sleep with women who I actually love I'm not gay, I take great offence to people who call me gay. When I apologised and refused her request she got mad and said "oh if you told me you were gay to begin with.." I then told her I'm not gay, then she went round telling everyone I came out to her and told her i'm gay. Well, now it's spreading like anything. I'm getting facebook messages of hate and i'm getting people texting me asking if i'm gay. My life is ruined. I think I'm going to drop out it isn't worth it, I don't want to hurt or get hurt I'm done with that lifestyle of being violent in the past. All I wanted was to have a normal healthy relationship with people, be a nice person, and get an education. That's all I ever wanted now I can't even get that, all because I'm the first guy ever to turn down sex with no strings attached. How can I handle something like this?I refused to have a one night stand now people think I'm gay?I would ask about your antipathy towards gay people, but I've decided to reserve my judgment for the moment.

Her widely circulating a lie like that is terrible, regardless of your feelings about homosexuality. I'm sorry that is happening to you.

If you aren't going to confront her about it, all you can do is tell people what happened. You might also want to deactivate your Facebook for the time being.I refused to have a one night stand now people think I'm gay?
your life is not ruined! just tell the truth to anyone who asks.

people are so rude and immature today.

i don't think you should drop out of school for it though. anyone who gives you a hard time about the situation isn't worth being friends with.I refused to have a one night stand now people think I'm gay?Ignore the rumours. Explain to your friends exactly what you said to us. If anyone comes up and asks you, simply tell them you're not gay. You did the right thing.
Wow. It's sad that when a man has standards people think he's gay. I'm sorry :/

Maybe you should try to transfer schools? You shouldn't miss out on an education just because people are immature.I refused to have a one night stand now people think I'm gay?you're smart, not gay.
Sweet heart there all dumb! What you did was actually very sweet,and everyone is just giving you a hard time. Don't let it get to you! Your not the first guy to ever do this, its not a new thing in the world. Your true friends will love you for who you are. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks of you, you have standards and morals they don't. You'll go allot further in life then most. I hope you realize how dumb there being. Just ignore it and move on. Its not a problem if you just let it break its self down.
IT'S OKAY don't stress about it i like that your not like every guy (:

you actually have respect for yourself and your carefull unlike other guys that just want to hit it and quit and knock up a ****** lol . but seriously we need MORE MEN like you (:

don't worry let them talk as long as you know that your straight you honestly don't need to prove anything to anyone because YOUR STRAIGHT (:

just forget about them and confront that girl for saying lies .
she's just trying to get under your skin. It is her way of manipulating the situation. She didn't get what she wanted so she is going to make you pay. Forget her and forget everyone else that is teasing you about this. It is not worth dropping out of school for. If you do that then they win. Be the bigger person and learn to walk away. You are in college, your chances of meeting someone is pretty high. You will have the chance to prove them wrong one day. Then who will be laughing.
So you hurt the whore's ego and now she's calling you gay...you should say to everyone that you dont sleep with cheap sl*ts whom you can get an STD from and that was the reason why the ho was saying that about you...



-No, you're life is not ruined. It will only be ruined if you let that happen. Dropping out for this will ruin your life and you will just give them the impression that what she said was true. Just laugh it off and tell them what I said above....OR you can tell them that you have a long distance gf that you love (i'd still say the first option i gave you above)...Just because a man refuses a one night stand with a sl*t does not mean he's gay...if other people think thats gay then they dont know what gay means and they arent bright enough to be in college....even if you were gay (which i know YOURE NOT), why do people freaking care? Those that care are the same people who probably have homosexual tendencies...........DO NOT LEAVE SCHOOL and DO NOT LET IT GET TO YOU PLEASE....confront this problem, have confidence, and tell the truth...if they dont believe you, who cares....why would you even want validation from a bunch of ignorant dumba$$es?