I did i tried a one night stand................... hoe do i deal with this?

and it didnt work i didnt feel loved at all i felt used and he treated me wrong, he didint even care about me and he use to be my boyfriend but hey..... he didint care about me then so why would i expect him to care about me now.............. please help me i cant stop crying. everything is messed up. i feel so hurt how could he treat me this way. i just dont get it. the sex was horrible !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BUT I THINK IT CUZ HE DIDNT LOVE ME IN THE FIRST PLACE,[ he aint really know what he was doing either]. before i left he became madd and threatend to trap me in his house he has hit me before and said he was sorry and all, but now he's talking like this and always saying he gon hit me back ! he dont love or care foe me and thats all im looking for. my question is how do i deal wih this ????????????/ how do i stop these tearsI did i tried a one night stand................... hoe do i deal with this?Don't write yourself off dear. You are fortunate that you have enough of an "inner voice" that is telling you that you made a mistake. If you have the ability to forgive others it's time to forgive someone else, yourself.



Get away from this guy. His kind never change and women who stay with his kind have no self-respect. If he asks for forgiveness, you can tell him you forgive him. But that doesn't mean you stay with him. Just tell him you're not a good match and it would be best if you never see each other again.



If he threatens you again, call the police. (Not so sure you shouldn't be calling already.) You need to put a stop to it NOW.I did i tried a one night stand................... hoe do i deal with this?
You made a stupid mistake, and now you are paying for it. Learn from it and move on.I did i tried a one night stand................... hoe do i deal with this?Go see a therapist. You have serious issues far deeper than this recent one-night stand.
Go stay with your parents for awhile.I did i tried a one night stand................... hoe do i deal with this?move on, get away from him.I did i tried a one night stand................... hoe do i deal with this?
stand up, why should you want someone in your life who doesnt have respect for you,realize your better than that
You need to GET AWAY from him.... he will NEVER love you , but that's not b/c of you, it's b/c of himself, he's an ugly person and you deserve SSOOOO much more!! Just make sure you're not prego and DON'T do that again. The tears will stop, only after you get him out of your life b/c he WILL eventually kill you , if not harm you.I did i tried a one night stand................... hoe do i deal with this?
He is abusive. Cut him out of your life. Don't be his friend, and certainly don't be his one-night lover. Get yourself tested for an STD, even if he used a condom. As for yourself, it sounds like you've got some pretty deep self esteem issues. You should seek out some counseling. If you can't afford it, the state should offer programs for free counseling if you can't afford to pay for it.

There's a nice guy out there for your somewhere, but you've got to get yourself sorted out before you'll find him. Otherwise you're likely to keep ending up in abusive situations like this. If at any time he makes you feel unsafe, or if he keeps trying to contact you after you tell him to stay away from you, don't hesitate to get the police involved. You deserve much better than that. Good luck.