After a one night stand, 15years later, Do I owe child support?

A older woman with 2 children was on vacation new years eve. I had sex with her under her word she could not get pregnant! Ileft the Fla. Keys to Kansas a week later to propose marrige. I soon learned she was a callgirl and was still active with supposedly my baby in her. After she put the baby in jepordy at a water park, and told me it was not my baby in any way, nor would I ever have a say in anything about the baby. I went back home to south florida. I lived with no contact at all. It really affected me!I am shaking now and hoping for serious answers. They all moved here after the mother got put on felony probation for trying to burn her home down for money. Then proceeded to try to sue me after 8 years and it never worked. I was willing to sign then if I could have college added at more expence to me. They left it out in the final draft! I didnt sign! Now at 15 years of no contact exept any havoc possable and theres more... From Kansas I am being sued. I have love but no money???After a one night stand, 15years later, Do I owe child support?She sounds pretty shady, but you're no angel, either, so I don't think that dissing her is going to get you anywhere.



My advice is to a) stop screwing call girls; b) don't hold a hooker to her word that she won't get pregnant, that doesn't even make sense; c) don't deal with her directly but only with Child Protective Services or whomever is in charge; d) demand a DNA test immediately, before you spend anything regarding litigation -- otherwise if the kid isn't yours, you'll have to go back again and sue for all the money you wasted.



It doesn't matter if you don't have money ... I'm not sure if you know how child support works, but not having money isn't an excuse. If you have a job and it's your kid, you have to support him, whether you feel like it or not. You should have wrapped it up.After a one night stand, 15years later, Do I owe child support?
I hope you've grown up since then. Demand a paternity test....and an STD test. If you are the father, you have to own up to your actions. If she is as messed up as you say, take her to court to get her kids taken from her. She shouldn't be a mom if she is a call girl.After a one night stand, 15years later, Do I owe child support?"After 8 years and it never worked" - there must be a reason. Possibly because this child is not yours, the hooker knows it, and has yet to give her own consent to have the child DNA tested? Because believe me, if she has nothing to hide and really wanted to pursue this, you should have been court-ordered to submit to DNA testing long ago. This does not sound right. Either way, demand DNA testing now and be prepared for the consequences. If you are proven to be daddy, get an attorney in the jurisdiction you are being sued in immediately. You will owe support from this point forward, but you may not have to pay back 15 years of backpay. In some states you only have to pay back so far, like one or two years, or to the time the mother initiated court action. No guarantees on that, it depends on the state laws where this suit is, so talk to an attorney there right away. And good luck, this sounds like a rough situation!
Get a paternity test first... this will ascertain who the father is. If you aren't the father, you have no obligation to support this child.



If you are the father, I'm afraid you are financially responsible for this child, regardless of the circumstances since then. You'll have to grin and bear it until the child is 18.After a one night stand, 15years later, Do I owe child support?Weird situation. I'd refuse contact with anyone but CYS; and I'd insist on a paternity test/DNA and only deal with CYS for the state. Sad; but if the child is yours, you'll end up paying.After a one night stand, 15years later, Do I owe child support?
The first thing I think you should do, if you really want to settle this issue, is have a paternity test to determine if the child is yours or not. I mean, it is a 50-50 chance that it may or may not be yours. If she slept around there is the chance that it could be somebody else's and your worries would be over. You have to establish one step at a time because a judge is going to make you do it if it comes to court.
These are the prices you must pay for being stupid. $.50 would have saved you all this misery. Or not doing it to begin with would have been better.After a one night stand, 15years later, Do I owe child support?
If the child is yours and and you know it you should do what it takes to support it.The child can't help what the mother, ot you did.
If you spawn them, you support them.
i strongly recommend a paternity test and have no contact with this woman and only go through your lawyer or someone on your behalf.