What makes a woman fall out of love with her husband and like another guy?

I know the question sounds bad but it is true. I have fallen out of love with my husband but what is so strange I started liking his best friend. About 3 weeks ago my husband brought home his friend from work he is about the same age I am. We got to talking and one night when I picked my husband friend up from work to take him home he invited me in and one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. After that me and him has started to have feelings for each other but I haven't told my husband about it yet. And it's hard to figure out who I want bc my husband is great with my son but his friend treats me better than my husband does. Someone please help me?What makes a woman fall out of love with her husband and like another guy?I find that when I am least happy in my relationship with my husband, I begin to "look" around for others that might make me happier. Not that I would act on it. Basically, from what I am hearing from you, you may not be real happy with your marriage, and this "friend" is offering you the things your husband can't. You need to talk to your husband and try to work out your problems. Don't give up on your marriage because crushes come and go. As for telling your husband about your infidelity, that's a personal choice, however, if it's only happened once and you can assure yourself that it will never happen again, then don't. I absolutely do not believe in cheating, but this is your cross to bear. Telling him will only make you feel better and hurt him. However, if you're willing to let your marriage go because of this guy, proceed CAUTIOUSLY. They are friends, and when it comes down to it, he'll forgive him long before he ever forgives you. And then you'll find yourself in a different situation. The friend doesn't trust you because he watched you first hand do it to your husband.What makes a woman fall out of love with her husband and like another guy?
How does that saying go? oh yeah...



Never leave the one you love for the one you like

cuz the one you like will leave you for the one they love :)



not to mention you are falling for his best friend trust me that will never work , if you don't care for him anymore that is fine move on but never with a mans best friend that is crossing the line, in my opinion.What makes a woman fall out of love with her husband and like another guy?It does sound bad but it's not yeah things happen and sometime the spark just dies with your marriage but don't let that bother you if you are really happy with your new relationship and you don't really think that things will work out for you and your husband then maybe it's time to move on with your life and sit down and explain to your husband what exactly is going on. But if things really are not that bad between you and your husband then maybe go to see a marriage counselor and work on things although it could be very difficult.
Girl, if you don't love your husband anymore, then you need to tell him. It's not fair to him, you or your son.



No one should stay in a relationship, if there is no more love. Plain and simple!



Good luck!What makes a woman fall out of love with her husband and like another guy?You know a guy 3 weeks and your ready to throw in the towel on your marriage? Seek medical and metal attention soon.What makes a woman fall out of love with her husband and like another guy?
Keep them both.
Don't complain if this turns ugly, since you went for it. There is no excuse to cheating. Tell you husband and accept the results of you choice.What makes a woman fall out of love with her husband and like another guy?
Not good, believe me. Sexual feelings WON'T last. Get some counseling for your child's sake if for no other reason.
He is the "I wouldn't do that" man. Hes the one that probably knows what your husband does wrong (or so you feel he does wrong) and then does what you want. I can tell you... an affair wasn't the way to go. You don't love him. You just met. You need to work on your marriage and see if your husband even wants you. I hope you can work it out, but put yourself in his shoes. If he had done the same thing... would you work things out or run straight to a lawyer and get anything you could... Poor guy, I bet he has NO idea and he probably thinks things are just peachy. You shouldn't have "leaned" on another man, and should have communicated with your husband of what you wanted. I can bet that he would have bent over backwards to make you happy and you treated him like hes nothing.



Yes, this is a bit harsh, go ahead and thumb me down, but it is MY opinion... and you know that if it was the other way around you would be crucifying him.
Normally when people fall for someone else. They were not happy with their relationship. If you are planing on continuing to see the other guy. Best thing would be is to tell your husband. Your husband also has the right to be happy and meet someone else.
i think you need to reevaluate who you are sleeping around on your husband i really think you need to have your head checked sounds to me you just had a fling and dont have any problems with hubby and found out that other people have sex organs and you liked it and kept doing it i think that you should tell your hubby and leave him because he deserves better than you
Do you have a history of doing this ? even when dating ? Sounds like it. Damage is done,,you better come clean with your husband, you need some counseling or in a few years you will doing this again with another man,,,
wierd, you fell out of love with your husband and like another guy. I suggest that you go out with the new guy instead of with your husband.
My husband and I are in counseling right now for a very similar situation (i didn't cheat, but I have feelings for another guy) and the counselor made a good point. She said that everyone gets so excited over the nervous, giddy happiness that goes with a new relationship, but that fades in time. You should focus on the things in your marriage that you love.



This last week she gave us a task. She told us to remember back to when we were the happiest and most attracted to one another and write down the 10 things you loved the most about them and the ten things that most turned you on about them. She told us to then, on a different day, think about now and try to answer the same question. She said come up with as many things as possible.



She said that in doing this, it will give us a starting point and a place to move forward from. It will help me see what has changed that may have caused my attraction to change.



Confess, if your husband is willing, seek counselling.



Good Luck.
Well, you kind of took that decision out of your own hands when you slept with another man, didn't you???



Your husband WILL find out, you need to tell him, so that he can decide whether HE would want to be with YOU or not.
You're playing with fire honey, and you will get burnt. Sometimes when someone is unhappy in a relationship they turn to a "knight in shining armor" person that looks oh-so-great compared to whom they're with. But you know what? Down the road you're going to kick yourself for breaking up your family and you and your new fling just destroyed your husband's friendship with him. Unless your husband is an abusive, cheating, lying slob - your first move when you realized you were unhappy was to sit down and communicate with him. I'm not trying to be harsh with you but the grass isn't always greener hon.
You are an utterly foolish woman, and you will live to regret your actions many times over. You didn't just fall out of love, and saying it that way makes it sound like you had no control in the matter. No... you made a choice. You severed the bond between you and your husband one strand at a time, and you were ripe for the picking when his best friend came over 3 weeks ago. You even went as far as making sure that you were picking him up from work. You make it sound as though this just happened to you, like you're the victim of some extraordinary circumstances, but the truth is that you set yourself up for this one little decision at a time. You betrayed your husband, and you destroyed the friendship he had in one stroke of selfish indulgence. In the process you destroyed your son's life as well. There are words for women like you, but I can't use them here.
Shame on you for doing that to your husband and your son.Of course this guy is good to you he's trying to get into your pants and apparently it worked. Doesn't sound like much of a friend if he sleeps with his boy's wife. Let me guess "he's a good listener he really cares". You got played. "BRO'S BEFORE HO'S" .
The lover will never trust you because you did something deceitful to your husband.You are destroying your family for a loss.The lover treats you better now but he knows what you are capable of doing.He will never marry you because he knows what he did to get you . It will always be in the back of his mind what he did and what you allowed to happen. Good Luck.
You are a sorry excuse for a human being.



Imndrp44 you got it right on the money.
Kudos to you for doing what you for doing what you think is best for you. Give it some time. You'll figure out what to do. Take your time and think. You're okay.