Should I have a one night stand?

There's this guy I know who would love to sleep with me and I'm verrrrry tempted... I don't want anything more from him, in vise versa, but I don't know how I'd feel afterwards.



I have no doubts that it would be great, he's very experienced and very large (I found out from a makeout session). I don't know though.. I've been single for about 4 months, but my ex and I have gone out on a couple dates in the last few weeks and we're planning on seeing each other in the summer to see if things are better. I'm not in a committed relationship with my ex yet, but... I don't know. I just don't know how to feel about it.



Advice?Should I have a one night stand?It sounds like you're very vulnerable and lonely. It sounds all up in the air with your relationships. It sounds like you're currently single, so technically you could, but...if you think you may want to try it again with your ex in the summer, decide how he might take it if he found out about this one night stand. If you think he will say-well, we wern't together so I can't hold it against you, then I guess he won't get mad. Or he could say-how could you do this when we are still sort of seeing each other? Suppose you did do it with this guy-and the sex is all there is and the next day you're lonely again. Are you really going to be happier??Should I have a one night stand?
DO ITShould I have a one night stand?Do it, if it is going to make both of you happy why not?
you didn't you break it off with your ex so you could sneak in a few outside lays before getting back with him, did you?Should I have a one night stand?go for it, its good to experience a 1 night stand. i dont like em, but i didnt kno until i tried it...Should I have a one night stand?
It's harmless fun if you do it safely (with protection) so why not? We are not young and fun loving people forever, so make the most of opportunities like this. It's something you both want and because you both don't want a relationship no feelings can be hurt if it doesn't work out. Win-win situation.
go for it. I mean if you're not in a relationship just do it!Should I have a one night stand?
I suggest you wait and see if how things go with your ex-boyfriend. You may not currently be in a committed relationship but having a one-night stand could complicate a possible future with your former boyfriend.
sure....i dont see y u shouldnt
So what if he's large? Shouldn't be the deciding factor unless you are like octomom and hang like sleeve of wizard. Can you separate your emotions from the physical?
If he truely likes you he would respect you and he wouldn't want to sleep with you,don't do it you will regret it,and the last thing you don't want is a baby! Thats how my friend feels i told her the samething and while me and the rest of my friends are going to the movies and just having fun she can't go because she has to take care of her baby.If he uses protection there still is a possible way u still might get pregnant.
I don't think you should if you and your ex boyfriend are trying to make things work after you 2 broke up the last time. I think it will halter the process. If you and your ex aren't wanting to make a serious thing out of the both of you then I think a one off one night stand would be ok I guess.
the things about one night stands is if u know this guy well and talk all the time

and do sleep with eachother, its very possible u guys will get feelings involved.



or if u slept together and ur x found out he would be HEART BROKEN



one night stands can be great can be fun, but there are some string attached and sometimes

consequences afterwards, and if uve heard his BIG make sure u use protection

50% of people get a sexual transmitted disease in there life... 50%

and if hes been with a fair few girls u dont know ...



just make sure if u sleep together, dont get jelous if hes sleeping with other girls n hitting up other girls n not just u



ive had 2 one night stands
Here's some advice: GET OFF YAHOO. You already made up your mind to sleep with him when you posted this question. You deserve to feel like a women, and it sounds like he can help accomplish that. No string, then fling! Wrap him up and ride! You know what you want, stop looking for feedback from people who obviously aren't having sex (Myself included), and have yourself some F.U.N.!
Well... if you expected him to be forthright about his feelings- maybe you should be open and honest about your options... it's the least you could do, if you want something meaningful.



Let your ex know that you're horny and you have curious options- that you'd need something open and affectionate, to keep your interest. If he's up to the challenge, he'll make this other infatuation wish he'd been more persuasive- sooner.