One Night Stand?

I am a naive and vulnerable 20 year old gay guy. I have never had a serious gay experience before. This is what happened... I went out for drinks at a gay bar with a friend. I ended up getting sloshed and was seduced by a attractive stranger. I had my first gay experience! I fell head over heels. He was everything I have been looking for in a man for as long as I can remember. He said things like "marry me", and after the sex, "what happens next because I want to see you each day for the rest of my life." Everything went well as far as I was concerned. We had a connection, it was love at first sight. He took my number and when texted each other. He said he wanted to see me again but that never happend. After a week he sent me message that said that he had been in love with another man for weeks and things are prosperous for them. I feel cheap and used! I am a really decent, emotional, romantic and sentimental guy and I can't move on. I am constantly crying and can't focus on my work.One Night Stand?I guess you explained it in your first sentence... naive and vulnerable, and you had never had a serious sexual experience.

It sounds to me like he has said what you have wanted to hear, men like that can really pick up peoples feelings, and will tell them things they know they want to hear, and flatter their way into bed.

I am sure you are a lovely guy, you sound so sweet, and Im sorry that you have had this experience, but on the positive note, you had a good time, and you had your first sexual experience!! Great!

However, people who say things like marry me, and i want to see you every day for the rest of my life, after your first meeting, is too full on, and he, Im sorry to say is a conn artist. Cut your losses, he isnt worth your tears.



You will find a partner who truely deserves you, and will love you for you, not for whats in your pants.One Night Stand?
get back in the closetOne Night Stand?Things like that happen more often that not during one night stands, the guy you fell for is a jerk and doesn't deserve anything that comes his way. You need to get busy and stay active with friends and loved ones, because the more you think about him, the more sad you'll become. Block him out and you should be fine.
I hate that happened to you. One night stands are dangerous, as you probably know (I hope protection was involved). Don't let this hurt you too bad. Learn from it, and involve self pride when you meet someone. Don't let someone use you, and remember how it feels to be used.One Night Stand?Men can be so cruel...But you hold ur head up and know that there is one out there for you that will love you and cherish you...Mark my words something bad is going to happen to that man for doing that to you...dont worry about him..next time dont sleep anyone that is not ur mate...and dont drink if u cant handle it in a social setting...i know it will hurt for a while but this too will pass...you will find another very soon.One Night Stand?
this was just one experience of the many you will have... think of this as a lesson... try to be more careful as to how much you drink when you go out so you still know what is going on around you...

take it slow next time, youll find the right guy!

if you wanna forget about this guy or this event try finding hobbies where you could meet ppl or just stuff to do so you have your mind filled with other things... even try to meet someone else, im sure theres someone better than him
You only feel attached to this man because he was your first. My suggestion is to not go looking for love in a bar. I know that it is difficult to find other gay men in a normal setting, but you have to try. My brother-in-law is gay. He met the man he is currently dating in church. You see, it is possible. You just have to be patient. Also, gay or straight, it is never a good idea to give it up on the first night. You have to protect yourself. Best of luck.One Night Stand?
GET OVER IT!
sorry your first time had to be a one night stand but you have to understand that you went to a bar... whether your gay or straight... when you go to a bar you have to walk in knowing that you could meet people but they could only be after one thing... there are only a few times that you meet someone from a bar and it ends up becoming a relationship...it is going to be hard but you need to move on.. you cant wait for this guy... i think that he was honest with you.. and you have to honor that but you have to move on.. you are not alone there are alot of people out there that have been through this... i have also been through something like that... but the best thing that i can tell you is that you need to keep yourself busy and just try to find someone else..it will take time to get over it but you will..