Im 21 and pregnant. I have a long distance boyfriend and hes going to be soo mad. I had a one night stand?

what do i do? I love him I dont want him to leaveIm 21 and pregnant. I have a long distance boyfriend and hes going to be soo mad. I had a one night stand?Well you were old enough to get pregnant and to cheat on him so now you get to be old enough to take control. You need to tellhim, the guy you had the one night stand with (if you can find him). Then start preparing to be a single mother.Im 21 and pregnant. I have a long distance boyfriend and hes going to be soo mad. I had a one night stand?
don't know what you should do, but i'm laughing my *** off over here at how screwed up your entire situation is.



1) long distance relationships are a joke.

2) you've cheated on a guy who's not there for you.

3) you got pregnant.

4) you don't know how to admit to the guy that you cheated on him.

5) you don't know what to do.

6) i'm laughing.



seriously, you're 21. use your brain, not your vagina.Im 21 and pregnant. I have a long distance boyfriend and hes going to be soo mad. I had a one night stand?You should tell him. Better now than later. Having a kid is a blessing... You too should be happy! Talk to him about it and see where things are going. He might leave and he might not. He will get over his anger, he can't stay mad forever.



If he leaves, you still have your family and friends there to support you. Just remember that you're not alone, even though you want him to be a part of your life.



Good luck!
wow you are a jerk. I cannot believe that you love him really. It would have shown and you have obviously shown otherwise.



none the less. if he really loves you (and i think its kinda dumb too) then he might force himself to forget.



If you really do love him though i just hope that you dont do that to him again and i do hope you obtain his forgiveness.



But bieng upfront with him and telling him the truth is the best way to go in my opinion. whatever happens then happens and you have to deal with it.

much luck to youIm 21 and pregnant. I have a long distance boyfriend and hes going to be soo mad. I had a one night stand?There is nothing you can do to keep your boyfriend. Do not even think about telling him that the child is his. It will blow up in your face and it would not be right or fair. Its tough honey but you just have to be honest with him. I too got pregnant at 21 from a one night stand. Granted I do still have some sort of contact with his side of the family for future reasons but I found a great guy who has been in our life since my son was 1 1/2. Children are blessings. My son gave me true meaning to life, something live for....a purpose. You need to surround yourself with family, friends and preferrably church. Surround yourself by good people and positive things. It will all work out.Im 21 and pregnant. I have a long distance boyfriend and hes going to be soo mad. I had a one night stand?
you have to be completely honest %26amp; tell him nothing but the truth. having an abortion to hide it %26amp; throw away your problems won't help but make things worse. i know everybody make mistakes %26amp; us, humans have the strangest ways to show our love. but if you have an abortion, in the long run.. it's gonna haunt you for the rest of your entire life. you threw away god's most precious gift for your own mistakes. it sounds completely selfish right? besides, your relationship will never be the same. you'll always look into the eyes of the man you love %26amp; deeply in your heart, knowing that you kept a secret away from him. the truth will come out one day.
tough break kiddo. BTW thats not love. You gotta think about what you do and consider the pros and cons..unfortunately they don't turn out the way it should. IF you really wanna be with him and he really wants to be you ..he'll be able to work it out with but trust issues are going to occur and reoccur. ..if thats something you wanna deal with.Im 21 and pregnant. I have a long distance boyfriend and hes going to be soo mad. I had a one night stand?
What are the odds that this baby is your boyfriend's or the one night stand?

Do you want to keep the baby? Honestly, I doubt the baby is a result of a one night stand. Don't tell him you had a one night stand...but tell him you're pregnant.
You have nobody to blame but yourself, during the time you were having sex with another man - did your partner pop into your head? Cheating isn't something that should be forgiven. I really wouldn't blame him if he were to leave you.
You be straight forward and tell him the truth. That really is your only option. You may have to prepare yourself to be alone. Long distance relatinship's are hard enough and this will distroy the trust factor.
Personally, I'd get an abortion. You're too young for a baby, and it's with some random guy you hooked up with instead of your boyfriend. Sounds like the best option. I'd look into it as soon as possible.
You do the only thing you can do. You tell him the truth. There is no telling what he'll do but you're going to have to live with with consequences.
You only have two choices both have consequences.



Abort the child and never tell him (which i find awful)



Have it and hope that he loves you enough to stay.
What do you do??? You have already done it. You just pretty much f'd everthing up! I really hope you grow up and be a better mother than you are a lover.
Yeah, good idea. get an abortion because you were too STUPID to keep your legs closed. You want to know what to do? tell your bf that you slept around and that he deserves someone better than you.
well you shouldn't have cheated... sucks to be you. If you really "loved" him, you wouldn't have gotten freaky with another man.
Obviously you dont love him because you had a one night stand. No respectable girl would do that.
"I love him"





Hah!...you sure have a strange way of showing it.



Maybe you should talk to him once you discover where you last left your morals.
these things happen in l/d relationships...which is why i think its not worth your while maintaining...as for the abortion thats a sensitive subject so i cant even give my 2 cents on that one
You should tell him so that he can leave you.
why did u have a one night stand in the first place
tell him the truth its better that he hears it from you than someone else
just tell him the truth
Wow

Ouch

Sucks to be that guy
just be honest. because you cant hide it.
way to go whore