Thursday, February 9, 2012

What would change this pathological liar and cheater? a woman-or are they not able to love really?

Is the pathological lying and cheating of this man a personality disorder?

Does this man this a personality disorder maybe-is my ex a psychopath?

What would you say about this man 40 years old, I was with for almost 2 years (I am 28). He wanted an exclusive, serious relationship that would lead somewhere with me.



Then I found out he had 2 more exclusive serious relationships, one in Europe and one here.



One of the girlsfound me of FB and we spoke to each other and he kept making the same promises for the futureto the both of us



. On top of it he lied about the houses he owned (never owned anything and lives paying rent), spends money like crazy on trips, to lease expensive cars out of his budget, and maybe does coke on occasion in Miami and Ibiza when he goes. He also lied about his age in the beginning to the both of us.



He can sleep with one of us and act like he is so in love...and like a little boy in need of love one night, and then the same thing with another one of us.



He also has an online profile on still!!! The girl in Italy and I dumped him but he is still with girl #3 and who knows who else.



So pathological lying, cheating, cannot commit, drinks a lot when he goes out, and maybe does some coke on occassion.





Could this be a personality disorder???



Will this man commit to any woman???



Or is he just going to cheat all the time? I mean, the other girl and I dumped him and he is left with the other one-do you think he is going to commit to anyone now?





I have read about commitment phobia and nothing but therapy can change them. Also, some personality disorders have traits such as these.



I don't want you to answer with "who cares move on." Just curious as to what this behavior sounds like.What would change this pathological liar and cheater? a woman-or are they not able to love really?He already has the next girlfriends lined up. A very few men do actually live this way and they are basically con artists. He will in all likelihood live the rest of his life this way until he gets too old and then one lone, doggedly loyal and desperate woman will still be there to take care of his needs. You do not want to be that woman.What would change this pathological liar and cheater? a woman-or are they not able to love really?Sounds like a personality disorder. He won't change
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