Was It Just a One Night Stand?

I've been friends with a guy for over four years. We've never done anything, EVER. I am going through a messy and horrible divorce and have been for sometime. I FINALLY invited him over. He made love to me like never before. We spent the day together. He claims he loves me and claims that he isn't playing games with me. However, he used to call me all of the time. Now he seems distant. I can't get him off of my mind. Is my friendship with him over? He even came to my wedding. He's done things for my car. He's taken me out just to talk and get away waaay before he and I had sex. However, it just feels different now. Why is that? I'm divorcing my husband because of his abuse and neglect. I now feel like all of this time I kept him at bay and when I finally give in after four years, things are different. He left me a message tonight but I didn't call back. What should I do?Was It Just a One Night Stand?Well, call him back...



But slow down...you've both had your fun and got that out of your system. Now don't stress it.



And don't have sex with him again until and unless you become a couple.Was It Just a One Night Stand?
You are jumbling your life by starting something when you have not even inked your divorce.

You need time to settle your vulnerability. Your head needs to think, not your emotional feelings that lead you!!!

Take a time out.Was It Just a One Night Stand?I think he is just trying to give you space because he knows you are going through a horrible divorce right now. He also probably isn't sure how you feel about him or how you want to pursue the situation. It feels different because you and him are no longer just friends, the two of you have crossed that line now. You should decide how you feel and how you want to move forward rather that be starting seeing him or go back to being just friends then give him a call and explain your feelings and ask him to explain his.Was It Just a One Night Stand?
You know...maybe you both are a little disappointed about the jankey sex session.



I'd say give it some time and you two will be good ol pals once again.Was It Just a One Night Stand?Sounds like rebound not doubting your blissful feelings atm but slow down dont rush anything and dont act desperate for anyones attention . Be honest with your friend and let them take it or live it . And yes when you cross that line from friend to lover things are rarley the same , It's just something time has to heal if you want to keep the friendship.Was It Just a One Night Stand?
I think so..sorry

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