I really wish my mom was different?

This is a little personal, but since im annoymus, i guess its alright to write out to the internet.

I hate my mom, she is ignorant, and self centered. There is no such thing as logic in her eyes. There is so much things that i hate her for but i guess i will start here.

My dad is a hardworking scientist that takes a lot of **** for us. He could be a head professor of an entire department, but instead, he chooses to be only an assistant for half the money he would otherwise make because he needs to stay in america or else i cannot continue my education here.

My mom on the other hand is a total lazy *****. Maybe her English is bad and she can't really get a job. but she could at least clean the house, cook, or just help around in general. Instead, she sits on her *** all day on the computer, spent all nights talking on the phone, and then tells my dad he doesn't make enough money. Its painful to see her fight with my dad everything. She's also selfish, just yesterday, one of her relatives came to my dad for help. That relative's friend just got cancer in the lungs and was looking forward to come to America for treatment. My dad tried to tell her about the situation but the moment she heard it she told him to delete the Email and ignore it. My dad declined and said he really wanted to help that family. It turns out my mom has a grudge against that relative. She called all her "friends" and the funny thing is, no one agreed with her. Even that piece of **** that the witch has been cheating with. In anger, she barged in my dads room and started to hit him, trying to force him to delete the email. In retaliation, my dad hit her back, once. Somehow, logic was not present and she began to cry and screamed about how much HE mistreats her. She broke a laptop, almost all the furniture in my dads room, and also my headset and laptop cooler, because apparently im siding with my dad against her. Presently, im in my room with the locks on because she's threatening to beat me. My dad had a friend and his family all the way from New York to come visit my house. What did my mom do? She complained about him blatantly during the dinner all the way to midnight. My dad's friend sacrificed his night at the hotel just to stay here and my mom knowing this, still went on.



Another angering story is the summer before. My mom just sold one of the houses and we made 400 thousand dollars. She came back with the money and that's when her ego shot up the sky. Everyday, she would complain how she is feeding my dad and how shameful he should be. Breaking **** in the room, throwing the lamps and his books. Apparently, my dad is now the lazy one, and my dad is the one not supporting our family. The truth was, all she did was sold the house that my dad ******* bought. In reality, she didn't make ****. Everyday she would curse out my dad and everyday he would ignore her. But the more he ignored, the louder she got. Once when the power went out due to the rain, and my mom threw a big fit because he could not take her to his office just to use the computer. Even after she lost most of the money left after we bought our house due to her lack of talent in business, her ego was still higher than the sky. She would call everyone ignorant, and naive. Funny thing is, she failed 5th grade and college while at the same time, one of the ******* she was cheating with walked away with 10 grand.



I was at the top of my class in middle school. I went a prestigious school that only those who passed a test and interview could get in. At that time, i was also discovering my talent in chess. In the same year I learned chess, I won a national chess championship trophy. All my mom ever did was brag to everyone how talented i was. While at home, she would scold me and hit me for playing too much chess. Her reasoning was that i was too snobby and egoistic just because i won a ******* chess tournament. After many confrontations, i eventually began to lose interest, perhaps out of the injustice. and you know what really pisses me off? Now she has the audacity to tell me, I should play more chess.

I really want some comfort on the internet as my mind is giving me the image of her death, and her grave in which no one visits, because no one loves her, at least not anymore. oh, and i forgot to mention, she even refused to divorce my dad because apparently, i need her and she needs to take care of me. When in reality, she wants his money so she can feed that ****** back in china.I really wish my mom was different?
Honey, I'm so sorry for that. Sometimes, people are actually like that. But I handled these kind of situations before.

Solutions:

1) Try and talk to her and listen to her "problems with the family" but if she starts to beat you again, RUN BACK TO YOUR ROOM AND SLAM THE DOOR.

2) Try talking to your closest friend's parents (you want to trust them to keep this a secret) and tell them what's happening. Maybe they can talk to your mom and reason her out.

3) This is the solution I had no choice but to make... But I threatened the person to leave me alone and if they touched me (or you and your dad in this situation), I would have no more choice than to use self-defense. You just can't lay around, being bossed around, being contradicted, and feeling discouraged JUST BECAUSE OF A SELFISH, JEALOUS MOM. If she refuses to back down, say

"What are you going to do? Beat me? Kill me? Kick me out of the house? Because YOU'RE the ***** who should be helping the family too you *****."

That's just what I did... That perso ended up with the police for child abuse and attacking innocent people.



I hope this helps... Good luck, dear.