Can a man that pathologically lies and cheats ever really love? WHy is he doing all this in your opinion?

Is the pathological lying and cheating of this man a personality disorder?

Does this man this a personality disorder maybe-is my ex a psychopath?

What would you say about this man 40 years old, I was with for almost 2 years (I am 28). He wanted an exclusive, serious relationship that would lead somewhere with me.



Then I found out he had 2 more exclusive serious relationships, one in Europe and one here.



One of the girlsfound me of FB and we spoke to each other and he kept making the same promises for the futureto the both of us



. On top of it he lied about the houses he owned (never owned anything and lives paying rent), spends money like crazy on trips, to lease expensive cars out of his budget, and maybe does coke on occasion in Miami and Ibiza when he goes. He also lied about his age in the beginning to the both of us.



He can sleep with one of us and act like he is so in love...and like a little boy in need of love one night, and then the same thing with another one of us.



He also has an online profile on still!!! The girl in Italy and I dumped him but he is still with girl #3 and who knows who else.



So pathological lying, cheating, cannot commit, drinks a lot when he goes out, and maybe does some coke on occassion.





Could this be a personality disorder???



Will this man commit to any woman???



Or is he just going to cheat all the time? I mean, the other girl and I dumped him and he is left with the other one-do you think he is going to commit to anyone now?





I have read about commitment phobia and nothing but therapy can change them. Also, some personality disorders have traits such as these.



I don't want you to answer with "who cares move on." Just curious as to what this behavior sounds like. What would be typical reasons?Can a man that pathologically lies and cheats ever really love? WHy is he doing all this in your opinion?i think you should repost this question in the mental health section to get better answers. but in my opinion even if this guy really did love either of you its not worth all the lies and pain you'd be going through with himCan a man that pathologically lies and cheats ever really love? WHy is he doing all this in your opinion?well, some guys are like this bc they are scared of commitment and cnt move on. but sounds like he does have a disorder and cnt help this. so dnt hold anything against him until he is check outt.Can a man that pathologically lies and cheats ever really love? WHy is he doing all this in your opinion?"Or is he just going to cheat all the time? I mean, the other girl and I dumped him and he is left with the other one-do you think he is going to commit to anyone now?"



Save him having to cheat again, why dont he date the two of you at the same time...

..and like take the two of you to Miami and Ibiza spending the nights together havin threesomes partying on some of that coke of his?